Respect for the child, United States family education starting point

Respect is the United States how important and special nutrition in children\'s education. For example, Americans pay attention to tone and method for talking to children, not only adults to listen to children, and sometimes also to squat down dialogue with children, make children feel you respect him and avoid his \"low class\" feeling. Children eat cannot force; children do something wrong no unwarrantable reprimanded; child command for changing clothes or tone, otherwise, the shadow will be left to the child\'s psychological inferiority. Parents with their children go out to visit, if owners take out food to the children, the Americans are the most taboo earlier instead of the child to answer \"don\'t eat\", \"not\" like, is not in the child wants to eat when reproach for the kids. They believe that children what you want or want to see what is not wrong in itself, because the child had this need, there is no reason for anyone to blame, only according to timely appropriate explanation and description, to boot. Americans oppose parents in front of people teach children, nor allow the scolded child in front people \"disappointing\" and \"idiot\", \"worthless\" because it would hurt the self-esteem of children, parents do is a crime. United States parents respect, not only because of their age, need love, care and training, but also they have been a separate entity from birth, have their own independent will and personality. Whether parent or teacher does not have privileges to control or limit their actions. In particular children, later in the growth of most cases of teachers cannot replace them to objectively choose, therefore, to make children feel that they are their own masters.

Great educator Locke said: \"parents do not promote child\'s fault, the children on their laurels, the greater the value, thus more carefully maintaining others on their own at home. If parents publicly declared their mistakes, their shame, the more they feel that their reputation has suffered, maintaining own reputation the more mind is weak. \"Some people think that United States parents respect for children is going too far to the, but the fact that, by his parents good respect for the child with the parents of most of them very cooperative, they are friendly, polite, talking with adults don\'t have any sense of cramped, self-strong independent consciousness. Child psychologists believe that these are good reactions of children deserve respect.