In 1992, when I come back to Israel when 13 years old, middle child, aged 12 and 10 year old daughter have also stayed in China. Select then returned to Israel, was entirely dead end: my father was Jewish, fled to Shanghai during the second world war, and gave birth to me. Mother when I was a little turned 12 years old his father died, I became an orphan. When I grow up I copper when manual workers in Shanghai. Marriage after the birth to 3 children, husbands go away from us. Stay in Shanghai, eyes are painful memories. Just then to formal diplomatic relations, with an escape feelings, I became the first to return to Israel of Jewish descent. Early to Israel days, difficult than imagined. I don\'t know where the language (father taught ancient Hebrew have been in Israel), does not understand the preferential immigration policy (new immigrants can have a financial relief), on a street in Tel Aviv, I simply don\'t know how to survive.
I brought from Shanghai savings can only maintain 3 months of living expenses, I have to find ways to make money, but also my side children received at an early date. I attack Hebrew, learn the most basic language, and then I swing a minimum of investment by the side stalls selling spring rolls.
Israel\'s official currency was shekels, 1 shekel exchange RMB 2 dollars, smaller currency is ya Diego Los, 1 shekel is equal to 100 and GE Luo. My spring rolls stalls, earn a dozen shekels a day. When my business stands gradually stabilize later, in May 1993, I got 3 children Israel.
Beginning of the children to Israel when subject to a lot of the neighbors of the blame. Before in the country, I have always followed a policy of not bitter principle of the child, to Israel yihou, I still do my qualified Chinese mother: I sent the children to school, they go to school when I sell spring rolls. Time to school this afternoon, they\'ll spring rolls, I cease business on small stoves gave them under the wonton noodles.
One day, when 3 children sat around the small next to the stove when I Cook, neighbors come and reprimanded the boss: \"you are a big boy now, you should learn to help your mother, and not looking at your mother\'s busy here for themselves as well as waste. \"Then, neighbors turned scolded me:\" don\'t put that kind of backward Chinese-style education to Israel, don\'t think that gave birth to a child you are mother sth \"
Neighbor hurt people, both the boss and I am sorry, home, comfort me boss: \"OK, MOM can hold, I like to take care of you. \"However, the boss said:\" perhaps, she said yes. Mother, let me try to go and take care of the brother and sister sth \"
The next day is a day of prayer, school children at noon. Come to my stalls, one sitting next to me, learn to the way I hit good spring roll bag filling, into the finished product, and then into the pan to fry. His action initially awkward, but I got familiar with sth
Boss who change much even I think that, in addition to helped me with my spring rolls, he also sold from their spring roll to school students. Every morning, his brother and sister went to school with 20 spring rolls per person, when I came back from school, will sell for 10 shekels per person spring rolls all revenues handed to me. I feel very sad, let their little age to take up the burdens of life. However, they show no I think that hurt, they said they had slowly started to feel like this make money. Place often to chat with me and tell me how formal Jewish families should work, how should the child. Jews do not think that making money is never a need to reach a certain age to carry out activities, and China\'s \"education from a young\", they always think \"make money from young\" is the best form of education. Neighbors wife told me that in a Jewish family, food and care of children are not free, is the price of any thing, every child must learn to make money, to get everything they need. I think this comparison of education means the cruel, it is not easy to accept. However, children in school has also been instilling the idea. They more easily than I accepted that Jewish law. So, I decided to change the former habits of children in the country, try training they can become Jews.
First, we establish the mechanism of life paid at home are no longer free to use any thing, including meals and service provided by my mother. Have a meal at home, need to pay me 100 cost ya Gore Los, washed clothes to pay the 50 ya Gore Los sth While in charge, I give them the opportunity to make money, I to each spring rolls 30 Jagot Los wholesale price to them, after they brought to the school, you can increase sales, profits some discretionary.
First days afternoon back yihou, I learned that 3 a children sold spring rolls of way has distinct: third comparison honest, in accordance with the old price, 50 ya Al Gore Los a retail, earned to has 400 ya Al Gore Los; second is using has wholesale means, 40 ya Al Gore Los a directly will spring rolls all sold has school restaurant, despite only 200 ya Al Gore Los of profit, but he told I restaurant agreed every day let he sent 100 a spring rolls to; boss of way comparison unexpected, he in school held has a \"with you into China\" of lecture, by he speaker China domestic of information, lecture of gimmick on is can free tasting delicious of China spring rolls, but need buy tickets, per person 10 ya Al Gore Los, eachSpring rolls are he carefully divided into 10, he welcomed 200 listeners, ticket income 2000 ya Diego Los, turned over to the school the site fee 500 ya Gore Los, 1500 Jagot Los of profits. In addition to third way less than I expected, boss and the second mode of operation is beyond my imagination. I really didn\'t expect, between only in just a few days, will mount before I spoiled children transformed into a smart little Jewish businessman.
