How to educate \"uninvited cooked\" baby

Be bashful period should not be shy with strangers

Do not think that all babies will be shy with strangers, some babies are exposed to different people from the neonatal period, and of the environment, used to constantly meet new faces, naturally. In the period that is supposed to be shy with strangers without very strong reactions.

Do not be shy with strangers may make parents feel very gratified, not embarrassed because of baby cries when she sees strangers, nor easily to train the baby guts. But because the little guy is in a very weak security awareness of age, is not very good ability to distinguish, so the alertness of parents is his umbrella, no matter when and where, are distracting to, trying to protect him.

Personal security

1, time does not leave.

With a baby at the time of outdoor activities, do not let him leave your sight, not a second, which is to protect the baby means of security is the most critical.

2, the baby is busy.

Prepare baby special package, every time you go out is to take baby\'s favorite toys and small snacks, so he has something to do, is not easy to disperse their attention, when he was immersed in the game of their own, and might have no time to fear of strangers \"call\".

3, code of conduct.

Baby identify strangers although education is good or bad, it is too early, but guiding baby safe behavior is the sooner, the better. Greet you when baby no ran to smile when a stranger towards him, pulled him in a timely manner, and said to him: \"baby, and if you want to greet someone, make sure to tell MOM and dad, we go! \"Patience is the most important, to constantly repeat what you say, in baby form an established concept in the mind, his safety awareness-raising.

4, the right idea.

To note is that in education while babies pay attention to safety, do not instill the concept of error to him: strangers are bad guys, \"stolen babies, never see mother again! \"Tell the baby, talk to strangers, or when something from the stranger, we must first seek the consent of the parents. Education is the goal of the baby you want to proceed with caution, not frighten him.

5, place selection.

As far as possible take the baby to some relatively quiet place, crowd levels high, such as libraries, coffee shops, and avoid some noise mixed places, such as stations, farms, and so on, to a large extent, reducing security risks.

6, declined to strangers.

When strangers to hold the baby, or give the baby to eat when feeling in inappropriate circumstances, to declined, do not hesitate, willing to understand.

7, select the strangers.

Let baby appropriate contact with strangers, for his development of communicative skills, language skills are beneficial, on the premise of safety first, you can rest assured to get the baby to contact the appropriate people, for example, also has a baby person, kind of the elderly, help to open up your baby\'s life circle.