Baby says bad words do?

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MOM and dad hears the baby said the first sentence when bad language, most are shocked: \"where to? \" Baby say that second sentence, the third sentence, Zhihou, or lessons, or helplessness. Find baby says bad language cause and the remedy, this is the key to resolving the problem.

Causes of non-understanding acquisition

Qiqi two and a half. Qiqi MOM says, when his grandmother curse Grandpa, not only their own curse, taught qiqi also said: \"qiqi, said grandfather of stupid (couch, and country folk, and old man)\". Qiqi is now on the grandfather of a set, Grandpa is not angry, happy. I\'m so disgusted they do.

Study: babies often have no ability to distinguish good and evil of beauty and ugliness, also cannot understand the significance of bad language. If he has on the environment of bad language, such as family members or someone outside, baby can become object of imitation, babies, like learning other skills, learn to say and at home \"display.\" If you do not intervene, but tacitly, as qiqi grandfather did, it is fun to even indirectly encourage, you will enhance your baby\'s imitation.

Countermeasures:

1. Cool response

When the baby\'s mouth when a swear word, you do not have to overreact. Overreaction still cannot understand the bad language meaning the baby will only boost his repeated bad language behavior, he will think that bad language can get you more attention. So cool is the most important principles. May wish to ask whether the baby really understand the significance of these bad language? What he really wanted to express?

2. Explanatory note

Application of explanation and description, is for the baby to convey positive, good way to clarify a negative social value. During the discussion of baby, try to make him understand, vulgar, indecent language why not being a

ccepted? Bad language conveys what insult means? Experience also let baby experience, when you hear this kind of language, is how it feels to not be respected.

3. Positive guidance

You need to carefully guide your baby, teach him another try. Set a rule to each other, remind your baby at any time, and told him if we can restrain ourselves not to say bad words, is a Goody.

4. For support

If others have no intention to speak in front of baby bad language, so you\'d better remind them, not to speak in front of baby indecent words; if the others are for fun, and who wish to teach your baby says bad language, then you should seriously told him that this is wrong, do not face blind eye to this, it will have a major impact on the future of the baby.

Understanding causes of acquisition

In the kindergarten, several boys around grow plump Jia Jia, mouth called the \"fat man\", \"hog\" 佳佳 aggrieved have to cry.

Analysis: the boys said to better better bad language, except for fun, imitating each other, also with a certain selectivity, meaning they can understand the bad language, say dirty words on a particular object, can be regarded as a conscious act.

Why is intended to say bad words? You must first clear this stage psychological characteristics of children. 3 year old baby\'s intelligence development soon, there was self-consciousness of the bud, begin to form the image, imagination and thinking, can express their feelings in words. He was able to form in the mind on the image of the objective things, not only can remember specifically, their experience of things, but also keep in mind that those abstract things that listening to, he said. Therefore, the nbsp Jia Jia is a fat babies in the form of express the facts.

Countermeasures:

1. Creating a civilized environment. MOM and dad first to achieve beauty of language and behavior, for baby and make an example.

2. In a collective environment, if you find thatindividual baby says bad language, you should promptly stop, preventing him to have an impact on the baby. Suppression method of \"cooling\". Avoid criticism, humiliation baby in front of you, this will stab the baby pride on the one hand, on the other hand, other baby play a negative role implies.

3. Train baby favor to other children. You can ask the baby, \"you are like to be praised about you, or like others criticize you? \" Let your baby know, to show to others in a timely manner is better than criticism, laughing at others.