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Mar 15, 2011

Child\'s friends, I don\'t like

Q: my son was 3 and a half, performance has been good since kindergarten. But recently he was in kindergarten, and a special naughty children became good friends, the children often take his talking in class, also play other school children, what should I do?



A: attacks and attacks, breaches and Regulatory compliance is an important content of the early childhood stage to experience and learn. A special cute always obedient children, relatively less initiative will do something. He wants to learn is to proactively understand where their borders, gain more initiative to explore the world around, take the initiative to establish their own opportunities for interpersonal relationships.
Child care free friends and peers, will help children for a richer experience. Even made some mistakes, also belonging to this age the errors committed and should be subject to criticism. This experience is very valuable to children, will make these low-level errors so that he would not grow up.
Naughty companion has faults, but it may also be some unique advantages. Such as thinking, exploring the spirit, courage, and so on. And the children play together, it is possible to have a broader perspective. Influence is mutual. Maybe you and your children are likely to give the naughty companion good impact.
Throughout the early childhood, is an important period of establishing appropriate standards of conduct. Often discuss other children and your children\'s behavior, what appropriate what is not appropriate, what impact these actions will bring to others, and so on, will help your child build a good code of conduct.
The parents must read have been led by the hand a thematic issue of the draft, to be a friend, which specifically for \"boy friend I don\'t like\" the topic of discussion, China, Japan and the United States of her parents \' views were, I believe will be helpful to you.


(Answer expert: Xu Fan, psychologists)


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