Parents as first teachers of young children, has a very important impact on the self-esteem of young children. Children young, pride is in the formation and development, is vulnerable to influence from the outside world. Parent a or criticisms or words of encouragement may become child care as a standard for self-evaluation.
Children\'s daily contact with the parents to get along with, in the minds of their parents have very high authority. Therefore, young parents to learn how to protect your baby little pride. Properly secure your baby\'s self-esteem mainly from the following aspects: first of all, don\'t command too many baby should do, not what to do, order-without regard to the request of a child\'s self-esteem, while also making them subject to many restrictions, is not conducive to the development of their self-esteem.
Second, parents don\'t spoil too much in family child care. As the only child increases, children become parents in the eyes of LeBron or Princess, was always responsive to their demands, and regardless of whether their demands are reasonable. In fact, it will only make the baby more to enjoy the comfortable environment, surrounded by love. This type of education will give the child a sense of superiority, formed pride mental. Once they suffer from even a little bit of frustration will let their ego blow.
Finally, don\'t always get the correct comparison to compare their own children and other children. If you always praised the other children are smarter than their children, active and able, if this persists, it will give children subconsciously to instill a \"I am stupid\" idea. This subconscious the self-esteem of young children in an injured State. Self-esteem is not the health of the injured State, and how the sound development of the situation.
Therefore, treat the development of young children self-esteem, family education is very important, things to do, not too extreme, and not too demanding, even doting, these are not the right form of education.
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