International summer camp counselor found United States child courageous is very big, they are not afraid of dark, not afraid to go out alone, without fear of mountain high water quick, afraid of insect beast; speaking \"rushed\", good communication, generally have more ideas, dare to think, to Chuang; does not require adults to accompany, there had never been dangerous. Children in other countries in this regard than United States child, why so? Rich of more than 20 years experience in children\'s education instructors, Japan gangqixizi access to the United States 215 external representative of the family.
After the study, she came to the conclusion that: United States Home importance to understand the natural and social environment for the kids \' education, attention to the independent spirit of self-reliance is best developed when young children, focusing on fostering children\'s communication skills and self-protection ability in a variety of environments. Specific approach has the following several points:
Start 1, self trained from early childhood.
United States many children from infancy to live alone in a room. Children grow up to three or four years old, have a fear of psychological, parents to buy a very small dark light, burning through the night, to expel children on the night of terror. Parents to their children before going to bed at night the room giving children a kiss and said, \"boy, I love you! Good night! Have a good dream! \"Back to her bedroom. Children hold a fabric bears, dolls toys, such as Enron fall asleep.
2, must not always round the child go.
Americans love their children, but does not always hold, staring at the boy. Six or seven months on his own holding bottles of water, drink milk, eat on their own learning with a knife. Children often sub in food on the table, on the ground, but parents must not feed, always let your child eat. Children in the game is also done on my own or with the children a few clinging to parents. Parents travel, give small children to grandparents or spend money to host others, brought a few days. Home Office party or to other people\'s Party, also see the parents always take their children.
3, enable children to receive training.
Engineer with 3-year old son James to visit his parents in the country, 10 km outside the city. After dinner, was dark, had stopped the bus to town development. If you live in, tomorrow now also reasonable, and James with his son walk back. Son, his son, so die black home. Why do this? James said: in order for the son grew up familiar with dark and eat a little bitter.
4, teach children to use the tools.
United States parents teach the child was young, I understand and use the various tools and electrical appliances. Parents often say: \"you should learn to use these tools, something is broken, you will be able to help yourself to fix. \"Tools including a handsaw, plane, files, screwdrivers, pliers, etc. Parents teach their children the use of these tools, performance, let the children master the operation main points, and to encourage children to use them in daily life. Five or six years old children, parents will teach their use a gas cooker, electric oven and washing machine. Things no matter where in the House is out of order, parents are encouraging their children a bold attempt to own repairs.
5, teach children to adapt to the environment.
John Paul Bai Lamu couple holidays with sons and daughters, aged 5 to 8 years of tourism in mountain areas. Each event is called when the stream you want through son observation of water potential, find the most shallow and flow more slowly Wade point, and then decided by the parents is feasible. If you choose incorrectly, would explain truth and teaching children how to recognize the depth and velocity. When the mountain, they never take the tramway, and selected by the children climbing routes. Cliffs the cliffs is encountered on the way, let the children judge decides there is no danger, climb, and ask the child how to ensure security. After repeated practice of hell, look afraid of mountain high water quick and dare to risk.
6, for self-protection training.
E= \"TEXT-INDENT:2em\" > fashion designer miqier has a 10 year old daughter and a 7 year old boy, he took when they take to the streets, teach children rules of the road and commanded other considerations anytime, anywhere, show how dangerous what security. Many parents tell their children remember the required phone number, such as parental unit telephone phone, the police station, fire telephone, telephone in hospital.
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