Grandma, I want to eat sugar. \"Lots of drag Grandma\'s arm, pout a little mouth spoiled.
\"A lot of good, Grandma washed this dress to take more. ”
\"No, I am now. ”
Lots of continued pestering granny. Grandma action a little slow point, a lot of ass sitting on the floor, crying with a loud voice. Grandma sees in hurriedly threw a hand, or even too late to have a good wash, with one\'s feet hardly touching the ground run to help you with lots of sugar.
For many it is, wait is one of the things that people can\'t stand. In the long process of dealing with Grandma, she learned to use crying the tactic to deal effectively with Grandma. She knew that she was crying more, her wish will be met more in less time. Lots of the Mace did very well, grandma was afraid to insult. In order to prevent the holiday more without crying, her request, no matter how unreasonable, Grandma will meet in the shortest possible time.
\"I cannot wait a second. \" Lots of promise. She had no patience grandmother very distressed, nothing but. Is a weekend to a MOM and Dad can finally reunited with lots of. Grandma picked not more time, quietly to the father reported a lot of performance. Father does not have the responsibility to the many who, on the contrary, but Grandma complaining has doubled. Grandma could think of, and how will no more patience in what about it?
In fact, patience is not a baby born with qualities. Babies need to take a long time to learn to be patient. Let your baby learn patience is to raise the baby AQ (ability to resist setback) value of one of the important instruments. The same intelligence level of the crowd, AQ values of high or low on his success almost played a decisive role. Therefore, we cannot feel bad baby deprived him opportunities to learn patience, on the contrary, we should create conditions for the baby to provide more opportunities to learn patience. Research shows that 0-3 is a crucial period of person forming good habits andgood character, therefore, start with nurturing baby patience also from this stage.
0-1 years
Baby born from a learned to cry. Crying is the baby of a signal for help. Is a common condition, slightly a crying baby, MOM and dad will rush to provide services like a fire. As a result, babies less and less good, more and more difficult. In fact, the developing baby\'s patience should start from scratch. Many people may cast doubt on this view, from the age of zero will start baby\'s patience too cruel? In fact, this is an extra worries. For zero-age of the baby, of course, time must have control of the patient in a relatively short time, up to two or three minutes, or a shorter period of time. It as the baby and the reality may be.
As long as the special emergency is not the case, you can embark on training schemes. The beginning, don\'t be too impatient, after the sound of babies crying a few he can immediately meet the requirements, then gradually to extend this time, let the baby a little bit used. To note is that you are designed to give the baby to learn to be patient, therefore, need to communicate your action to the baby so that a message: whatever we reflect the fast or slow, he needs will always be met. So that you can establish a relationship of mutual trust between you and your baby, and sufficient to encourage baby next time to wait for a long time. To have the baby is convinced that you will not ignore him, you can talk to him, and force yourself to wait for a while. While children aged zero to your nagging also could not understand how many, but the gentle tones of the language you will be able to comfort baby, the baby from crying quieted down.
One thing to keep in mind is, for zero-age of the baby, he is self-centered, he used to put their needs in the first place, his patience is very limited. Therefore, we should have the time, his cry in time to meet his demands before the upgrade.
When baby can already use oflanguage to communicate with you, the better. Every time when baby can scarcely wait to do something, we can through the following methods to help him understand his wish of a specific time frame. For example: \"I know the baby is hungry, we read this story, rice is cooked. Baby\'s stomach can fill up. \"\" You see, there are 8 Apple, we eat every evening, until 8 ate apples, baby\'s birthday arrives. \"\" The CD out, mother is go home. \"Aided understanding baby time like this, can effectively help him learn to patiently wait and not by anger to pass the time.
1.5-3 years
In this age of the baby is still self-centered. He don\'t know how to look after other people\'s emotions, and their needs to continue to be his guardian, so MOM and dad to his care, appreciation and warmth into the important content of his dependence. However, it is the good news is, when the baby has been able to communicate effectively with you. If the baby is 1 year and a half before they accept a patient training, baby you want to continue to receive training of this period much easier.
Before the age of 3 babies have more sensitive, if requested by him, and you have no response, so babies can be very confusing, he even doubts whether you still love him. Because of these concerns, no reaction you might make him feel anxiety. This is a normal phenomenon, therefore, once the baby is his demand to you, you must respond in a timely manner, the coldLight baby is absolutely nothing should be done in ways. By giving your baby a limited period of time to help your baby learn to be patient. When the baby to you upon request, you should react immediately, to explain to the baby not immediately meet the requirements of his reasons, and to him an acceptable limit of patience, not indifference to dispose of all. \"Baby is good, wait till you read this book I will come. \"\" I drink this cup of coffee, we went to buy toys. \"Of course, you can take other reminders for the baby he needs time towait, for example, give him a small alarm clock, let him take a pile of blocks, let him put on a string of beads, and so on. Purpose is to let your baby learn to be patient, but also to make him feel have not been snubbed. Baby got used to it all, even very anxious, he will learn to finish the matter at hand or waiting for you to finish the matter at hand and then request.
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