Most parents will encounter children temper problems, particularly in children two or three years of independence at the beginning, when you would like to act according to his will. Temper is in fact the child is growing awareness of independent signals.
In General, children will grow angry behavior with age and weaken. If your child loves your temper, you don\'t easily conclude that his son in the wrong way. Habit temper causes each child is different. Sometimes children angry only because excessive fatigue or stimulating. Regardless of why children of temper, must let children understand such behavior doesn\'t make any sense, it could not help him overcome setback to evade responsibility, his parents changed his mind.
Ignore: this is the best way to help children escape the anger habit. Because children angry purpose wants your attention. You ignored his children will realize that lost his temper with no or less is better.
Ignore angry children, you need to keep calm.
Turn away. When children throw a tantrum, you go ahead and do your thing.
Properly persuade. If you do not to ignore, what you children repeatedly say a few words can be concise, description of what happened will not be allowed, but do not make any move. Your goal is to help him out of trouble.
Not about him. When the child is no longer angry, as long as the welcome he can stop is, just like nothing had happened.
Excluded: If a child kept crying, you think of no other choice except concessions, you can tell if he is willing to cry just cry out, but you don\'t like his cries.
Don\'t let the cry about your decision:
Find out what children in case most likely to lose his temper.
Let your child know you promise, never give in.
Avoid evoked angry occasion and situation of children: find induced child lost his temper and avoid them is possible.
Avoid the child lose his temper. Each ability is not the same. If the task is too complex or toys, children will feel depressed due to finish, you can schedule the task easier.
Provide help when needed. Let your child see how you are using another method to solve the problems he cannot solve, sometimes a few words, key tips, enough to ease children out of tension.
Avoid fatigue and excitement for children too. This time, children are often unable to control their emotions. As far as possible, children in a State of calm.
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