Now China is 134 million for the elderly, to achieve a comprehensive well-off society in China also increased more than 100 million, is a 240 million to 260 million man at that time.
Shanghai Academy of educational science a 0~3sui baby belt\'s latest survey, by the ancestors of parents involved in the baby milk to raise as much as 84.6%. Shanghai 0~6sui 50~60% of the children belong to the intergenerational education; Guangzhou intergenerational education children account for half of the total; in Beijing, accepted generational education of children up to 70%.
Statistical data show that United States has 130 million 0~3sui of infants by their ancestors through various forms of participation in care.
Shanghai Academy of educational sciences for 0~3sui baby belt on way of the latest survey also shows that diet care of baby nourishing content now and into the shuttle almost entirely by the old man to do, activities such as child\'s play of the game is mainly borne by the mother, subject to the ancestors more than 30% as the main care providers.
Chen: the saying goes, there was an old, racing like a treasure. Next to me it\'s more fun to experience deep. Lele\'s father was a soldier, mother is a doctor, the young couple very busy all day go home from work on time. Lele mother maternity leave after 1 year to work, it\'s more fun grandmother come to help look after Lele, to the young couple saved a lot of worries, this is the intergenerational care, that is, the care of grandparents grandchildren. Lele\'s father and mother working during the day before the age of 3, is the small aunt and grandmother to take care, pointing small aunt Grandma taught Lele climbed to go running and jumping, let young aunt with it\'s more fun with recorders learning children\'s songs, House, play games, cold hot Grandma reminds timely changes of clothes, hungry thirsty grandmother told to eat what to drink. Lele MOM and dad came back from work at night, to ask after SB. \' s needs for the elderly, hand water tea, after meals for the elderly turned on the TV, watching some of their favorite show, while Lele followed parents walk, stopping by, sometimes came to my house, showing the ability to learn these days. I often hear the gales of laughter from their home.
Editing: family like Lele\'s lots around us, said famous athletes Liu Xiang, from grandparents grew up, so the material. Now China\'s aged population increased year by year, young people also have to bear an enormous amount of work pressure, involved in the care of children is also a resource utilization for the elderly. From the perspective of older persons, average life expectancy in China is more than 70 years old, after the retirement of the 50~60sui, enjoy the grandchild of This Happy Breed, they enrich spiritual life needs.
Chen: of course, also often appears in life helps children to look after the child is not a pleasant thing for the elderly. Such as, parents tube children Shi elderly shield a shortcoming or fault, parents does not allows children do of, elderly is think doesn\'t matter, so children became difficult to train; then such as young couple only own work dating, home eat ready-made of, even Bowl are too lazy wash, happy Shi makes children playing playing, does not happy Shi too children annoying: \"to to, found Grandma to\", entire to elderly Dang nanny order about, full forget has own has known parents; elderly also forget has own just to help help, this shouldn\'t belly-worship. As a result, young couple cannot leave his father, how can take parental role?
Editing: say one thing here. In February of this year in a NBA General match, maidi rockets famous stars to leave the stadium, because his wife in the hospital is about to produce. Teams, referees and fans for his choices given the understanding and support. Visible, parents give their children\'s emotional care is no one to replace. As a parent, in the following cases, there is no reason not to stay with children.
1, before weaning, peace of mind take your maternity leave, breastfeeding. Each day in breastfeeding, and children to a full range of contact, let your child know your good looks, smells, sounds, ensure that the child has any of you first need to appear in his side.
2, after work, children, time to complete the liberation of the children of the elderly. Sleep is the time to people most in need of security, is the cultivation of a sense of the most important period in infants. Ensure the baby before going to bed at night to see you, and get a sense of security.
3, holidays, as baby-centric as possible. To tell his story, brought him to some fresh air Park, Plaza Sun distance for work to make up for the usual parent-child education, so that elderly people can also liberate tough week.
Chen: 0~3sui, is the key to establish a relationship of deep attachment period, children with parents in particular, the only secure attachment relationship with the mother, to lay a solid foundation for the growth of healthy personality, is more likely to become emotional open, stable and self-confident person. If due to work reasons to leave with the children, preferably 1 after weaning, and grandparents after the first familiar and intimate relationship with the child, then separated from their parents. After the separation, the elderly often brought their parents with the children can let children know their parents in the photo is in love with him (her), and parents should always keep in touch with the children, reducing child loneliness, depression, feeling and the sense of insecurity.
Edit: at the time of a child-centred, not to snub the tiring for you a week of ancestors, squeezing more time, for old people to attend university or various societies, clubs for the elderly in the elderly, take part in group exchanges, tourism, both to let the elderly make up new knowledge, broaden our horizons, and to ensure that elderly people have a healthy body and good mood. At the same time, communicate more on the education of children and the elderly, equality, consult a tone of discussion on how to educate children and the elderly, do not dispute in front of the children and the elderly, so as not to affect the healthy development of children.
Chen: for intergenerational care, ancestors to gradually let go, do not substitute children choice or alternative thinking of child\'s parents. Young parents to undertake their responsibilities. Raising a child key is to help children grow up, as the young parents, should follow the child growth.
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