How to train your baby\'s compassion?

There was a psychology professor in kindergarten doing such an experiment: teacher in the classroom window cleaning, pretending not to stand, fell from the window sill. At that time, the lot of children laughing, only a child to help the teacher. Like this are not uncommon in the case in our lives, it seems that compassion is away from our kids sth What can we do something? may wish to start some action from the following.

Action 1: gentle talking to children

Parents is the best teacher of children, so parents talk will directly affect the tone of voice and tone of voice. If we talk to kids tenderly, when the speech expressed a moderate and friendly, then the child will imitate, and treat other people with the same friendly way.

Action 2: firm pointed out that children\'s rude movements

Premise of compassion, is respect for others. If a child on our spit or make rude actions, and we just to smile to hide one\'s embarrassment, that this is a default behavior for the kids. Therefore, at this time, we may wish to use gentle and firm tone to tell the children, he\'s behavior is not permitted, for example, keep your feet on the table or high pulled the hair of others, and so on.

Action 3: learn to say \"sorry\"

When each parent has done something wrong, then the best way is to sincerely apologize to the children. Children own introspection and feel the power and empathy to others will be greatly enhanced.

Action 4: boot from the story the children understand other people\'s feelings

3~7sui children with the development of cognitive ability, begin to understand other people\'s moods, emotions. A 6 year old child, have been able to use vocabulary to describe the emotions and the emotions at their disposal. Therefore, when a child is telling vivid tales story, we may wish to communicate with him some of the emotional side of things. For example, why in the snow Queen is jealous of snow white, and so on, through such quest

ions and guide, the children will learn to think and learn to understand the feelings of others.

Action 5: let the child do small animal \"love Ambassador\"

Children are born and small animals a sense of intimacy, so we may wish to establish an animal corner at home, keeping some easy survival of small animals, such as small turtles, goldfish, loach, silk-worm, and so on. Let small children every day to feed the animals, and observation diary. Once the animals have anomalies, children can find information online with MOM and dad, they check book to solve a problem. This training a child\'s observation and independent problem-solving skills, and cultivate a child of love, compassion and responsibility.

Action 6: encouraging children to help others

Total number of vulnerable groups in society, our concern, to help. At this time, we may wish to guide the children to look at the media coverage, understanding their hard life, let the children know on the situation of children in poor areas with insufficient food and clothing is not science. At the same time, we can encourage children to donate their own toys and clothing for their blessing on the word. Leave him out of love at the same time, also feel the joy of helping others.

4 factors impeding the development of compassion

1, bad family education methods

Too severe

Comparison between some of the family is tough, often prone to loudly berate to their children, and asking a child to deeds must listen to the adults. Such harsh, punitive dependency can impede children early sympathetic sprouting. In addition, often corporal punishment of children will also be a small companion of \"unfortunate\" showed concern.

Doting

Some families the child doting, everything around the children go, over time, children selfishness, Jiao very personality, not from the perspective of others thinking.

2, indifferent to parents on children\'s development of compassion

Some parents more concerned about their children\'s intellectual culture, at the expense of good cultivation of personality. When parent-child communication and children, parents and the lack of effective communication skills. Over time, the child will become cold and indifferent to people.

3, a child\'s psychological needs have not been concerned about and meet

Some parents less attention to the psychological needs of children. If a child\'s psychological needs no attention and meet, then his personality will be suppressed, or through a number of behaviors, such as small animal abuse to seek a mental release, compassion is impossible.

4, bad adult role models

Some parents saw other children crying, indifferent when help is needed, it is actually in behavior tell their children: things that others don\'t, of course, children will learn to indifference.