Shocked the world on May 12, 2008 China Wenchuan earthquake occurred, from, Chaoyang District, Beijing, the capital of one of their own national networked media of the child is 4 years old female editor circuit, published an article saying: \"I had the pleasure of reading an article today very rare works of the science but Ma yuge father at an early stage of the law of life and life education for children. Is, on how to boot, it can help children cope with the loss of their loved ones a huge change, of great benefit. \' 512 \' earthquake, who directly never lost relatives of hundreds of thousands of poor children, they withstand the tremendous grief and panic is unprecedentedly tragic. All the conscience of the people in this world, all are anxious, to tears! If we all big people of, usual body Department happiness peace life, had are can like Ma Yu song father as, many has vision of hardship consciousness and mind, early to on on next generation timely to for has has is depth of life law education , especially in life aspects to and had they enough of health psychological effect, in burst unfortunately event once outbreak Shi, regardless of was encountered how of hit and combat, certainly will large conducive to children were strong stands of. This is a global positive attention, very urgent social issues of the times. But Ma yuge father has with its advanced and practical theory of successful practice, for all parents, teachers, opened an innovative scientific spirit and full of noble humanistic background of well head. His subtle affecting more and more people, they should be how to better the actual care of their children, from real to their offspring happy on the essential meaning. ”
2008 Chinese New Year Eve, my grandmother thromboangiitis advanced illness attack, irreparably to wash its hands of the world of man has left us forever. We in the summer of 2007, the family have had visited her elderly. At that time my daughter Jia Jia 5 years and 3 months,
a certain memory.Six months later, unfortunately pass away suddenly faced with loved ones, plus 6 years of age at this time of the best, I think she looked scared. On the surface, the problem seems to be very serious, intermittent discourse to me from her and found that things aren\'t so simple. An exception is that was first, my grandmother has just passed away before long, she is present on the toilet stool, speak incoherently, rushed me out of a sentence: \"MOM, I don\'t want to die, die nothing in sight. \" I listened, yizheng immediately squatted down and told her:\" baby, you\'re still so small, so healthy, no! ”
Daughter is actually very sensible. She will speak up, it is reasonable. Everything, as long as explained to her, she\'ll soon feel relieved. If you inadvertently produce excessive demands we clarifying the parents do not agree with her reasons, she can no longer immediately entangled. 佳佳 Quick off the mark, a faster response, strong understanding, rarely get us angry. Only exception is the 3 or 4 years old at that time we called her, she and her cousin heart, both in a small room is not promised herself in, he took several times not to open the door. (Prior we had confessed, cannot close the door to play) when they are far from agreed to, not to open the door! People are really angry. Husband just took the keys, she was just himself opened the door from the inside. Her husband was furious, suddenly picked up, threw her on the bed in our room, also took her on her ass. I also angrily called her next. On that occasion, may be better to better scare. After we gave ourselves, when the reaction was too radical.
My grandmother was very ill died, from beginning, Jia Jia is fully aware: great too leave because of a serious illness is no way. Have tried to cure this disease, poor treatment (also created misunderstandings and conflicts among relatives). Major was great too is too old, more than 90 years old is too old. Body as a machine that a
ge will not help go wrong in many places, why treat invalid suddenly pass away. If it is not the disease, according to Grandma bone relatively sturdy body, elderly people will live for many years are not a problem.My daughter Jia Jia\'s mind is: \"I love life, I\'m afraid will one day suddenly gone. \" Daughter\'s feelings is very delicate and very sensitive. Around their loved ones, unfortunately deceased, it may also include November 2007 my sister-in-law father, complications of gastric calculus, spend a lot of money and unable to huitian suddenly left us----better better from this one on two events, think of her. Her timely and sensitive response is completely than we expected. But I was right when the children are just children Mowgli. Thought on the course of life, later on to give her, just no need to give her so early on.
Now, since her own initiative to touch a sensitive topic in this regard, it seems that we are trying to avoid the point again.
