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Mar 15, 2011

Create a happy family of nine traditional practices

1. regular evening activities: evening reading stories recalling their happiest time of the day; hugs and kisses before going to bed. 
2. Special greetings and say \"I love you\" approach: you can use \"Eskimo Kiss\", with the friction of the nose; unique to create family fun, hug. 
3. celebrate success: what happens when a family member of the special things, hanging a flag in the front door when after family do something commendable, you can put a special dish at the dinner table. 
4. commemoration of the birthday: birthday of each family member can choose your favourite recipes, cakes, travel or song get up as a Bell. Some members of the family even birthday shirt hanging on the flagpole on the lawn or broom handle, let people all over the world (at least neighbors know) know is someone special day today. 
5. happy fun: Marmot section kite; on April Fool\'s day joke. 
6. sport and outdoor activities: father\'s day fishing trip; die-hard Giants fan gathering. 
7. voluntary service: in Thanksgiving for qiongsi his wife baked a fire bird; annually in fixed time provides accommodation for homeless on Christmas Eve or give what help proposals once a week or once a month to help people in need of help. 8. share mutual cooperation: laying a carpet in the living room or towel to collect hot commodity, playing joyful music, providing Lite sandwiches, small snacks and drinks. Who says you have to go out to the good old days? 
9. night family game activities: clean the chute and ladders, Dice Games, board games, candy or playing some of the oldest card games in the world. Bigger kids might like difficult intellectual game, sale games, describes the solution, an adventure game or play Texas poker game. Some families every week for half an hour to an hour of family games, to classify the game, and let each family member to select their favorite games. 
Research on game proved, there were 20% people think that doing these simple game can enhance their feelings to each other, families a sense of belonging. Furthermore, these families traditional activities and customs can improve children\'s social skills. Therefore, together with children, you need to do is what?


Four steps to create the family habits, makes home full of laughter


When we survey hundreds of mothers, what good love and relation to family customs and traditional practices are always sorted at the top of their lists. Why? Because these do not need to spend too much time and money, but you can create joy and laughter in the family, as well as treasured memories of a lifetime. Here are some steps that begin:
First step: a list of your favorite new traditions and customs. Open to allow \"anything is possible\". Idea, the more the better, you can to other mothers and their children for their comments. Can also think of traditional practices in the development process of your own, you can include your favorite traditional practices. Of course, can also review the preceding section, allows you to be inspired. 
Step two: select a starting idea

。 It is better to begin with the most simple ideas. One mother told me, she is accustomed and four year old daughter from cosmetic activities begin. Another mother said to be from Wednesday after receiving a son out of the school started in a glass of the best dark chocolate. What habits is not important, important family to like. 
Step three: write these traditional practices. Write it in your calendar or in your weekly notebook, and tell your family. Note the additional comment (do this, you might need a reminder to others). In addition, seriously want to so that the entry into force of these traditional practices, what do you need to do? Set up a start date. When do you plan to start activities for the first time? Research proves that sooner start (recommended within 24 hours), stick to it, the greater the possibility of. 
The fourth step: plan, implementation plan. Celebrate success and has maintained this practice. When you create a family memoirs, and remember: you create family practices are not the kids of the family rules or did not complete the housework, so as to deprive a child of a right. Please keep the family tradition as a punishment: \"If you do not have to complete a task, you cannot join us evening games. \"Family tradition is sacred, that must be in harmony. Whether every night, once a week, once a month, was also once a year, for the establishment of family intimacy, family closer unity is critical.

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