Good family psychological atmosphere conducive to child development

Famous educationist of suchomlinski\'s think: family atmosphere is both a prerequisite for family education, which itself is an effective form of education. If the child is a seed, then the family is the soil, the family psychological atmosphere is air and water. Therefore, the family psychological atmosphere, is essential for children to grow up. How to create a good family atmosphere, is our common issues of concern.

First, the relationship of close family members, maintaining the integrity of the family.

Interpersonal relationships among family members determine the psychological atmosphere of the family and family stability. Modern family of parent-child relationship is the relationship between elder and younger, is also a partner and friend relationships, from the perspective of the former, parents to love their children, their growth, helping them overcome difficulties, and building confidence. Children\'s parents to respect and love. From the perspective of the latter, between parent and child should be equal, mutual respect, in particular, parents must respect the child\'s personality. Between husband and wife should understand each other, jointly bear responsibility for housework and education of children. Psychological compatibility of family harmony of interpersonal relations is conducive to family members, avoid mental conflicts, the constantly increasing level of psychological health of family members.

Second, attach importance to exchanges and interaction between the parents.

Modern pace of life, many parents busy neglect and child exchanges and two values, personality and other aspects of the differences between generations, can easily form a psychological barrier, only the two sides often communicate to reduce psychological distance, increase the common language. Therefore, except General of daily contact outside, parents also should have destinations and children communication exchange, as arrangements domestic labor, and major decision sought or adopted children of reasonable recommendations, and select good book good program and children together see, and patience listen to children said said school of things, and help they face setbacks overcome, and parent-child common travel training life taste rich spiritual life and so on, makes children always realized that own is family a member, willing to and parents communication.

Third, adjust the psychological, modest expectations for children.

Parents \' expectations can make children feel their parents \' care and love, is to motivate children and vigorous power. But away from the child the actual level of expectations, causes the family education to the children of a high pressure state, once the child does not meet the requirements of parents, parents will disappoint, complain and even swear, affected the harmonious psychological atmosphere of family. Parents should therefore realistic adjustment of expectations for the child, for the sake of child happiness of growth.

Four, parents should constantly improve its quality.

(1) improving the cultural quality. Future families are learning-oriented family, parents learning cultural knowledge can not only increase the level of family education and learning attitude and spirit, also set an example for children.

(2) improving the psychological quality. Parents \' psychological quality on family psychological atmosphere of great impact. When in family life, work, encounter difficulties in children to grow up, parents \' emotional stability, positive and optimistic, on family responsibility, and confidence in the children, you effectively have for children to create a good family atmosphere.

(3) improving the ideological and moral quality. Psychology studies have shown that, in terms of moral judgment and value orientation, parents and children has a correlation coefficient of 0.55. Children moral qualities are in a period of formation, strong plasticity, children and parents live together, see, deeds of parents plays a subtle educational effect, effect on children is profound. As educators makalianke said: \"How do you dress, how to talk with others, how to talk about other people, you how happy and unhappy, how friends and enemies, how to laugh, how to read newspapers--all of these children have a great significance. \"Therefore, the parents of noble sentiments, manners of civilization, is deeply infected children and thereby facilitate the family psychological atmosphere positive.

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