How to answer children\'s questions

No matter when and where, for children\'s issues, parents should not because they are not the right attitude to increase children\'s psychological burden. We should not be at the time of education, dwell on a shaking all knowledge to children, as the need for doctors to maternal lectures.

Answer children\'s questions to simple, do not pull seven of eight. Sometimes not to keep the children thoroughly knowledge about sexual knowledge and learning, but only in order to achieve correct child sexual psychological problems, so he does not form a wrong attitude and attitude.

Children at a certain age, when problems in this regard, education for parents of children with language even officially began. A two or three year old boy pointing to genital naively ask parents: \"what is this? \" When the correct attitudes should be natural for parents to tell him,\" this is your chicken chicken. ”

Parents should tell children what is the attitude of the ear, which is in the eye so natural. Deviousness, fuss tone and facial expression are caused to children psychologically difficult to untangle the mystery and sense of shame that is not working. When the children ask when this kind of problem, he did not want to know of genital function, just want to know the correct name.

Some parents answer the child\'s \"source of life\" issues, often whip said: \"you are picking up here, is long out of sth in the tree\" is not the correct answer may not be able to make children truly believe. The problem is that children feel their parents don\'t want him to know \"where I come from. \" The problem is the mysterious. When children grow up to seven or eight years old, had been vaguely aware of some information, although there were many puzzles, nor to ask parents Frank. Because he had parents there to touch the wall. Parents also lose the sexual education of children, help children through psychological period of sexual awakening and confused.

Answer children\'s questions, a

basic principle should be followed: calm, candid, natural attitude is essential. Because the children still not mature, can answer simple. Key do not give children from psychological pressure so as not to cause normal sexual mystery and shame that is not working.