And children rebuilding harmonious relationship

Here are some ways to help you rebuild healthy and harmonious relations, make the dream a reality. Your goal is to establish a good relationship with your children again, eventually you can dream you can spend enjoyable weekend. Now, you want to start your relationship, but also to make children open up a two-minute or longer time, so let the dream into reality. 
Step one: find close to the child\'s best time. When children are more receptive to you. Teenage kids and compared to the number of minors and adults, have different time periods. Finally I realized that in my son to school trying once before the dialog is in the manufacture of conflict. I also realize that 4:30 is the best time to communicate with the children in front of the refrigerator. I also accidentally find the correct contact and child time. Find the best and the worst time to communicate with children. 
Second: don\'t be too picky. Kids quickly leave is because your horse in the mouth and trial. Don\'t be ashamed, not to blame, not screaming, watch your body language: do not stare round eyes, don\'t shrug. Do a reality check: there is no trial and demanding tone, most long to maintain how long? Their timing, and keep the length of it, change your behaviour. 
The third step: find a positive thing. One, is a positive thing. One of my female friends tell me son is by telling her she can blow a lot of chewing gum bubble began. This is her children found only a positive thing. You are looking for something – anything – things that deserve recognition. Do not simply to beautify flatters children, these are of no use, children can easily see through it. Short and precise: \"thank you feed the dog, I am very grateful to you. \"\" Hi, your hair really well, wonderful. \"(And then also want to continue, don\'t expect a return, not ridiculed and rejected) she is not used to hearing a positive evaluation. 
The fourth step: enter your child\'s world. Do not be a thunder Dragon! I is not recommended that you completely change themselves, are not recommended on your clothes like a 15 year old boy, but we recommend that you are interested in children\'s culture, some commentary on the film (so you can be referred to the town of new movie), find some of his favorite team scores and consciously mentioned in the talk (\"Wow! Giants will beat the tortillas, isn\'t it? \"); Checking his favorite TV program (\" Jill Mo girls to come tonight, right? I will meals on time so that you can see the TV. ”）。 First of all, as long as mentioned about some information on it, slowly the children found that you are interested in the world can have constant dialogue. Interest to his friends, at least to know who his friends are. In the refrigerator compartment for children like food, became more friendly home atmosphere.

Three methods for help to strengthen the relationship between the child and

1. express your concern. Mothers often children do what he likes food, bake some biscuits left him home from school to eat, in significant landmarks of note in their school events on the calendar, in his pillow or write something positive in the lunch box note to his friends or pets Photos Plus box and hang them in his room , let your child know that you love him. But don\'t expect kids thank you from the outset, hurt the children often do not know how to return. Because they always try their own healing, gave the child some time. Mothers! 

2. conduct an easy hike. Your children always like to do some things (whether you like or don\'t like). These things can be short: a walk in the Park, an ice cream cone. Not you spend money on the relationship between you and your child, do not play tricks here: taking the time to accompany the children, but is not accompanied by 24 hours, out of the key is to create the initiative. Note that must show real enjoy or are interested in children of the world. Neutral approach is better than unpleasant conversation, shopping malls, parks and sports ground is a good choice. 

3. find some activities for you and your child can do. Playing video games, fishing, eating ice cream, watch Harry Potter, crazy and so one of the star wars, for the same cheer baseball team? You can do? Find some things, no matter what, you can be happy and child activities. Children, particularly boys, like activities, parents not just sit at home are always ready and children \"talk\".