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Mar 15, 2011

United States children why courage?

  



International summer camp counselor found United States child courageous is very big, they are not afraid of dark, not afraid to go out alone, without fear of mountain high water quick, afraid of insect beast; speaking \"rushed\", good communication, generally have more ideas, dare to think, to Chuang; does not require adults to accompany, there had never been dangerous. Children in other countries in this regard than United States child, why so? Rich of more than 20 years experience in children\'s education instructors, Japan gangqixizi access to the United States 215 external representative of the family.


After the study, she came to the conclusion that: United States Home importance to understand the natural and social environment for the kids \' education, attention to the independent spirit of self-reliance is best developed when young children, focusing on fostering children\'s communication skills and self-protection ability in a variety of environments. Specific approach has the following several points:




Start 1, self trained from early childhood.


United States many children from infancy to live alone in a room. Children grow up to three or four years old, have a fear of psychological, parents to buy a very small dark light, burning through the night, to expel children on the night of terror. Parents to their children before going to bed at night the room giving children a kiss and said, \"boy, I love you! Good night! Have a good dream! \"Back to her bedroom. Children hold a fabric bears, dolls toys, such as Enron fall asleep.




2, must not always round the child go.


Americans love their children, but does not always hold, staring at the boy. Six or seven months on his own holding bottles of water, drink milk, eat on their own learning with a knife. Children often sub in food on the table, on the ground, but parents must not feed, always let your child eat. Children in the game is also done on my own or with the children a few clinging to parents. Parents travel, give small children to grandparents or spend money to host others, brought a few days. Home Office party or to other people\'s Party, also see the parents always take their children.




3, enable children to receive training.


Engineer with 3-year old son James to visit his parents in the country, 10 km outside the city. After dinner, was dark, had stopped the bus to town development. If you live in, tomorrow now also reasonable, and James with his son walk back. Son, his son, so die black home. Why do this? James said: in order for the son grew up familiar with dark and eat a little bitter.


4, teach children to use the tools.


United States parents teach the child was young, I understand and use the various tools and electrical appliances. Parents often say: \"you should learn to use these tools, something is broken, you will be able to help yourself to fix. \"Tools including a handsaw, plane, files, screwdrivers, pliers, etc. Parents teach their children the use of these tools, performance, let the children master the operation main points, and to encourage children to use them in daily life. Five or six years old children, parents will teach their use a gas cooker, electric oven and washing machine. Things no matter where in the House is out of order, parents are encouraging their children a bold attempt to own repairs.




5, teach children to adapt to the environment.


John Paul Bai Lamu couple holidays with sons and daughters, aged 5 to 8 years of tourism in mountain areas. Each event is called when the stream you want through son observation of water potential, find the most shallow and flow more slowly Wade point, and then decided by the parents is feasible. If you choose incorrectly, would explain truth and teaching children how to recognize the depth and velocity. When the mountain, they never take the tramway, and selected by the children climbing routes. Cliffs the cliffs is encountered on the way, let the children judge decides there is no danger, climb, and ask the child how to ensure security. After repeated practice of hell, look afraid of mountain high water quick and dare to risk.




6, for self-protection training.


E= \"TEXT-INDENT:2em\" > fashion designer miqier has a 10 year old daughter and a 7 year old boy, he took when they take to the streets, teach children rules of the road and commanded other considerations anytime, anywhere, show how dangerous what security. Many parents tell their children remember the required phone number, such as parental unit telephone phone, the police station, fire telephone, telephone in hospital.

How to improve the ability of social adaptation of children





Psychological and educational research shows that important aspect of social development is the development of children\'s mental health, children\'s social development is an important period in early childhood, during the development of individual and social contacts with their future social, behavioral, emotional, emotions, personality, personality, social adaptability and career achievement and cognitive development. However, this importance is often parents neglect, we usually pay attention to children\'s physical health care, neglect of mental health care; emphasis on Intelligence Development, at the expense of social development, which is one of the main site of children\'s socialized personality, parental rearing patterns of different different impact on child care, good rearing patterns conducive to social development of children. Child education experts will teach you to use the correct effective parenting, let your children learn to learn in life, learning to live, learn, and learn to do in life.


Speaker: Professor Mei Jian



Major child health and nutrition, children\'s psychological development and education, Executive Director of the China Association of eugenic science, Director of the China Working Committee for psychological science, the International Association of toy libraries responsible officials in China.


