Leaving the great old man, as soon as I have turned into \"Germany Mum\", independent and easily raising children.
Lele in adapting to new lives in 18 months, than I much Chinese mother superior in the more than 30 years old. I leave so many loved ones, in Germany the initial few weeks, just like fall into the 18 layers of hell. I really miss my mother. From the moment of Lele was born, she and we lived together, pour all the effort and love, I and it\'s more fun to their every whim. We have to leave Beijing, mother has thin only 45 kilograms, so mothers in Germany does not exist! In Western countries, grandparents or relatives at best temporary help look after children, 365 days a year, 24 hours a day, \"full-time\" taking care of grandchildren, is simply inconceivable.
My \"adaptation period\" lasted 3 full weeks. I am almost every day is to call your mother, and hoped that she could come and live with us for some time in Berlin. How to never, serving on the field spell can kill me, as a mother is so fragile. Now, every Thursday afternoon, I took it\'s more fun and yilishabai party with three children. See her comfortably with 3 years, 2 years and 2 months of three children, I find that I have to completely change into \"Germany mother\", is a way out.
To be \"Germany Mum\", must reverse their children all the nervousness of sth
Want to be \"Germany Mum\", first of all should not be too concerned about their children. China\'s only child abuse, of children born into a family is the core, parents to his
feelings, needs, emotions, or even each expression to make a response.2 Hana playing tired himself fell asleep on the floor, her mother continued to do other things. Lele sleep sleep hard for 18 months, over a cup of milk, listen to me sing children\'s songs, storytelling, home to other people is not the slightest sound. Now on kindergartens, 12 o\'clock noon, teacher TINA pull the curtains, all the child went to bed, couldn\'t sleep sitting on the bed, don\'t make any noise. Lele in kindergartens could only sleep for less than half an hour\'s NAP, I fear it could affect her brain development. After TINA hears smiled and said to me, \"don\'t worry, noon without sleep, to sleep better at night! ”
In addition, Chinese parents raising children and pig-raising standards, simply the pursuit of fat. Lele 5 pounds at birth of 72 per cent, in fact, fully functional, but all relatives thought she \"congenitally deficient\". Since then, I\'ll never be \"Lele too thin\" wrestling with the problem. To Germany I was surprised to find, it\'s more fun in their higher than 2 years old children in the class and strong! Chinese parents seek children small arm fat in the lower leg is as \"Lotus\", can be of Michelin tires \"image representative.\" And I from the first time in 1996 to Germany, 10 haven\'t found a Germany \"Lotus infant\" sth
Admission on the first day, I told TINA: \"Lele poor appetite, be sure to let her eat lunch. \" TINA smiled and told me, children their most clear when full, do not control. This is also the mother of China do not accept things. Germany boy is the rule, it is \"fresh statements does not, lie in silence\", a silent mouth stuffed potatoes and noodles. It\'s more fun eating, talk, play, always next to a small spoon to child feeding. A few minutes later, TINA away small jobs, Lele is almost nothing to eat here, lunch was over!
Time day by day in the past, I seem to have gradually become a \"Germany mother.\" One day, it\'s more fun with dad and I coun
ted. Suddenly, he seriously said to me: \"you have in the future province of some flowers, we have to save up money left to it\'s more fun in the future, to take her to the United States to study, have to buy her a House sth Also , Lele has a child in the future, we are when grandma Grandpa \'s, but had to help her with child. ”I was dumbfounded, this authentic \"fathers in China\", urgent transformation of sth
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