Play is a child of nature, but some children but will not play, even on the clinic for treatment, learn how to play.
Bamboo feet child development centre in February this year the children learn to play (learn-to-play) scheme, of 15 children per week to the Center for play therapy.
Occupational therapists Hu Jialing interview revealed that some children are stood and sat all day, doing nothing. Some will be playing games, when therapists pass on an ordinary toys, the child becomes overwhelmed, unable to play to the imagination to play.
She said: \"children are not playing, often display their physical and mental development problems. Playing ability of different ages have different indicators, such as 1, 2-year old children must know how to throw the ball, play teaspoon, take squares, imitating the phone, older children can imitate a complex of activities of daily living, play to the imagination, will play with other people, or even follow some simple rules of the game. ”
She noted that many parents do not understand the importance of children\'s play, they are often found in children do not speak or not to walk, or complaints received nursery children are often gregarious, to seek medical attention.
She said: \"many parents do not know whether these indicators when their children play, as they will when children play, busy doing their own thing. Modern parents often let the children watch TV, play video games for a long time, so many courses or, causes children lack of free time for creative play. ”
Hu Jialing pointed out that the parents of children not to play is not entirely wrong, these children are often born development is slower, but if parents pay more attention to, next to the from supervision and guidance, can help improve many of the children.
In her view, many benefits play on child development, can facilitate their physical and mental health, empathy, imagination, creativity, self-confidence, social skills, a sense of balance, time space concept, finger dexterity, logical thinking, choice and judgment, language skills, and so on.
She said: \"If the child does not know how to play, cannot play out their thinking, is more difficult to use words to express. Research shows that children will play, storytelling ability than ordinary child, and also more systematic account of his experiences in the school, speaks not East West. ”
Might be autistic
In addition, will not play may also be one of the signs of autism. To the bamboo feet child development center for play therapy for children, has two-thirds in to accept further inspection, was diagnosed as autistic.
When Ke Jiahui little daughter is 15 months old and found that she will not speak, called her name without reaction, after doctors discovered she is suffering from autism.
She said: \"my oldest daughter is very properly, so I didn\'t think small daughter has autism. She is not very serious, it will not be obvious. Fortunately, you can detect, through therapy to improve her behavior.
Ke Jiahui said small daughter after receiving treatment, balance became better, more flexible fingers, imagination, concentration increase, language competence has also improved, and playing with my family, no longer solely in their own world.
She said: \"Although compared with other age children, she was development is slower, but I know how to teach her and help her play to the strengths. For example, she\'s not talking too, a more sensitive about the image, so I prepared a variety of images, such as pictures of food, she can take images, saying it is for her to eat such things. ”
From the perspective of playing mind
Occupational therapists will make these little patients in front of her play, and carefully observe their behavior, to see if they comply with the development of that age.
Hu Jialing, for example, a 4 year old child while playing, must be able to reach the 6 main indexes including:
* One thing more: you can imagine several things and then play a pen, for example as a spoon or pen gun or aircraft.
* Order of operations: copy order of daily life, such as baby showers, first strip, before showers and dressing.
* Topic: while playing, has set up and implement the same theme, such as shopping or to the Zoo or to participate in birthday party
* Social network: you can play with others, toy also knows how to work with each other \"negotiations\".
* Role play: for example, played a mother, a teacher or doctor
* Personified: bear or Doll or robot personified, try thinking from each other\'s positions, for example, understand the doll will be sad, or share with bear toys.
Occupational therapists will observe patients with small areas in which weaker, tailored design for him playing a series of projects, play and teach parents how to encourage small patients at home. More serious condition required each week are bamboo feet child development center, under the guidance of physical therapists, to play for 45 minutes.
Hu Jialing revealed: \"some parents think play just is a waste of time, will not come. Some parents ask us to teach children to learn to read, write. On the play when the parents not treated seriously, we have no idea. ”
However, some parents, even if the children have recovered, is still not assured, hoped that the continuing child reflex diagnosis.
Hu Jialing said: \"the best playing environment is actually at home. Parents can help children relax, don\'t worry about messing place dirty, or boy. Toys Games can change
Parents can let the children play creative without reserve to the specified rules. Toy needless daily some debris, such as cloth, wood, box, jar, just be sure to clean and safe, can be a good toy. ”Parents! Let the children play
Visit, heard a accompany granddaughter accepted to play in the treatment of grandmother, granddaughter of hopping about being called play \"now playing is enough, go home and stop playing. ”
Many modern children indeed lack of recreational facilities, environment, and opportunities. Should have been lively Rabbit rabbit look into the distance from a high place of children, adults under the pressure exerted by the, you must behave, a tiny step not to deviate from.
Working parents busy, no playing time with the child, to compensate for the child, parents instead bought a bunch of commercialization of video games and other toys. Double deprived children play this time.
Many toys have specified rules, and part is equipped with comprehensive, playing up and lack of imagination space.
Therefore, while the modern children\'s toys, but less often led to their opportunities to encourage creativity, enable them to become more \"will not play\".
Some parents think play is a waste of time, would rather idle time for children to go to the tutorial, mental arithmetic classes and so on, be filled child\'s schedule.
Parents mind: read more important than playing
Many parents of mind is, will the children play, what\'s important, grew up reading it would be nice.
Grandma like kinds of water before, often take advantage of the growth direction of ropes and other tools to modify it to create some model posture.
She said, when it must take advantage of the branches is very tender, if branches have hard, it\'s hard to change. Cultivation a person, principle should be the same, to teach creative, courteous, and values, have to take advantage of the young.
In fact, the play is esoteric knowledge, because children in the age of knowledge absorptive capacity is very strong, in the middle of play, sense of direction and command of space time, communication skills, knowledge of how to get along with others, such as how to solve the problem, have unwittingly become a child of something in the bag.
Lack of play opportunities for children, and thus missing opportunities to acquire useful skills. Therefore, in order to provide children with good entertainment, equipment, playmates, \"is not a joke\", and each parent to consider carefully.
Of course, to accompany the children to play, or to let children have fun play, one thing is really quite tired.
Accompany 1 year old son playing, I\'m not busy picking up rolling the ball under the Chair, is to accompany his house run, up and down the stairs. After the play, toys one by one up for him, sometimes he good mood, \"help me to clean up\", in which case more busy, because we just put away, he would come out to play together.
However, see him frequently hit upon, I totally thought way of playing with some toys (such as cups for toys when shoes), I have to admire his creativity.
Regular House and downstairs neighbor took him to group the children playing, his social skills progress, not only know and children share toys, even my social skills has also been progress, previously completely unknown places, gradually mature complex.
Play important? Society for children will play, probably not too much importance to it, even the child likely will not play, but is recognized as more good.
However, adult society is cruel, if not from an early age to learn to play, grow up unable to adapt to the community of \"rules of the game\" will get into trouble or expense.
Therefore, parents, instead of constantly forced the children to read, may wish to think about, children do have a good enough?
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