&Quot; filial piety " is the education of children to be fundamental

Education is to teach children to learn to be the most important, life. What kind of people? Honor your father who do honest and upright man, self-respect, self-love, self-confidence, self-reliance of people. Teach children to honor your father is the most important of which, is the basis for all morality, is the essence of life. The history of our country\'s most famous thinker and educator Confucius said: \"filial and fraternal love, is also. \" Filial piety\" Pak Tak head of baishan before. \"

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In family life, can often see such a sight: eat after dinner, the children turned to watch TV or go out to play, parents are busy packing up chopsticks; home of delicious, parents always let kids taste, but few parents eat the children; once the child is ill, after the parents before the busy busy, all care, parents feel ill children rarely regards. All this concern.

This phenomenon is called \"421 comprehensive doting syndrome.\" One is an only child, the second refers to the father, mother, four refers to the Grandpa and Grandma, Grandma, Grandpa. One-child family of LeBron, little Princess, the whole family for him (her) various loves, like thousands of care, and care so that children do not consciously develop bad habits of the pampered, unruly, lazy, selfish.

Honor your father is the traditional virtue of Chinese nation, is also a prerequisite for the formation of moral character. Imagine a person even my parents do not love, respect, and unfilial, how loving students, friends, love love teacher, became a sound personality of people?

\"Filial piety\" is how to turn out

Honor your father including the dear child on parents of love, dear heart, serve to support row. But for young children \"filial piety\" of education must be based on the age characteristics, methods of following basic education guides:

1. example is better than precept

With such an advertisement: a young moth

er from work, busy out domestic duties and port water to wash your feet for the elderly, the old man said to her: \"my child, break it later! The tired body. \"She smiled and said,\" MOM, not tired at all. \"Young mother\'s behavior was seen by only 3, 4-year old son, son silently end to a basin of water. Young son labored side of the basin of water, came to stagger to the mother. Basin water splashing out, splashing children and children remains a bright face. Feet of water in the mother, as a mother washes her feet. Advertising image still here, advertisement said: \"parents and children the best teacher\". Yes, society of filial piety was that this was passed, under an example of filial piety is the parent form. Therefore, to cultivate children\'s filial piety, know how to love, first of all, parents must lead by example, to do honor their elders example because \"example is better than precept\".

2. learn to be grateful

To let the children learn to be grateful. Thanksgiving comes from conscience, a conscience, good will, this is the family foundation of filial piety. However, the gratitude of this emotion is not naturally produce, through education. Parents should consciously let children experience their parents \' hard, the experience of parents earn is not easy, the experience of parents \' love, the experience of parents also need your child\'s care and love. So parents may often give their children talk about their day: get up, Cook, wash clothes, put one\'s House, to work, to let children experience their own how to care for children, such as: children are sick, how parents feel bad , don\'t sleep what and night care child sth Details the most infected people. Know well is gratitude, gratitude is gratitude. To let kids from small habit of concerned parents, thoughtful parents, caring parents good habits, such as for mother comb, to father hammer chuibei and so on.

3. starting from small beginning, from the little things

Let children develop

good habit of honor your father, to cultivation from small things started shaping and bit by bit. Such as: education of children to care for parents in peacetime health, to help parents share the sorrow, to help parents do housework. When the child is not, parents to patiently teach children do something wrong, don\'t make perverse accusations, when children do better, to praise more encouraged. Children only in personal practice and experience in order to appreciate their parents \' hard, taste the happy for others to pay. When a child \"parents raised me, I should do more for them\" ideas gradually formed, children have a sense of obligation and responsibility of a life. This is also the most lacking in contemporary children. Because they usually only know receiving love, and do not know love, did not learn to care for and appreciate. Parents don\'t think: children younger, the main task is to learn, as long as learning well, don\'t do anything, but to change ideas: should not use the evaluation of academic achievement as the only standard, good standard of children is multi-faceted , honor your father is an important criteria. The saying goes: \"3 years, 8 years old\". Because habits into nature, develop bad habits grow up since childhood is also difficult to change.

Cultivate children\'s filial piety, have picked up since childhood.

4. House rules

State law, family viewing. No rules, buchengfangyuan. A family needs democratic, non-patriarchal, and one person lays down the law, but necessary rules are indispensable. Parents are welcome to discuss it together with the children to develop \"honor your father\" code of conduct. My \"five to five do not\" for parents \' reference. \"Five\" is to find the parents, close to the parents should be concerned about their parents, to respect their parents, to thoughtful parents. \"Five do not\" are not to affect the parents \' work and rest, do not provoke parents angry, do not contradict their parents, not exclusive excl

usive, not where rivalries to enjoy. Meet \"five to five do not\" also there are a number of specific requirements: ① to remember MOM and Dad\'s birthday; ② do their own affairs themselves; ③ I day parents ④ separate once relative; ⑤ with my father (mother) a total of one day.

5. the parent-child interaction

Parents want to communicate with the children, communicate, common in the game, common activities: parent-child reading a article. Such as filial piety is priceless; parents and children to sing a song. Such as:

A letter, the come back home often, and the candlelight Lane\'s mother, and the only mother of the good and the mother of the world, such as Kiss, and the mother song; parents to chant a first poetry. Such as: the Chinese yin, and the mother and the mother of the rainy season, my patron saint, such as; in the activities of the parent-child interaction, not only can enjoy enjoying family happiness, but you can also make children develop in the subtle qualities of honor their elders.

6. home school tie

Parents can actively work with schools, teachers family questionnaire out to the students, ask students to \"parents used to know\" the theme home visits parents.

Reference topics are as follows: ① parents day schedule arrangements. ② parents are what a day, how much work time, intensity, how much an average remuneration. ③ What do parents home at home, how long did it take? ④ parents for their children to do what, how much time? ⑤ you understand parents \' interests, physical condition, life habits? ⑥ If you appreciate their parents \' hard, is sympathetic to the parents? ⑦ You attitude to what parents do? The investigations on the basis of, developing a communication with their parents, honor your father programme.