Understanding personal smart
In discussing smart both human intelligence and introspection before personal smart, I want to talk a look at a on the understanding of the importance personal intelligent prejudice. Theory of multiple intelligences Gardner said, smart is equal value of all, that is, any intelligence cannot be more valuable than the other. Value of intelligence by the origin and development of its own, and culture in the era of decisions at that time. Such an example, as I noted earlier, hundreds of years ago, natural intelligence far more important than it is now. Of course, appears before the spoken and written language, logical intelligence is also irrelevant, far from being as it is in the literary world of the prevalence of today. Special age, background, sources, determine the corresponding value of a smart.
Today, however, in the early 21st century, every smart has its own value, every smart can be used to solve the problem, but there is no doubt that some intelligence worth more than others. I think smart is the most important of the individual. Because when we look at the successful people, when we think about what makes successful (regardless of how you define success), we found that successful people who recognized, all because of their personal intelligent use of success. No doubt they read, write and compute power are great. They are likely to have outstanding talent for art, music or architecture. They can be like the wild or working with animals. However, no matter what the circumstances, are their personal intelligence talent, leading them to success.
Interpersonal intelligence development
Interpersonal intelligence is defined as \"the ability to understand other people and relationships\". United States high interpersonal intelligence of celebrities including human rights leader in the war of liberation in Martin? she? Dr King, former President Luo Naduo? ligenhebier? Clinton, as well as TV talk-show host Oprah? Wei Furui.
Requires strong interpersonal intelligence consultant talents, like teacher. For this, if you do not take into account people\'s occupations, with strong interpersonal intelligence can increase productivity. A lawyer if you have strong interpersonal intelligence, he can feel how the judges taking into account, and then will be able to make adjustments in a timely manner, in winning the case. A shift leader or a Manager if you can understand his hands and knows how to motivate them, they will better production plans. One accounting software designer or if you can read a customer\'s needs and to understand their goals, they will do very well. If the consumer knows he needs a sales staff, he will be successful. In fact, in each area of work, with a high interpersonal intelligence is of great value.
High interpersonal intelligence includes a good observer, inferred from the people\'s behavior, read their facial expressions and body language, and a good listener. These all together in a unique channel makes people good at understanding other people.
Child is an infant with a high interpersonal intelligence like:
And play with others
Together with others (usually do not like a person stay)
Pay attention to the education of others, taking care of others and others
Focus on cooperation, without attention to compete in the games
And guiding the United to form a very special relationship
Have high interpersonal intelligence children grow older they will like:
Form a team, or companion to promote the development of
Conflict resolution or design solutions, making everybody happy
Speculated that other people\'s thoughts and motives
Consultancy and recommendations be
Meet new friends
Play a leadership role in the Group
How to develop children\'s interpersonal intelligence
And learning like Ta Kwu Ling, or copying, it makes no difference, development children children the focus of attention is the key interpersonal intelligence, and their practice. Reiterating, some children have more potential than others; in any case, all children can benefit from their concerns.
Concern refers to the intention to develop the ability to understand others. For young children, and parents if adoption and child Exchange to train their consciousness, we can achieve this effect. This is a good way to start developing interpersonal intelligence. Ask children questions, why they are such response actions and emotions to others. \"Why he would do it? \"\" There are other ways to solve this problem? \"\" Why do these people not working together properly? \"\" Is what made him a leader in it? \"These problems can help children begin to understand those erratic behavior. (Sometimes, watching TV and movies asking these questions, visit their personalities, characters are simpler than reality. ）
Practice, as its name implies refers to: give children some situation, practicing their \"people skills\", that is, interpersonal intelligence. Children need to learn how to get along with others, they need to learn how to become a leader or staff. Put them in these situations to occur, to involve them in a club or other social organizations, these skills can be developed.
Then parents can help their children develop interpersonal intelligence methods and activities. In addition, these recommendations are developed, some method is particularly suitable for young children, and some methods for little children, be more efficient.
1, and with others are the conditions necessary to develop interpersonal intelligence. As simple as they say: children need to be together with others, you need to know people can understand them. Parents need to spend some effort for the children to find some playmates. This is also true. But sometimes this is something that is simple, a day care centre or a corner of the playground will be able to provide children with a fortune.
