First, gender awareness
Some people say that today\'s children precocious puberty, kindergarten xiaomao children know only please the beautiful girls, others say not! Five or six year old boy will be clamoring for bath with mother, in fact, this may be to blame on father. Chinese has been taboo said \"sex\" the word now open, and some signs which said. But regardless of how, for men children,, as same-sex of father should from he is small of when on help he established up correct of gender consciousness: not let family to he wear was all neither fish nor fowl; told baby he is boy, should station with urine urine, and and not always think can with mother together bath; told he mother Shang finished toilet yihou since will out, without lie in door in monitored she will whether slipped off sth sth Each children in a aged around are has a followed period, he will as chicken as tightly followed mother follow SB. closely , even toilet also does not exception, at this time father should came forward to block boy of this behavior, first found other he interested in of things attract he of attention,, children grew up one o\'clock yihou on can told he \"mother is girls , boys does not can and girls together to toilet, but you can station in door protection mother, does not let villains came in. \"In this way, children will feel very strong, generally will not ask you\" Why can\'t boys and the girls \' washroom with \"this is a bit difficult to cope with the problem.
Help son build gender consciousness in the most important point is that he clearly knew that he was a boy, 2nd is to let him know of some local boys and girls born is not the same, this has nothing to curious third is correct behavior guidance and restrict inappropriate TV series for children in children.
Second, the responsibility
Has enjoyed a milk ad: out of Thunder and lightning, a little afraid son alone in the House, he ran to his mother\'s room, obviously seeking protection, but also seri
Young children, but Dad can\'t because the young have connived at his wayward and shirk, instead help after he realized that he was a boy, fathers would do the next step is to train the boy\'s responsibility. As mentioned earlier, you can take advantage of opportunities, will when children with inconvenience and mother said to be \"inside the mother to do something, not for others to see, baby standing guard outside the door, would you protect MOM? \" You can tell him\" you are boys, physically you are destined to be stronger than girls in the future, so you should protect the girls and modest girl. As if the protection of mother and dad. \"Of course, these things better not speak in front of wife, she may refuse to admit they are\" protected \".
In addition, you can also try in the days of late or traveling son said \"Daddy come back later today, you have to take care of mother, protect the good mother! \" This not only reduces the wife when a person with children he naughty or trick the probability that the mission could give children a heavy heart, he feels responsible, proud. And wife while you refuse to admit their own to protect you, but will small man made \"protection requests\" embrace.
Cultivation of the sense of including child is responsible for all the consequences of his actions, let him say will do, and so on. In the children\'s father general education issues like the way with extensive management, which also determines their able to tolerate children from under harmless conditions a little frustration and lessons, as long as the words of successor in place, in fact , different from mother\'s education is a good way.
Third, the brave
Perhaps now is the only child of reason, parents worry about their children be affected by this or that the harm this anxiety must limi
Such as going to tipping when playing music don\'t wanna talkto like a mother nagging, perform to SB. \'s baton at the back, also said that 10,000 times on \"watch out! ”。 Fathers can play their quick, great features, opening up the way children enjoy playing as much as possible, to believe that most of the children\'s game of facilities are safe enough reasonable, and its capacity is sufficient to cope with long distance protection occurs if possible. Think about it, when we were regaled in playing in the playground is how fully and delightfully Ah when, in the eyes of adults and not that stirring dangerous actions yet? So protection would only inhibit human instinct of emergency response mechanism.
Again not to use the imagination of terror to intimidate children, helped him overcome the fear of black psychology, of children brave attempts to be encouraged, these were fathers should do.
Four, away from violence
Boy\'s parents for things always have worries, if a child after showed plenty of courage began to worry that he will become like the use of violence. If properly guided, can avoid this from happening. And father but of responsibility in this regard! Why do we say? Because the father is a boy in character form first Idol, wherever he is worshipped for you or against or orientations were more or less grew up the son of character by the father\'s influence.
So in order to keep her son away from violence, father first to do so from their own without the use of violence, what do not educate children \"to violence for violence\" concept of the power of example in this regard is much larger than explain in words. Second, we must let children recognize that violence is not brave, you tell children dad n
Five, a sense of direction
Many people know that men of position sense are born much stronger than women, so in order for you to live up to the son of a natural advantage, for he was young, I would not be lost, lost, for he grew to lead the wife and children do not go the wrong way , now you need to start developing his sense of direction.
He is small, you can take his lying on the grass watching the stars, foster son of astronomical interest, till he could walk, you can put on lost baby son take you home; more can teach him to see maps, also be familiar with globe. Edutainment, and putting taught Yu playing in any when are does not wrong, you should using all can using of opportunities: in balcony Shang enjoy the cool of when, in Park in walking of when, to junket of when, are can taught son identified the four corners of the world , not that by \"Shang North Xia South, levo-cetirizine right East\" of mnemonics to distinguish of way, but by Sun, and by stars, and by plant of towards, necessary Shi also can relies on guide needle, tools sth sth These are usually lingnv \"big\" things , in the eyes of your father and son must be fun, inadvertently also agree without prior consultation of education really
Six, football
Why not have a very classical, called \"football, make a woman go away! \" Although I women\'s national football team is much more than the men\'s team makes people long face, however, most parents are not willing to their baby daughter to practice football. While boys are different, the ball is perfectly justified, the ballpark is obligatory. Women even if the claims themselves like football, most of them are just a \"pseudo-fans\", once her fascination with retired star, cuori in Campo without interest. But with different men, he saw football as a war, a fight, he likes to study strategies and tactics, enjoy the ball rather than a star, nature of aggressive components determined the man was born in fans, your son was born , therefore, you are considered a \"ball with\".
Mrs do not have to worry about the night watch is verbose, not need to trouble racked their brains for a right to Rob a TV remote control, or even that a lot of the sports newspaper and because utilization douzeng 100% , and it is for no reason-stained a cheaper. Developed a small fan, you vote on this family is forever frozen in 2:1, not to mention this is not a hard thing, because the son is a male, he is a natural fans.
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