Previously I have noticed some very special material, there is a loving father and daughter in Beijing described, true story of educational life. Specialty Ma Yuge father of Tsinghua University, in their own children at a very small, timely daughter, Ma Yu song, other people could not think of very artistic, effectively been very intuitive science education about life and death. As long as these stories on the Web to search \"but Ma yuge\" this name, you can see, more than one article. Ma Yuge of father to let own of children as soon as possible experience to people of health and died, not future face burst event fleeting comes, because age too small bear does not up, children appears accident reaction; so Ma Yu song father is has plan to using leisure time, personally led just Shang primary school soon of second grade 7 aged daughter, together came to has homes near Hospital of Taiping between, to see, and to feel; and combination eyes of all patience to on children contact ancient and modern interest
, for rich philosophy of science interpretation, makes small daughter from eyes of actual contact in the, real feeling to has life of respectable and noble, and love family of valuable and no price. For the emotional experience, while Ma Yuge dad to let their children know how early the treasure the meaning of life, how should treasure good times alive. IRemember Ma Yuge dad once said: \"everyone knows that \' chushengniudubupahu \'. Children experiencing these in person, as long as not to frighten her, children won\'t be afraid at all. Like to play against, since then, the child meets this really happens, she was never afraid of loss. \"Ma Yuge\'s father later by public holidays, active with her children came to a few people to patronize\" Hospice hospital \". Daddy and daughter dying to strangers the beat, enthusiasm and offered love, volunteering sth Ma Yuge father through this series of effects like syllabus guidelines of subtle calculated, and a step by step practice of systematic family education after class, so that their child was born and established a selfless feelings of great and noble spiritual pursuit. Results of this girl, and life along the way, so optimistic, so harmonious. Ma Yuge everything that happened in the face of social and personal life, never panicked and whether all big and small issues, people, are disposed of properly, is justifiable and full of humanity. After grown up, she really became a Thanksgiving, righteous, active and promising, example of love life, love life talent. The female hearts, well-known in the world! Ma Yuge record in these areas, how to be fascinating stories from family science education, a lot. In the search engines such as Baidu search \"little reading lang journey\" and \"(laiwu city, Shandong laiwu newspaper issue 2008 C22 the LU morning magazine in an edition of education week)\", or search for \"assigned to book tomorrow\'s teachers of section II of the fifth chapter three the book pick\" and other words , can find them at once. These materials, not only caused a strong interest in reading and I Lenovo, later also inspired me to take seriously his daughter better better things. As Ma Yu song Daddy did, very visionary, early scientific guidance and positive education for children, is the real in the care of his daughter, true to descendants of a lifetime of happiness! This is my current personal reality, merely from my mood. Always encounter a great flood disaster of life. Unfortunately when there are no coming head, most people are not easy to understand this point, more do not know how to plan ahead; on unprepared a day, suddenly a major scourge, then understand that I am afraid it is too late. What is the direct impact of the unhappy people, how severe, it is difficult to envision, it is difficult to estimate. Especially for those children who have no experience of [in] life, the consequences may be worse, irreparable. Over the years, we shocked the world series of major accidents in China and unfortunately, tens of thousands of families or individuals, in this context of profound suffering brought deep and bitter lessons do not say!I soon too died after Jia Jia on her great responses tell Jia Jia\'s father in a timely manner. Her father immediately with 佳佳 explains human illness issues, and specifically said that science is now developed, more people will live a long life in the future. 佳佳 heard, told us that she wants to be a doctor, later inventing a drug, eating people can live forever.
2008 Spring Festival Yin calendar year 18 (that is, the twelfth month of the lunar year 18), we return to the home. During my talk to his or her parents sitting together, naturally also talked about how to take care of my grandmother funeral those old topic. Talk to people \', as luck would have it be accidentally heard by my daughter Jia Jia. She told her father that again: \"Dad, I was very afraid of dying. \" I was talking to my parents because at that time, no deep reason to pay heed
to better find better say that the meaning of, but did not want her on this how will pull back to the old topic. I think that may be up to her a little scene brings back memories, in her little emotion.My husband told me he heard better better words, is to explain the renewal of life from another angle to better hear, also cloned sheep – Victoria of the story to her, and that scientists are studying the issue of human cloning.
In my home to be finished, we went from my home to come to Guangzhou, went to Uncle\'s in Foshan 佳佳 continued lunar years. Her uncle\'s House, who knows, good first thing better, her grandparents were asked, ever heard of clone sheep than things? Great saying do not know, and home public not know. In the heart of my daughter Jia Jia, his grandfather was in this world who know the most. Now even her grandfather is not know, her doubt her father she said cloning sheep than it ever has. Husband also feel this too unexpected results on the spot: master of how even the most loved watching TV news, do not know today\'s cloned sheep that reverberate like thunder!
In the evening for dinner when better better first ask her aunt ever heard cloned sheep. Aunt answer don\'t know. Asked after his uncle, first with 佳佳 was sure her uncle said: \"the cloned sheep, is going on. First cloned sheep named Dolly! \"Thank God, has finally met a salvation! But we haven\'t previously by gas! 佳佳 \'s Uncle really have patience, not only to better better explains what cloning means, also told how the cloned sheep cloning out than the entire process of sth Are special terms, more than her dad explained it I do not know how many times. Jia Jia is, uncle is really know about it, your Daddy no stories to trick her.
Finish this winter, and soon the past month. Few weeks of school, go to bed one night, Jia Jia asked me: \"mother, my grandfather is now several years old? \" My answer is 77 years old. She also asked in another 20 years, Grandpa how old? This s
he should take advantage of knowledge of their own will now count, so I ask: \"what do you say? \" She thought for a moment say 97,----language with no choice but finally added a sentence saying:\" Oh, so old. \" She asked me:\" many years Grandpa 93? \" In order to avoid making too late, and stresses the very late to shuixia, I would tell her:\" Grandpa 93, also 16. \" Better better hadvanished, asking herself after 16 years the few years old? I said: \"you are now almost 6 years old, \' 16+6 \' how much it is? \" I guide her, her own work, worked out their ownThen just 22 years old. I also didn\'t realize that she asked these questions on the spot trying to do, just feel free to talk. Didn\'t think she was very seriously with her little face on my eyes, a solemn oath to me said: \"mother, my grandfather almost 90 years old you just tell me, I then rush to the clone to the grandfather! \" She also lie in my ear, cocked his head to me, added:\" our most old Grandpa, Grandpa I don\'t want to die! ”Oh, my lovely daughter, around the way, turned out to be the case! I listened, laughed and laughed, leaching out even tears in his eyes, immediately against the daughter\'s forehead gave kissed her tiny lips. That night, looked better better sleep into dream of Apple is like the small faces, I think a lot, for a long time. (Author: Shenzhen, Guangdong, liujuanjuan)
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