Professor Mei Jian to attend the International Conference on 32 times, study children were published in English in the field of academic papers, monographs and more than 60 papers and books. Completed of representative research has: ① China folk raising series investigation and intervention research; ② early raising way and environment and children growth development relationship research; ③ China Lake area children education effect factors of analysis, and investigation, and and intervention effect of five years longitudinal observation and evaluation research; ④ \"3.3.3\" research system on children learning ability and intelligence development effect; ⑤ bone age in children intelligence evaluation in the of application research; ⑥ monograph, and authored and translations: broke through children learning dilemma under, and from first times playing to first step under, and caesarean section children of raising and finishing under, and lifted anxiety under, and children medical development and nutrition evaluation under, more than 10 yubu.



Note: 1, who attend will receive a special gift on time;


2, in order to ensure the quality of lectures, please don\'t bring the baby to attend;


Field will have the products 3, activities promotions.



Report: talks time locations and contacts



City venue time registration phone speaker
North Guangzhou Avenue, Guangzhou southern Hotel 1838th (Southern hospital) on May 31 Ji Hanping
Shenzhen cinemas xinyuanlu, 1th, Luohu district, Shenzhen, Shenzhen (next to the East Gate of tianhong) on June 1 Ji Hanping
Crowne Plaza, Changsha Changsha/f Crown Ballroom (Wuyi square in the Northwest corner) on June 7 MUI build
Shaoyang City International Hotel on June 28 in the White House to build
Gloria Plaza Hotel Nanchang on June 14, third floor, Ma Xu
Yi Chun River-Sau hotel on June 15 Ma Xu
Minsheng road Nanning in Nanning hotel on June 21, 38th MUI build
Hefei golden ring hotel built on June 14
Fuyang guomao hotel built on June 15
Golden Lion Hotel in Yichang June 21 15,871,592,778 Ma Xu
Suizhou suizhou guesthouse 113th Avenue, along the River in suizhou (opposite to the municipal government) June 22 0722-3237186 Ma Xu
Xinxiang on June 28, Xinxiang Hotel Plains Road West 33rd Ji Hanping
Tianlong Hotel civilization in zhumadian road No. 289, on June 29

-2,918,997 Ji Han

Nursing coup: vinegar when softener

Some mothers will make clothing and soft softener, softener does not apply to diapers. Because softener in diapers to form a protective film on the surface, is not conducive to absorb urine. If the baby is pulled, and parents were not replaced in a timely manner, it is easy to stimulate your baby\'s skin, baby in the groin or pollution.


Teach you resort: parents may, after washing your diapers, adding 2-3 gallons of vinegar in the water (3 spoons), put the diaper in which about 5-6 minutes of immersion, and then directly into the washing machine dehydration. Even without water after washing it again, nor taste of vinegar residue and dip vinegar treatment after the diapers can be very gentle, effectively the rash away from baby\'s little ass.

Read, speak, sing

In order to help all parents to go with your children get the best growth of children to read, speak, sing, keep encouraging your child to express and use rules to your child-rearing, which is more difficult. Give an example, when you say no to your child when children can\'t get anything at this time. If we punish a child, what children can not through punishment to learn, this rule is to guide your child in fact, to guide your children, how to teach them. Of course we need to protect our children, but we do not need to punish them. So I said these rules are going to guide you, you\'re going to guide them. How do we let the children do have the rules? We are not going to punish them, we can allow the child to have the rules that we help them establish some practices of everyday life, forming some of the code of conduct, let them avoid becoming rules, disobedient children.
In the United States to me complaining that I often hear parents get up in the morning the children want to put you getting them to wear clothes, so parents have to rush to work, time is very tight, children did not want to wear the clothes you are ready, so they started to quarrel. So I think one way is better, at the time of the night before, for example, you have a lot of time in the evening, you give your children only two options, you want to wear the dress or the like to wear this dress? So we don\'t have a pile of clothes put in there the next morning.

Out of milk powder sanlu NT $ milk powder to support the disaster areas



Photo caption: figure for the Vice President of sanlu group company Zhang Zhenling representative enterprises will be $ 9 million worth of dairy products referred to the Vice President of the all Pei Shixin ladies in Hebei province, firing of these dairy products with the provincial women\'s Federation other materials shipped to the affected areas.
Journalists just got the news, sanlu group donated $ 8.8 million worth of infant milk powder, strongly support the disaster areas, milk shortage problem is expected to ease in the disaster areas. With 1.2 million in the early material, sanlu have been donated to the disaster area reached staggering million dollars.



Disaster areas out of milk, sanlu again donor 8.8 million milk powder
It is understood that the earthquakes cause affected areas normal suddenly interrupts the supply of milk powder, many young parents only while watching the child crying, and even some mothers had to eat the babies with purified water. Milk powder in the disaster areas out of serious. \"Milk powder should be sent to the young couple\'s House in a timely manner, will not let the child go hungry,\" Premier Wen Jiabao visits disaster area when issuing such instructions.
Disaster is order. Far away in Hebei\'s sanlu group hear after the Premier\'s instructions, in early donated $ 1.2 million on the basis of material, append again donated $ 8.8 million cans of milk powder to alleviate the pressing needs of the disaster area.



