Chinese and foreign child concept

1. pregnant is not a disease

Norway less broad, very rich, 5 heavy snow in the winter months, very cold, summer, sunny, very casual, if there is no family, no children at home, winter is very cold, summer is boring. In the minds of Europeans, married to a man and a woman and not a home, having a baby is the real family. Here also has to keep themselves don\'t kids DINK (Dink family), very few women were concerned about figure out not to have children because Norway people like to eat fish and vegetables, and mother will not punish because pregnancy gave effect, will not break the favorite sport, naturally not too fat, production generally went smoothly, fast recovery.

Therefore, Norway mother not too fat, kids around 7 kg more normal, and their per capita stands at about 1.75, exceedingly.

Once be pregnant in the country, alarmed for the whole family, Grandma to cooking, Grandma to meals, same as the protection of national treasures for the whole family out a fat Mama, mother of 30, 40, child a 7 kg 8 kg not uncommon. In Norway, no thing! My Grandpa and Grandma grandmother Grandpa call, care about enough, lacking any special care they still went to work, as always to do the housework campaign, even if there are child care, doctors will say, this is a very useful exercise. Check is not so frequent, 12 week blood urine, 17 weeks doing b-for the first time, unless bleeding or not endure the pain, nothing does not go to the hospital, is a step in the future of prenatal examinations.

Here, in addition to eating folate and calcium tablets, there are no other special to add to. Food, to child nutrition and mother built after recovery, high protein low oil less salt and sugar, movement, and not strenuous exercise to prevent abortions in addition to the first 3 months, 6 months later against doing heavy work to prevent preterm birth, and other business as usual, walking to drive every day, summer swimming, running, cycling, winter skiing is still continuing.

2. production like meeting the neonatal family gathering
Production is a natural phenomenon, usually adhere to the normal labor. Because many families are not just a child, usually two or 3, and the interval is very near, if caesarean section, children need more than 2 years, and is, after all, surgery will leave a legacy, once accidentally lifelong regret. So, as much as possible adhere to normal childbirth, Norway spontaneous labor at 80%. More important is that the birth of children is parents and families a rare experience, easy delivery is the most natural and most intimate ways of meeting the child\'s arrival, MOM and Dad a few hours children work together, how an unforgettable memory.

　
3. who bring children?

1 aged yiqian, here are is mother father own personally with children, does not as domestic by Grandpa Grandma grandfather grandmother or nanny to with, outside progenitor parents are had trained good of higher education, has own of life and hobby, some also in continues to work, is does not help with with children of, moreover, this is we own of children of, is we own of responsibility, course is to we own with children to enjoy children to family brings of fun. Children make their own parents, few people interfere in parameter statements, also reduce the divergence of views increases trust directly from the child\'s parents and direct exchange opportunity.

　　

4. maternity leave arrangements?

Here a small population, high taxes, welfare is very good, low birth rates, thus encouraging people to have children. Working mother, you can select from 10 months to take maternity leave with full pay, or 80% 12 months paid maternity leave, Dad 1 months of paid maternity leave. Here even the most importance to the so-called \"confinement\" is her husband leave for a month at home to help with the baby, no one help by others. Company does not have any concerns about the employment of women, because of the maternity allowance is paid by the Government.

Because little wage differential between women and men, women also like go out to work, blue collar white collar after tax almost, boss of wage earners do not have much of the gap, therefore, also a father with children at home, my mother went out to work, or father with children at home for half a year, mothers with children at home for six months, very fair. Children can also be under the care of parents and grew up, character development more balanced. All to MOM and dad give my whole heart to accompany the first year of the child to create a good economic conditions.
5. parental fees?

Because they have good health insurance, child birth expenses are all free, including the cost of labour by taxi to the hospital is free. No working mother or one-time grants 30,005 kroner from the Government.

Before the age of 3, all in Norway\'s child, or in Norway has more than 1 year of stay children, there are 970 kroner per month of milk powder. After 1 year old children, do not go to kindergarten by the mothers themselves, mothers get 3,300 kroner per month of the subsidy, kindergarten fees generally around 5,000 kroner, if deduction as part of the kindergarten to kindergarten tuition fees, parents about actual expenditure over more than 2000, which average salary at 300,000 to 400,000 kroner of Norway is nothing expensive cost. Therefore, unlike other countries, Norway who are not willing to tax cuts, once the tax cut, means welfare reducing, we be willing to support higher tax benefits.
6. baby hardware configuration of the device?

A man with child no one helper, not necessarily hard, because the methods used are simple and easy. Hardware devices must have easy, cars, diapers, Chair, car seat sth Several large while spending money, but value for money.

　
7. the child care consultants?

As a new mother, are generally reluctant to lay down their children control their child\'s emotional, rational raising children scientifically, it is generally starting from the birth of a child to the registration of the district station, there is a professional nurse and mother talk every month, to vaccinate children check good, more

Important depending on your child\'s growth put forward reasonable proposals. How to add such as broken nights of sleeping alone milk food supplement, child weight increased, child development have any exceptions, and so on, also with observation and analysis, to go into each. This is a no parental experience of mothers is a very good support and help. Now, there are many Web sites moms can exchange experiences, there are many parenting books can refer to, which is better than listening to Grandma grandmother has fuzzy memories of so-called experience 30 years ago rumours or neighbors aunt aunt\'s secret.

　　
8. independent children start early?

Do not treat children as small animals or toys doesn\'t know any better, it may be one person. From the first day of birth, parents and children, like adults, talk like adults, equal treatment of it, give him freedom of movement and space to think, understand it. Giving children a safe and quiet environment, can only be optimistic brave children\'s character. Attention to the child\'s psychological security is even more important than a healthy diet. Do not underestimate the child\'s sense of independence, self-protection, observation of response capacity, their performance was far beyond our imagination.

　　
9. the changes step by step and varied changes in food

Stick to breastfeeding, increase the child\'s sense of that breastmilk is the best food of children, Norway the mother is breastfeeding their own, and try to stick to one year old, if say, because you want to keep are not breastfeeding, that won\'t be a good mother. Breastfeeding is the best because breastfeeding can be broken down to keep pregnant accumulation of fat, on the road to see the Norway of the mother is healthy and slim and beautiful, this is the result of prenatal keep moving postpartum insisted on breastfeeding. If the mother has a specific reason not breastfeeding, here is a formula-Nestlé en.

10. development speed is not a race!

The peace of mind to parents. Some parents like to see their development in China faster than others, think that\'s good, in fact, don\'t make the children, it has decided to progress according to the conditions of their physical development, later were normal. When the condition of the body is not strong enough, to managed to reach the early signs of development, is very dangerous for children. Why not let your children take it easy, according to the rhythm of its own?