Q: advocacy of children through the news recently, the school already know the earthquake this thing, and the kindergarten was organized donations, fly a flag at half-mast, activities of silence, when it is said that silence, the entire kindergarten and crying, I would like to ask the experts, a disaster for these indirect witness children, can ease their emotions? Schools, kindergartens in particular do you really need to get so tragic? The significance of education and the negative effects which may be encountered more what?
A: I think the child away from the earthquake, to children\'s understanding, he is unlikely to have such strong feelings. I have a student\'s children, as their children\'s education is more respectful of children, he asked the children, do you want money? He has 2000 block of lucky money. Children taken into account for a long time said that I donate five dollars. I think this is a true child of the world. So, I quite agree with the views of the user, really does not need to get so sad, for kindergarten children.
I personally feel that some emotions should be spontaneous, rather than being taught. If sympathetic to others to be taught, the child grew up after other people\'s sympathies, even he can\'t tell what is from one of the real humor, or just do the things you should do.
However from the child\'s individual communication, I feel that sometimes parents teachers, you can find some opportunity to talk to children about death issue, when children are actually very, very small, it has to have a very strong fear of death.
I remember my daughter seems to have often talked about death when I was two or three years, she would tell me, father, I am afraid of death. Dad, can you not old? Will you die? She would talk with little long. This may have for each person is an eternal topic, so parents can take advantage of Wenchuan earthquake disaster, measured with the child talk about the problem of death.
For example said to her, in this time of the earthquake, some children have no father and mother, they may have to be and kind-hearted uncles donated money to support the Government to see what his reaction. Children of all ages of the different issues raised, in answer to this question, we need to adhere to the principle one, we cannot lie to him.
But in case of religious background or religious traditions of the family, parents will say to him, if you make a good man, you would to heaven. This is in fact denies death with this traditional religious forms and enable them to acquire comfort. Man without a religious tradition, or by religion, converted to religion to resolve such issues.
Answer experts: qifeng
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