Their schooling and not subject to any influence, in order to hone more novel ways to make money, they are very hard to learn and think. teachers teaching is based on the contents of their stomachs, because there was no dedication such as didactic. Teacher asked them a question: \"when subjected to attacks of infidels, must escape when you fled with what? \"This question answered\" money \"or\" jewel \"is wrong. This is because, whether it be money or precious stones, once claimed to be completely lost. The correct answer is \"education\". Different from the property, as long as people live, education cannot be claimed by others. They appreciated the teacher said so: \"If you want to be rich in the future, learn the immediate things, sth they are useful in the future\"
When the boss in legal lessons learned after the immigration law, he told me that families should be able to go to the immigration service like ours receive financial relief. I went to salt, results back the financial relief of 6,000 shekels, which one of us but a great property. Then, the boss told me that because he gave me information that I should pay 10% remuneration. I hesitated for a long time, finally decided that sum of money to his 600 shekels, after he got the money, to both the brother and sister and I bought a beautiful gift, the rest of the money, he said he would take to become a lot more money.
Boss with the sum of payment mail order a number of stationery is cheap in the country, then go to the school for sale, profits invested continue purchase, after 1 year, amount of money on his account was already more than 2000 shekels.
While the boss is good at making money, but in practice, the second more than he can understand the essence of Jewish law. Common point is the Jews engaged in those industries that do not have to invest capital, other people not to do, without spending money and investment work. When the boss at the time of utilization of domestic resources to make money, the second and in so doing, however, he was made do not need to cost field of the spirit of profit. Second in his 14 years of age, and writing, has opened its own column in the newspaper, devoted to the Shanghai customs, delivery 2 articles per week, each 1000 words, 8,000 monthly Jagot Los.
Old three girls, because the more restrained, also can not show up to make money, but I was pleased to see the Jews living in her optimism and grace. She learned to tea and dim sum, every night, she would carefully cooked a pot of tea, accompanied by her own tastes different snacks, chat family sat down to eat. Third of snack a little taste of fusion, two brothers are very like. However, these snacks is not free, two brothers paid snacks cost planing to open-cost and the need to give me a day fee, old three can live quite moist.
When our money getting rich when we offered a 4-port joint venture our family\'s Chinese restaurant. I 40% shares, boss 30%, second nine, and the third 20%. When our restaurants when more and more famous, I caused a lot of attention. When I get Rabin after the interview, I became Israel\'s celebrity. At this point I have a full picture of the Hebrew text, coupled with my mother tongue in Chinese, I was eventually Israel national diamond company invited to serve as Chief Representative in China.
When I return home when serving the children followed me back to the Chinese, with Chinese children as a comparison object, we found my children to grow up better than I expected to be excellent. Before the return, every child to buy a lot of Israel articles. After returning, the teacher came to me, she said that my child in campus marketing from Israel of goods, have anything from jewelry to national costumes and even to bullet shells, she suggested me to discipline the child. I told her, I have no right to interfere in my child\'s behavior, this is the way they earn their tuition fees. Because I was no longer responsible for all of their fees. Teacher\'s eyes suddenly staring wide, she cannot understand the monthly salary of US $ 5,000 mother like me would not give the children tuition fees. My daughter asked her to taste home made price of 2 bucks a little dessert, smiled and told her: \"this is my child in Israel since a few years of life, product of the Institute of Jewish law, I believe they will continue to be an excellent talent sth\"
In then of college entrance examination in the, boss entered has tourism high College, he said he to became professional of tourism talent, and to Israel offered own of tourism company, monopoly operating China tour; second years, second examination into Shanghai foreign language College, he said he of ideal is Dang a writers, in does not required any investment and dedication of premise Xia earned profit; third said she will to learn China cooking, dang a top of pastry Division, and to offered full Israel best of pastry shop sth sth
After returning, I have found that many Chinese parents are living in an ambivalence from side to side, both hope that their child will become a millionaire, but seems to be afraid of children addicted to money prematurely. As if, both hope that the child will have a happy family, but afraid of children now have as puppy love. This is typical of the fabled YE Gong who claimed. Jews with percussion sound of gold coins meeting the child\'s birth, making money is the ultimate goal of their life, education, learning is to achieve this target have to go through process. And Chinese parents, and even hearts longing, but it has never refused to cards on this topic. It\'s hard to say this sentence do? But it was just a simple sentence: \"my child, I want to be a wealthy mother sth\"
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