Disputes, interpersonal \"compulsory\"

Chase is often the thing between the children, mothers do not have to too nervous to help babies in developing positive attitudes and approaches. Believe that in the aftermath of the numerous disputes, disputes after the lesson, baby will gradually adapt themselves, benefit.

Access to psychological balance after the baby is bullying are not comfortable, immediately wanted to recover losses, so hands-on, this is a self psychology.

MOM and dad to make babies establish consciousness of self-protection, reminded him from hands-on striker, cannot take the initiative to attack others. If the baby is being bullied by other children, he could be open, ask how he feels or say the feel for him, let him understand that MOM and dad about his mood. Then mum and dad, you should be the correct boot, for example: \"he hit you, you hurt, you beat him, he will also not hurt? ”

When a \"little gentleman\" dispute, MOM and dad should first assess the nature of things, not watch must not hurt the baby, cry. Let him learn humility, not for trivial haggle, which would let him get the trust and goodwill in the peer, win more friendship.

Society initiative to apologize in case of disputes, disputes, MOM and dad to help baby adjust the emotion in a timely manner, relieving feelings of stress, frustration, anger. Treat him to calm down, and then to talk to him, made him realize, regardless of right and wrong, as long as the hands on the right. For example, the mother may on first hand baby said, \"I know you have a grievance, can do is you put others down, it is your right. Apologies to child road, will you? You are good friends. ”

Suppression of aggressive behavior psychology research has shown that young people in crime fighting, the attacks can be traced back to early childhood. Therefore, attacks father mother baby appears in the dispute must be resolutely stopped. Effects of not encouraging the baby to render, much less personally for the baby of justice

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Growing up in disputes MOM and dad not to \"good boys don\'t cry\", to stop the baby aggrieved tears, don\'t use \"resolutely stand side of the baby\" to strengthen his bitterness and hatred. Repression and condoning are desirable.

A dispute is a child of compulsory subjects, is mutual learning, adaptation, effective way to improve communication ability. From here, the baby\'s imagination and ability have been increased. Therefore, the open-minded mentality for MOM and Dad can view disputes and guide society of babies in the dispute, and wisdom to solve the problem.