2, let the children at the same time as the leader and was the Manager\'s role is
It is important. Some children, is rather special, tendency to have the role among string to string to. Children need to be familiar with leader roles and habit of being led, it is very important. 6, 7 year old children to teach them these concepts, there is need to experience these two roles. Parents often want their children to play a leading role, and does not play other roles (sometimes? ρ Word Hill * Jenny Wren? target? BSP; multiple intelligences introspection on the development of intelligentIntrospection of intelligent development
Introspective intelligence refers to \"touch a person\'s emotional life, as a means of understanding themselves and others.\" In short, it refers to know their own strengths and weaknesses, aware of their needs and abilities. Smart I think introspection is the most important intelligence.
Why introspective intelligence is the most important? If your introspective intelligence is very high, you will be able to know when and how in a reasonable manner, in at the right time to use your other intelligent; you can find out what you can do better is, you will find a good way to do it perfect. If your introspective intelligence is very good, you\'ll know your weaknesses and how do you overcome them. Conversely, if your introspective intelligence is poor, you will continue to commit the same mistakes over and over again, not a good play of your ability.
Very representative was when you looked, some of us are clearly intelligent lack of introspection. For example, we all know that several people at a time in life make the same mistakes over and over again. Because they do not all kinds of boss and good relationships at work accomplish nothing. Or personal life is also failed, could not be established to his satisfaction of interpersonal relationships. These people because they cannot understand why unsuccessful thing continuing in \"their\" head, quotes in their heads is that they think the problem is not in their possession, is meant. Of course, we will always be easy to see why they have so many difficulties but they do not see that. We understand the part of the reason, probably most of the reasons is that they have a behavior problem, but they do not understand this reason. They lack the ability to reflect on and understand the problem is a typical example of intelligent lack of introspection.
Those with a strong sense of introspection intelligent children typically have the following characteristics:
* Love daydreaming
* Owned and expression for food or activity strong preference
* When you need to ask for help (but also know when they do not need Assistant)
When they grow up, intelligent children are often strong introspection preferences:
Keep a diary *
* Set an objective and to pursue these objectives
* Observation of other people, sometimes from an outsider\'s point of view problem
* Pressing to get from others feedback
* And they trust with people who reflect on their behaviour
* Willing to take calculated risks
* Even if their friends have the opposite stance, also dare to express their ideas
How to develop the child\'s introspective intelligence
Discuss the development of introspective intelligence is difficult, because it is the most difficult to study all intelligent. We can easily observe other smart tips. But in most cases, understanding how people are well aware of their own is difficult.
To help children reflect on themselves and actively face the feedback, the first point is the creation of an attitude, even though the feedback obtained are not always what they want, but it is part of learning, and is useful. In fact, not positive feedback people are always in the form of self-protection off the self: they don\'t want to hear what others are saying, they are not willing to let their feelings get hurt. Therefore, parents can do is let your children know how a person\'s growth is the need to rely on external feedback. For this, the most effective method is to set behavior examples.
Next is, we propose to engage in interactive activities between parents and children, parents to participate in activities to help children develop their introspective intelligence. On each smart, my advice is provided by development, that is, some of which are appropriate for young children, other suitable for older children. However, introspective intelligence is concerned, there are two additional factors to consider. First, many rely on children\'s ability to describe. Secondly, many rely on children with others (such as parent) willingness to reflect on together. In addition, to make these are effective, parents must create a good start for children, safe, comfortable environment. Let the children will be able to discuss these issues in various forms, is quite necessary. Establish a reflection mode, let children in early recognition of these problems can be solved, and feedback are not always positive, it is very important.
Four of the following policies are to talk with the children, help its soul-searching as the Center. When these steps overlap when there is a universal order. In other words, while the child was still a very early age, parents have the best start to talk about their own. Then begin to discuss other people\'s behaviour becomes meaningful, then went on to be the children of one\'s behavior, and finally the others \' ideas. Preceding them is relatively simple, require more reasoning behind and thought. This put themselves in another way of thinking only in terms of when the children grow up a little time (and with the development of intelligent they introspection) appears.
