Parents children, often just because the spur, but did you know: often bullied children, following some bad attitude and mental deviations occur.
Lie
Some parents if children do something wrong, the children in order to avoid suffering from the skin, can you hide from whence, can cheat cheat, because for a child, fib, you can reduce a \"disaster\". But say a lie, often flimsy, is likely to be parents to find. To punish the child tells a lie, the attitude will be more tough on parents and beaten in order to escape, children will next do wrong even after telling a lie, which constituted a vicious circle.
Cowardly
If a child often beaten, a long time, children saw their parents, will be afraid, afraid to close. Therefore, no matter what parents want him to do, regardless of whether parents are right or wrong, he only wants to obey. In this adverse environment of absolute obedience of grown children, often easy to inferiority complex, a sign of weakness. Such children tend to be absolutely obedient, depression, passive learning.
Lonely
Often beaten children will feel lonely and helpless. Especially parents beating their children in public, will make your child\'s self-esteem hurt, he tends to doubt their own ability to be perceived \"inferior\", appears to suppress and silence, that teachers and children are not lift their heads to look down upon himself. Such children are often not willing to communicate with parents and teachers, does not like to play with the children, character is lonely.
Stubborn
Some parents still playing child, damage a child\'s self-esteem, so that they generate antagonism, psychology. Some children expressed in deliberately disruptive to rebel, you will go to the East, he was partial to the West, intent to help parents angry. Also some children, parents more playing less admit, increasing stubbornness, often running away from home, play truant to confrontation with the parents, becoming m
ore and more stubborn.Gross
Strong kids imitating, parents at home and beat him, outside his other children, especially his children. This brutal character, once formed, grow up, children will have a propensity for violence. Parents hit child was in fact made a bad example for children.
A few kinks
After some parents had children, but also hard to have a child \"admit\" to indicate that the child is educated. In fact, exclusive tendency to do so can only encourage the children. On the surface, seems to be in accordance with the parents of the children asked me to do, in fact, his resistance is very large. After the was hit, he will be out of their wits, uneasy, over time, children will become more and more a few kinks.
Moody
After some parents call their children, feel sorry and regret, he went to touch children beaten raw, even holding the children cried, and doubled it to children to material compensation. In this case, children are baffled at the beginning, but a long time, he has also been used. Children slowly become Moody.
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