Real mother\'s experience: the family is the biggest blessing has a happy, healthy you
Key factors influencing mothers \' rearing effects: balance
Children will be showing real results: happiness, optimism, and safe.
Real mothers rearing experience: Real Moms know not to neglect their own needs. Concerned about their needs plenty of can feel the spirit, to have the energy to train and guide the children. So they need to give yourself some time. Think about the problem: your child is in need of a real mother, healthy and vibrant. Not only on the family satisfaction, but also for satisfaction. When you find time to enrich themselves in time (regardless of interpersonal relationships, is spiritual, physical, ideological), your families are more likely to enjoy a true you: a loving family, love life, interesting, and progress, more happy mother. Simply working in the garden every day, read the famous novel, attend computer courses, planning activities, write an article in the magazine, communicate with friends, bubble barrel bath, attending gymnastics class, with her husband\'s appointment--the importance of all children are taught to find balance. Living independently of when the children eventually leave you, all this is necessary for them.
Story
\"She knows a better balance must be found\"
First of all be caring for her mother is the best MOM.
--Kaili E. nurt
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\"What was her mother? ”
Babala·kaili Chairman of the mother and daughter Book Club. The reading club activity each Wednesday, but her absent. \"And her husband out? Don\'t she know this evening activity: how important it is for her and her daughter? We have to discuss the topic is \' I\'m not crazy, I just hate you \' \". Barbara, Judy and Patricia crowded into the kitchen, boil coffee pot, that their daughters would not hear mothers talking, because they are talking about friends xindikatele, she is a member of the reading. Barbara and Cindy started this reading last year, was familiar with some of the grade for each other\'s daughter and mother and founder. Founder of this reading is not only for the purposes of education, and also for mothers and daughters a chance to talk. Before the girls high school, and they talk about important things, such as personal pressures, values and helping to ease the pressure brought about by the fast paced life.
\"She always makes me wonder is impervious, remember last month she also refused to nominated President of the Association of teachers of family, and now she\'s determined to have a. \"\" Do you think it\'s good for children? We are all members of the Commission, think about how to help the children. ”
\"Sometimes I really want to know, outstanding mother what? ”
Although these mothers try to lower the sound, but they didn\'t notice the daughters is in upright ears eavesdropping, hear their every word of discussion. Third class the next day break, babala·kaili daughter maifan asked Cindy\'s daughter-bud, Sha·Katele. \"You need to know how they last night talking about your mother. \"\" What did you say? \"\" You are not seen, these members are talking about your mother and father go out, not things that will bring you to read. \"\" No big deal thing, that is their special day. \"\" Oh, but they believe that your mother was a bad mother--because they say something is thrown into chaos.
That night, Cindy to help two daughters homework, and they settled to sleep. Bud, Rosa found her mother is in the Studio is a free client to design a page. When in the Office when her husband, she always tried to complete graphic design business. Usually when the mother is at work, Bud, sunshine is not going to bother her, but today is too important.
\"Bother you, will you? \"\" Can, of course, baby, do you have what? ”“嗯…… Maifan told me last night, we didn\'t go to the reading, those mothers are ill say hello. \"\" Is it? Then down said. \"\" Yes, they say you are not a good mother. \"\" Oh, God! I told them I and empatojayos brand that is a special anniversary. \"\" Indeed true? MOM, I know not your wedding anniversary yesterday, your wedding anniversary in August. \"Cindy back in a Chair, a shy smile, she blush for a while. \"Every year, your father and I will celebrate
Efix=ST1 NS= \"urn:schemas-microsoft-com:Office:SmartTags\"/>on November 12. \"\" Why, is that what\'s so special about it? \"\" We kissed for the first time. \"She without hesitation that out,\" it is under the pamukayang falls, we got all wet, but also crazy. We swore to each other, no matter what happens in the future, to celebrate this day forever. I don\'t know reading is so important to you, baby, you know I love being with you. ”\"Is not much important, MOM, I know how important is for you and dad that day, I just say that you just don\'t like them. \"\" They cannot affect me, so I hope that don\'t affect your baby hold me. ”
Xindikatele from the heart knows himself to be a good mother to her, as the most important part of the good mother is to maintain a healthy balance, attention to children, the relationship with her husband, to seek a balance between work and I. This is not easy, she is crazy to see a lot of girlfriends do mother of Superman, contains all of the time and effort in the child. So with so many car hire, competitions and school affairs. Monday: Scouting; Tuesday: violin lessons and debates on class Wednesday: football practice and computer practice; Thursday: Jazz; Friday: mathematicians teach; Saturday: gymnastics and football competitions Sunday: Youth League activities; in addition to guiding the homework, scientific design, performance groups, birthday parties, overslept, ice skating, and learning to live.