Sanlu milk powder into the first reached the disaster area milk powder
Time is life in earthquakes last less than 48 hours, sanlu group the emergency deployment of 1.2 million worth of powdered milk, liquid milk speedy arrival disaster areas. Sanlu milk powder arrived in Sichuan also became the first life-saving formula.
Get moving is, when transported to milk powder after the disaster preparedness and disaster relief Center in Chengdu, sanlu staff vehicles to transport relief supplies is very tense, resolute despite the fatigue of the night and disaster risk of complicated, such as departure for dujiangyan and pengzhou immediately hit. Chengdu was also founded three deer on the ground staff \"on the basis of sympathy group\", purchased a large amount of food, water and medicines, personally went to Mianyang, deyang and condolences to work in the disaster areas.



Tongmingyun in distress, Hebei and Sichuan people\'s hearts
32 years ago, Tangshan of Hebei province with the same magnitude Wenchuan earthquake, Tangshan people received assistance from the people across the country. Now face the same hazards, Hebei people\'s empathy. Sanlu group as a well-known enterprise in Hebei province, this the first time to the Sichuan people lend a helping hand, not only represents the social responsibility of enterprises, is representative of more people and a love of the people of Hebei Tangshan. As sanlu Chairman Tian Wenhua says \"we tongmingyun 32 years ago, today we are in distress.\"
According to statistics, sanlu group and subsidiary staff, distributors donated goods and cash totaling $ 15 million. Press Conference was also informed that the three deer in the next will focus more on campus redevelopment in the disaster areas and orphans. \"There is hope that there is the future\" this is the sanlu staff to convey to the people of Sichuan earthquake.


Suffering from epilepsy should do

Epilepsy is a chronic disease caused by a variety of reasons, but also diseases of the nervous system, relatively complex condition, treatment a long time and are easier to relapse. So, if epilepsy symptoms occur, should seek medical advice immediately to a conditional normal Hospital of Neurology, it is best to specialist epilepsy clinic.
Although epilepsy is a chronic disease of the nervous system, but is not terrible, is not so terrible as legends. With the development of scientific, medical advances, epilepsy treatment effect in increasing year by year, more and more in the treatment of science under the rehabilitation of patients.
Clinical practice shows that 80% of patients through the science of formal treatment of complete control of the symptoms, over half of them can be completely recovered. If \"quick touyi\" blind medication, or hold \"a try\", \"drag-and-drag a\" luck, will miss the best time for treatment, for treatment more difficult, even make long protracted course of disease condition, have serious consequences!

Children how to boot on non-disaster areas more appropriate

Q: advocacy of children through the news recently, the school already know the earthquake this thing, and the kindergarten was organized donations, fly a flag at half-mast, activities of silence, when it is said that silence, the entire kindergarten and crying, I would like to ask the experts, a disaster for these indirect witness children, can ease their emotions? Schools, kindergartens in particular do you really need to get so tragic? The significance of education and the negative effects which may be encountered more what?


A: I think the child away from the earthquake, to children\'s understanding, he is unlikely to have such strong feelings. I have a student\'s children, as their children\'s education is more respectful of children, he asked the children, do you want money? He has 2000 block of lucky money. Children taken into account for a long time said that I donate five dollars. I think this is a true child of the world. So, I quite agree with the views of the user, really does not need to get so sad, for kindergarten children.


I personally feel that some emotions should be spontaneous, rather than being taught. If sympathetic to others to be taught, the child grew up after other people\'s sympathies, even he can\'t tell what is from one of the real humor, or just do the things you should do.


However from the child\'s individual communication, I feel that sometimes parents teachers, you can find some opportunity to talk to children about death issue, when children are actually very, very small, it has to have a very strong fear of death.


I remember my daughter seems to have often talked about death when I was two or three years, she would tell me, father, I am afraid of death. Dad, can you not old? Will you die? She would talk with little long. This may have for each person is an eternal topic, so parents can take advantage of Wenchuan earthquake disaster, measured with the child talk about the problem of death.


For example said to her, in this time of the earthquake, some children have no father and mother, they may have to be and kind-hearted uncles donated money to support the Government to see what his reaction. Children of all ages of the different issues raised, in answer to this question, we need to adhere to the principle one, we cannot lie to him.


But in case of religious background or religious traditions of the family, parents will say to him, if you make a good man, you would to heaven. This is in fact denies death with this traditional religious forms and enable them to acquire comfort. Man without a religious tradition, or by religion, converted to religion to resolve such issues.


Answer experts: qifeng