Child tells a lie does not mean that he is very bad

Please don\'t lie qualities equate with the children, because the lie sometimes is just fantasy, or little children of wishful thinking.
　
Many parents their kids have a wrong understanding-they think my children have grown up, wiser, is no longer a baby, so children should understand that they say is fact or myth. Not necessarily! In fact, lie is one of the children are growing up normal. In fact, often boast of children under 5 years old, because they cannot distinguish between fact and fantasy, shit completely different from lying; over 5 years old children are no more shit exist, they are lying because of various reasons.
　
2-4: love shit
　
Why do children lie: child of this age has a wealth of imagination, living in a fantasy world, so they often say something irrelevant talks. When you bring children from the Park when we go home, he said he saw the Unicorn in the Park. He is not willing to cheat you. A different perspective, which shows his intelligence is still at the stage of constant development. Your child cannot distinguish between what is real and what is false, he can\'t put his dreams and real living areas separated.
　
Some children also say some minor panic fear parents blame and punishment. They will accuse those yourself out of a friend, told the parents that they have made these mistakes. Because they know their naughty makes parents unhappy, so told a lie.
　
Hear what lies: such children because lying will be punished, not only does not make any sense, there may be a negative role.
　
In fact, your tirade on honesty and integrity, such a big baby, just the ear; punishment nor can he know what the problem in place. Moreover, he certainly is not willing to let you know after those naughty things. Therefore, more attention to some of his bad behaviour would be better. You can tell your children: \"I know you are afraid of me unhappy, so didn\'t want to tell me the truth. But I saw you had children. If you are polite to him next time, I think he will bring his toys for you to play.
　
Also, to explain clearly to the child what he wanted does not mean that it belongs to him. If your children at the Mall got his favorite toy is said to be his own, so you\'ll have to clearly tell him: \"I know you really, really want to have the toy, but it does not really belong to you, it belongs to the shopping centre. \"Slowly, the children will learn to distinguish fact and fantasy. However, if your child\'s little lies too much care, will be more or less stifled children\'s imagination. And expose the children of a lie than children learning language expression of it as an opportunity. Parents certainly do not want to suppress children\'s fantasy, because of the illusion will be creative. Therefore, parents only should do is to ensure that the child\'s imagination will not hurt themselves and others. For example, parents can let the children believe in Santa Claus, but you must let the child know that people are unable to fly, even if the wing is not. If a child is always beyond was forgotten, so parents would be better to talk about children of the Wolf! Story, let the children know how to treat people honestly is important.
　
5-7: avoid reprimanded
　
Why do children lie: come to school age children, they will realize that lying is a good way to resolve the issue or to escape punishment. Because the children to let them lie more credible, so they will go through better processing of the lie. 6 year old children already know that if he told his teacher his homework was eaten by dogs, I\'m sure the teacher does not believe, however, if he says \' I was sick, so there is no homework \', that may be able to muddle through.
　
There is no doubt that children will certainly continue to improve his skills of deception, tempted him cheating how big is the limit. This time, parents of \"killer apps\" just can\'t let the child because the panic, resolved the issue became his elation to escape away. Moreover, when parents to educate their children virtues of honesty, it is best to lead by example, in front of the children where possible, to be honest, not lying. Also, to let the children know the intimate relationship between man and man is established on the basis of mutual trust.
　
Hear what lies: telling your children sometimes white lies are in order not to hurt the feelings of others.
　
However, when you find your child lying just to cover up his mistake and do something wrong when you should clearly tell him at once you should not allow him to lie. Parents \' stance is very important for the kids. What about children lie is should be punished? Not necessarily.
　
If the topic of children for ever brush your teeth and lying, so parents can remind him to rush to brush my teeth, and thereafter lot inspection and monitoring him. Slowly, the children wouldn\'t have lied because of brushing your teeth problems. In turn, because these irrelevant if parents lie while the boy lashed out, and even punish him, the parents of these practices will enable children to become a great master of lies. Therefore, it should be said that measures for the punishment of children is the last resort for a.
　
If a child stealing someone else\'s toy or do other things is extremely bad behavior, and in order to cover up these acts had lied to you, then, is when children must be punished at this time, and you want to let him know is deprived of his right to watch cartoons on the first day because his behavior, it is because the next day he tells a lie. However, parents should be aware that the punishment does not give children immediately realized his mistake; wants the child to correct the error takes time and trust of the parents.
　
Children\'s lying behavior, parentsYou can try the following approach:
　
1, if you know a child tells a lie, do not repeatedly asked to him. In fact, parents want to be able to give children a chance to tell the truth, but the results gave the children a chance to lie. Therefore, if the parents knew the truth, do not ask children when parents do not know the truth, but could be sure children\'s answers are not trusted, then also don\'t mention problems to children. In short, not to lie to your kids to ask questions. Otherwise, only forced the children obscured his earlier lies with their lies, both to deepen the guilt and anxiety of child psychology, also make parents more furious. In this way, might as well believe that their own judgments, tell the child that you want or ask him what to do.
　
2, if a child is a habitual liar, then to the children questions first before you tell them you know he is lying to you, and then allow him to give you a better view. Many children are lying no thought at all before they can say anything else reasons. Therefore, parents can pre-emptively: \"I know that if I ask you, you certainly don\'t want to tell the truth to me. However, I hope you can give me a better view. Ready yet? I want to ask. \"And then put questions to the child. This approach has 3 benefits: first, it gives children time to decide whether to open the lie it or is it something else; second, it avoids mutual dispute intensification; three, since the parents allow the child tells a lie, and has prepared, then the parents would not be angry or restless.
　
3, in order to let the children try a taste of lies, parents can also lie to their children. For example, children want to go to the movies, parents have promised him. But parents and that in a moment, children will ask why parents lie. At this time, parents can easily tell him: \"I did think the truth is not important. Maybe I was easily just said \' OK \', but don\'t really shows would have to take you to. I feel at home we speak to you in this way, you treat us like that. You\'re telling me \"I\" have to say the truth? However, said not to tell the truth do not important to you? This fair? \"After listening to what children feel.