Cindy has been working to put time and effort like other mothers are placed on the child. In her experience, as a fully attend to the mother and her husband, it is too difficult. Not only that, as a chart Designer, had no time to do their work, it is impossible. Worst is she has started to become nervous, irritable, and brought home the bad mood.
When the daughters, aged 6, and 1 at the age of 4 years old, have a Sunday morning, she found herself loudly shouted: \"Please don\'t cast juice on the floor again, something is wrong with you! You can\'t do a good thing? \"At that time she was only one year old daughter.
That is, at that time, Cindy were aware of the change. She had seen a Superman mother shouted to her daughter, Cindy vowed not to be that of mother. Now she found, do more, but the effect was counterproductive. Child benefits are not, but mother crazy, children suffer.
Changes must be made. Calm down, she said to himself. As compensation, she kissed one year old daughter. Since then, do the things I do. The children grow up in a happy and balanced family. They do not have too much pressure, I am not going to say harsh words, children are an enriching life.
Since then, Cindy paid great attention to fulfil their commitments. She
Always sufficient to guarantee the whole family together time. Because she knew that as a good mother, it is necessary to have energy, energy, also need stamina. Cindy organized a family bike tour over the weekend. She also made a new requirement in every night between six to 8:30 you can listen to any phone. This is done in order to maintain his family at dinner time, doing the housework as well as banquet when sober. Her children at school also participates in the graphic design classes to help improve the skills, also out of economic distress. Mother of her new philosophy began to be paid off. Her daughters developing very well. She and her husband also better. She can even receive salaries from the Web site. She felt younger, more energetic. More confident of her decision to make. If her daughter can\'t do things, what about the other girls would do what? She also does not require the same neighborhood where rivalries. In addition, daughters choice of activities that are of most concern to her. Results of development of each child\'s skills are very good. Make them proud of achievements have been made. Bud sunshine art specialty development of better dream road is one of the best baseball players in the town, while the North Lynn became a great dancer.
However, when Cindy did not participate in school activities, other mothers shook his head. Several times, those mothers also asked her why not enroll in new top class for kids. Cindy just shrugged and smiled does not say anything.
Cindy become celebrities were six months ago for the first time. At a grass-roots union nominated Chairman of the Association of teachers of her family. This is a very important job, people think she is the best candidate, Cindy was very pleased, but she knew it was a need to dedicate a lot of time and energy work. This job will be a week she spent a lot of time.
\"I really felt very honored, but I have to decline. \"She explained,\" I must give priority to the time at home. ”
Her refusal caused the antipathy of many parents. Their selfish and even blamed Cindy said that she was lazy, but Cindy always adheres to her point of view.
After reading a few weeks, Bud, Shaban requires each student to submit a story about most hero in this year\'s Association of teachers of family papers, and as a test by the end. The teacher will read all the papers, and pick the best five race. Three members of the Association of teachers of family will give first place winners bonus $ 300.
Bud sunshine immediately knows who her hero was to write, but she didn\'t tell anyone. Written from start to modify, rewrite a lot of time. She spent a lot of time in order to achieve the best expression of results. Hand in the paper two weeks later, English teacher told her that she has been awarded the top five, about a week after the announcement of final results.
Awards are done on a very special school rally, as President when he announced the first, second and third names are no bud Shakespearean names, Bud, sunshine almost lost. How did this happen? Denise WinGate told her thesis written at that time was very good, all old
Teachers all think would get the top three at least. Bud Shakespeare very frustrated, end of the meeting, she immediately went to a good friend maifan there. \"Maifan, I wrote this essay about my mother. \"-Bud sunshine crying,\" I really wanted to win, so that you can buy mother a new leather portfolio she has kept her designs. ”
\"What you imagine my mother told me. ”
\"What? ”
\"You know, she is one of the judges, Judy and Patricia were judges. ”
\"Oh! Their sth They really do still care about reading things? ”
\"You\'re right, my mother told me that you wrote about your mother how selfless and hard work were false, she even told me that might be your mother help you write the paper. ”
Bud, Shakespeare is really very angry: \"facts not in the way that your mother say, maifan, you know my mother is a good mother. ”
\"I know, your MOM is really great, all the children are considered your mother how great it is, but my mother they just do not think so. ”
\"Too unfair, everything I write is true, do you know where your mother? I would like to clarify this matter. ”
\"Directly to the two boys to go the maifan\'s House to see babala·kaili.
