According to the survey, one-fifth shy child is congenital, or so-called innate, such shy children grow up and be a friendly, confident adults. And experts the children do not love performing in front of strangers, as well as shy.
Parents if you want to change the child shy behavior in front of strangers, and are willing to venture to show, it may be you can do:
First, accept the fact that children naturally shy, child of a certain age is already an idea of the individual, he can not fully acting in accordance with your wishes. So adults not because children do not get mad at you, not this, after many experience will make him more humility.
Second, not in the presence of children and others say that children naturally shy, afraid to perform in front of others, or he will think you, as you put it, is not willing to change.
Third, give children a little more encouragement, can even accompany his performances together, and let him feel that there is a companion, performing in front of strangers, and there is nothing terrible.
Four, if children do not want to perform in front of others, not grudgingly, that not every child\'s socialization process must do, this is not what\'s wrong behavior.
V, each time he finished performing, parents should take the lead in warm applause, make him feel his behaviour was affirmed and welcomed, enhance self-confidence, reduced the timid and shy, it won\'t be long before, he will be in front of people willing to show up, after he performed, must not neglect him.
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