1. before remarriage, parents tell their children, and explain the reasons for this decision, doubt given a reasonable interpretation of the child, to assure the child father (mother) still as the original did love him, and also telling the kids, the new Uncle (aunt) is also in love with him (her). Eliminate the worry of children have been abandoned.
2. the relations between the husband and wife in the first place. Relations between husband and wife are at the heart of family relationships, as long as there is love, support, and harmonious coexistence of step-children will have a solid foundation.
3. understanding stepchildren hostility to the step-parent. Due to the influence of the traditional view, step-children prone to only parents are good ideas for the child. They must be negotiated with their spouses, tolerance and comfort to children, do not care about your child\'s attitude. On the step-children must be sincere, and be patient, and to create conditions to resolve step-child of hostility to the step-parent.
4. care, kind to step-children. The more you love each other\'s children, someone will love you. But you don\'t have to insist on developing close relationship with the step-children.
5. the initiative to maintain contacts with the child\'s teacher to listen to recommendations, and teacher support. （
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