\"Mrs kaili, do you have time? We need to talk to you. ”
\"Of course
, Bud, Shakespeare, what? ”\"I want you to know that in my thesis, I write about my mom\'s every word is true. I know you think she\'s not a good mother, but I tell you, you are wrong. ”
\"I know baby I know you love your mother, but this paper required to write a truly selfless and hard work of man. ”
Bud, Shakespeare does not believe, shaking his head: \"Yeah, that\'s what my mother\'s portrait. You know my mother is not from impartiality and hard work of people? My mother has done for us all – always put family first. ”
\"Bud, Shakespeare, sounds really good, but do you notice? And compared to your mother, other experiences and opportunities of the girl\'s parents gave them more, don\'t you think sometimes deprived of something? ”
Maifan suddenly cut in: \"Yes, Yes, we really do these silly things, and Lady Cutler is very good. MOM, everyone thinks so, I can tell you frankly, Bud sunshine than we are happy. Where do you know these boring things we do is for our good, is a good mother should do it? ”
Barbara answer. Before her daughter once said to her, when they both leave, Barbara is standing there stunned.
Night on the same day, Bud, sunshine for the first time for MOM to see copies of papers, Cindy watched in silence, daughter words in the paper affirmed that she made the choice for the family many years ago was right.
\"MOM, I\'m sorry, I didn\'t win the match. I wanted to give you a surprise, with bonuses for you to buy a leather portfolio. ”
\"Oh, baby, you let me have papers is the best gift. You do not know how important is it to me, especially this: my mom is my hero, her mother and others are completely different. She is sincere, she does not need stay afloat she always knows what we really need. When she was listening, as if the only man in the world. And she has a lot of fun, she always spend time in the family, my mother was a hero, because of the people I know, she is the most courageous. No matter what others say, she will always stick to their views. I hope to be able to become good mothers like my mother. ”
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What you can learn from this story?
According to today\'s standards, Geller is a well-behaved mothers. Compared to other mothers with the community, she was obviously not going to meet the public\'s \"perfect mother\" requirements. She had wanted to become very hard everyone recognized that good mother, but she soon realized that doing that at all useless. Bad for her children. Her first child children yelling is because on a cast to the juice on the floor. How many people have done similar things? But how many people can like Cindy, to correct it?
Cindy decided to continue to maintain a balance in your life. She loved the children, of course, and would like to do best. But she knows that if she wanted the children to participate in more activities, more requirements to them, would give their children a lot of pressure. External expectations will lead to a high degree of autocratic rule. She also knows that for her to become a good mother, the most important thing is to keep health, energy and patience. In order to carry out Brad\'s relationship with her husband. In order to stimulate creative work, improve capacity.
Hard returns to xindigaile, but she was slandered, daughter no entitlement awards. Nevertheless,
Xindigaile still not discouraged, her contempt for those so-called friends to her troubles. Xindigaile stick to their positions, finally won the daughter-bud, sunshine, and her respect and love of friends and family. Facts also gave xindigaile a innocent, she is very farsighted road is the parent of a fine sons and daughters, and have a happy family life.
Real mother note don\'t forget to love yourself
Ndent-count:2.0 \"> study found that often feel fatigued mother rarely have the energy to take care of their families. In addition, almost one-third of extreme fatigue, break down the mother and father who believe their family life is not happy. This will remind you, don\'t forget to love yourself, only taking care of yourself, to take care of your family can enjoy a happy family life.
The real secret of mothers in your child\'s education is also reflected in it?
These days, how the balance in your life? How much time you have is your own? Here are some questions to test your application those necessary for the way of the master secret on how to?
Did you note these General signs of pressure? If breathing is accelerated, fast heartbeat, insomnia, irritability?
Do you always feel that day is not enough time? Always feel that you can\'t finish the program?
You have not complained about never you can free enough time? If you waste your own time, is there any sense of guilt?
Did you lose yourself? If your identity can only be called \"mother\", then you have forgotten your other identity: women, gourmets, his wife, artist, lover, friend, tennis player and Marathon athletes, seamstress, gardener, writer, daughter, niece?
How your love life? Is difficult to remember and love together had no children disturb the quiet and intimate time?
And girlfriend at the time with much?
0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 21pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 150%; MSO-char-indent-count:2.0 \"> exercise, health, medical examination – do you love yourself?
Start taking care of yourself, what are you going to do? Here thoughts, then prepare to learn those secrets, and use it in the family.
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