Boy is poor?

Troubleshooting expert: Xu Fan

Q: my child is a boy. Poor child, he became-rich, I think the idea has its positive aspects, but the actual operation is still very difficult, who do not want to give your children the best. Would like to ask the experts, how children develop the good habit of plain living?

A: poor child, the \"poor\" is relative in nature. Is intended to remind parents not to disregard their own economic situation or social and economic level, like the magic gourd-like trying to meet the requirements of the children, and consumption only child into an ease, no responsibility, and not creative power and ability of the people.

Both boys and girls, sooner or later have to leave us, in the self-reliance of the community. When their life is happy, and their income can meet their own consumption are closely related. So we can tell, is the attention to the child\'s ability to survive, to create dynamic, also is to continuously meet the desire to improve their level of consumption.

Of course, in the process of raising, some parents are very difficult. For example, not to \"give your children the best\". Which parents can give children not willing to do their \"best\"? But we have to grasp what is \"best\". \"Best\" is not necessarily the most expensive, but for home consumption, by carefully selected, quality safety of parents. For children the \"best\" things, often imbued with the love of parents, parents with prudence, security for the development of the entire family.

Concept of frugality is important in any level of the economy. Whether it concerns us in our daily lives have the best use of consciousness, does know how to weigh price to performance ratio, can in the limited material resources created in the most beautiful in life. Therefore, thrift is not meant to deliberately make life poor, more does not mean that important programme cheaper at the expense of quality.

Training children of thrift consciousness, actually is a values of passed process: (1) we of behavior and on things of evaluation will effect children; (2) we in meet children of a item demand Shi to wanted to a wanted to, is in for he future of survival ability plus min also is reduction min; (3) to to children experience \"no\" of opportunities; (4) to let children feel created of happy.

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Edit/Shen Yan (shenyan@bphg.com.CN)

Source: 2007 issue of the parents must read