The saying goes, \"no rule not to Cheng Fangyuan\". There is no doubt that rule is a very important factor in the parenting process. Pointed out by many experts in children: vertical rules is the most difficult and most easily misunderstood child means, many parents fear that they too loved children, and they worry about the kids too severe.
Vertical rules are very complex and cumbersome, especially for 3 years of age or beyond the normal Exchange of infants is more difficult. Bearing in mind the small small MOM and dad were: vertical rules is not synonymous with punishment, you are to play a role in aggressive between police and kindly moderate severe teacher. If you also want to give the baby some rules, and can refer to the baby\'s daily life habits and general time of vertical rules.
0-4 month – encouraging child
This phase of the most important of which is fast and consistently meet the requirements of infants. For example breast, replacing wet diapers in a timely manner, picked up in the baby cry the first time he or soothe him, doing so while keeping your baby healthy state, on the other hand makes them feel more secure, and feel that you can rely on. If the parents when a child baby establishing full confidence to parents, he will more easily accept your bundle in the future.
4-6 months – the appropriate limit
This stage begins, parents can gradually established the General day-to-day behavior of a specific program. If the child is accepted and used to this kind of program, you will greatly reduce their crying, resistance behavior. However, experts also point out that: in the implementation of this specific program when small small MOM and dad are not step by step, break the rules, but should be adjusted according to the different circumstances do different, is flexible in nature, to accommodate the baby\'s emotional.
You can do--
Such as changing diapers:
1) make the baby lying down, give him a specific toys he likes;
2) when the diaper, you\'ll sing a particular song;
3) after you change the diapers, baby can get a sweet kiss.
This example can be seen from diaper, establish a so-called specific program is in fact very simple, which is the habit of daily, patterning. Parents can by analogy, creation of baby bath, eating or sitting baby carriage on a particular program.
6-12 months – to establish family rules
In babies 6 months or so when they begin to understand causal relationships. For example, knock over a Cup, milk will pour out, so parents can begin at this stage appropriate to introduce some family rules.
Although before the baby is 1 year old still can not understand \"no\" meaning of the word, but they will have on parents \' harsh tone respond to distraction, transfer activities. In fact, the transfer of baby attention or places from 6 month to baby 2 years ago most useful tools. For example, when risk of babies to climb stairs, you can give the baby a toy, or bring him to another room.
From baby 8 months before the start to his first birthday, often can easily make themselves into trouble, appalled at the same time also gives parents a lot of time and endless worries. When he learned to crawl or crooked stumbled after the walk, the trouble escalated into dangerous. He may suddenly climbed up the shelves, or pull wires, or knocked something off the table. This time, parents and screaming \"Please stop, from there\", rather than adopt a more effective way: bring the baby to another room, telling him wire charged, cannot pull; Chair was used to sit, not toys. 3 year old child may know Chair was hurt after he brought down to his own preaching, but similarly didactic not 1 year old baby has no effect, so this is where the importance of transfer of baby place or attention.
Transfers from the maternal and child of the world
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