1, parents \' mutual exchange of introspection on adult behavior is a very effective way to start
Mutual exchange what successful things did you do that, and what has been a setback, let the child know that such thinking and communication vividly is acceptable, even more are expected. Because it is part of growing up. (AC \"overtures\" may involve a number of other intelligent, like the violin or play badminton, or it may be a person of a work, or even represent one in a new social groups in the performance of like)
2, and the children to talk about other people\'s behavior is
Have to let the children compare themselves with others, to understand how well their own. After all, only when we compare themselves with others, when we will know that they are winning or backward. Parents can learn about the child, for analysis to help them again. For example, help the children is not too much criticism, and don\'t be too sure.
3, and the children talk about their own behavior
Ask the children what they do is good, how to do it differently, why they succeed, and how they are changing what they do is necessary. When parents do it, you need to keep their own judgement as possible, rather than give way to the children themselves is how this behavior? term ρ * multiple intelligences Yau introspection on the development of intelligent
Introspection of intelligent development
Introspective intelligence refers to \"touch a person\'s emotional life, as a means of understanding themselves and others.\" In short, it refers to know their own strengths and weaknesses, aware of their needs and abilities. Smart I think introspection is the most important intelligence.
Why introspective intelligence is the most important? If your introspective intelligence is very high, you will be able to know when and how in a reasonable manner, in at the right time to use your other intelligent; you can find out what you can do better is, you will find a good way to do it perfect. If your introspective intelligence is very good, you\'ll know your weaknesses and how do you overcome them. Conversely, if your introspective intelligence is poor, you will continue to commit the same mistakes over and over again, not a good play of your ability.
Very representative was when you looked, some of us are clearly intelligent lack of introspection. For example, we all know that several people at a time in life make the same mistakes over and over again. Because they do not all kinds of boss and good relationships at work accomplish nothing. Or personal life is also failed, could not be established to his satisfaction of interpersonal relationships. These people because they cannot understand why unsuccessful thing continuing in \"their\" head, quotes in their heads is that they think the problem is not in their possession, is meant. Of course, we will always be easy to see why they have so many difficulties but they do not see that. We understand the part of the reason, probably most of the reasons is that they have a behavior problem, but they do not understand this reason. They lack the ability to reflect on and understand the problem is a typical example of intelligent lack of introspection.
Those with a strong sense of introspection intelligent children typically have the following characteristics:
* Love daydreaming
* Owned and expression for food or activity strong preference
* When you need to ask for help (but also know when they do not need Assistant)
When they grow up, intelligent children are often strong introspection preferences:
Keep a diary *
* Set an objective and to pursue these objectives
* Observation of other people, sometimes from an outsider\'s point of view problem
* Pressing to get from others feedback
* And they trust with people who reflect on their behaviour
* Willing to take calculated risks
* Even if their friends have the opposite stance, also dare to express their ideas
How to develop the child\'s introspective intelligence
Discuss the development of introspective intelligence is difficult, because it is the most difficult to study all intelligent. We can easily observe other smart tips. But in most cases, understanding how people are well aware of their own is difficult.
To help children reflect on themselves and actively face the feedback, the first point is the creation of an attitude, even though the feedback obtained are not always what they want, but it is part of learning, and is useful. In fact, not positive feedback people are always in the form of self-protection off the self: they don\'t want to hear what others are saying, they are not willing to let their feelings get hurt. Therefore, parents can do is let your children know how a person\'s growth is the need to rely on external feedback. For this, the most effective method is to set behavior examples.
Next is, we propose to engage in interactive activities between parents and children, parents to participate in activities to help children develop their introspective intelligence. On each smart, my advice is provided by development, that is, some of which are appropriate for young children, other suitable for older children. However, introspective intelligence is concerned, there are two additional factors to consider. First, many rely on children\'s ability to describe. Secondly, many rely on children with others (such as parent) willingness to reflect on together. In addition, to make these are effective, parents must create a good start for children, safe, comfortable environment. Let the children will be able to discuss these issues in various forms, is quite necessary. Establish a reflection mode, let children in early recognition of these problems can be solved, and feedback are not always positive, it is very important.
Four of the following policies are to talk with the children, help its soul-searching as the Center. When these steps overlap when there is a universal order. In other words, while the child was still a very early age, parents have the best start to talk about their own. Then begin to discuss other people\'s behaviour becomes meaningful, then went on to be the children of one\'s behavior, and finally the others \' ideas. Preceding them is relatively simple, require more reasoning behind and thought. This put themselves in another way of thinking only in terms of when the children grow up a little time (accompanied by their introspection of intelligent
