Soothe the mind: the book and the power of radio to be life

In order to help children in earthquake affected conveyance and fear in the heart, rebuild the homes of the mind, a few days ago, by the Central People\'s broadcasting station, Chinese psychological society, a cultural research association of Chinese family and parents must read magazine co-hosted \"soothe the mind\" special operations start.

First of all, parents must read magazine for to select a group to help children solve the negative psychological impact, soothe the mind, back into the normal life of outstanding children\'s books. Believe that these books can become parents and teachers working with children and volunteers help children psychological rehabilitation assistants. Parents must read magazine purchased most of these books will be sent to the affected area in the near future, hope that these books can help us get \"cherish life, soothing sorrow, overcoming fear, brave and strong, learn to love, face the future\" power.

At the same time, in order to ensure the impact of the disaster the children to feel the power of these excellent books in the story, been refuge of the soul, from May 26, 2008, the Central People\'s radio voice of China famous brand catalog of the trumpet (late 8:35---9:00) set up special programmes broadcast these special filters work, by reading comfort children\'s hearts in the disaster areas. Also, from May 26 up China of sound special launched for disaster areas juvenile new Office of large column with in Star Xia under (9:10-10:00), to warm of accompanied, and subtle of grooming mainly, every day will invited a bit \"Star Messenger\", for disaster areas of juvenile told story, on feel, and read by parents will read under and China psychology will special recommended of excellent works, comfort disaster areas of juvenile soul, and as \"Liuyi\" Qian to children of special gift.

In line with this action, Chinese family culture education association joint Culture Commission has emergency procurement worth 170,000 yuan radio and batteries, will be delivered into the hands of children in the disaster areas as soon as possible, so that they can pick up these beautiful and touching voice.

Psychological Society of China, Chinese Academy of Sciences, Deputy Secretary General Han Buxin by psychological researchers pointed out that help children after the quake rebuilding homes work scientifically of the mind, specifically, selectively recommended reading and broadcast stories for children, is in fact opens up a can control our own psychological healing process. From the actual conditions of the current disaster and post-disaster normal psychological reaction processes take into account two aspects of time, most affected children need this \"moisten things silently\" help.

Child psychology experts, the parents must read magazine associate editor Xu Fan believes that now, we say to children to be brave, be strong, sometimes particularly pale. Is accompanied by children now need most, is something to do, is to have the power to help them come out from the trauma of the disaster, as people is a social. At this moment, reason often doesn\'t work, tell a story, in another voice very specifically precisely tell children what is courage, what life, what is a friendship, how do we face the future. Due to the selection of stories and experiences of children with similar and distance will become factors of children voluntarily accept. This allows different children will vary depending on your situation, learn to different forces.

Organizers hope to have more people to join the mutual assistance in the activities of the mind, reading, testimonial, welcome ever moved yourself, help yourself through difficult times of books tell us (please visit www.fumubidu.com.CN), believe they will become the spirit of helping rebuild the soul of a child nutrition after the disaster.

Issue 2007 of the parents must read main ideas

Confinement in 4 of the most important thing

1. Breastfeeding as far as possible. Breastfeeding is a natural way of feeding children most, but not every new mother can successfully master. To consult more nurses and nursing experience of mother, and then insist on, hold on;

2. Ensure good indoor ventilation, room temperature appropriate. Neonatal heat centers are not sound, cooled and overheating to disease. Indoor temperature that allows babies body temperature under the armpit at 36 ° c ~37 ° c is ideal. Winter had better control at 20 ℃ at room temperature ~24 ℃, the room temperature at 26 ° c ~28 ° c in summer.

3. Decline or decrease visits, contact wash hands and nursing care of newborn babies in advance.

4. Time to have contact with my mother every day. Mother\'s smell, temperature, sound, are able to keep babies safe. Exchange ways of touching, and baby talk, and listen to music with baby, give baby a passive exercises.

Children not a contusion and laceration of the more stronger

After a long investigation found that too much, too big setbacks in childhood more children grow up afraid of setbacks, and prone to forming cautious character. And those happy childhood growing up in children\'s ability to resist setbacks even stronger.

The main and children can bear frustration relating to the amount and intensity of. When children are young, too many setbacks in not, otherwise easily form of mental illness or personality disorder. To a child after the age of three or four, parents can give the appropriate setbacks so that children can withstand, also will get exercise.

But no matter what time, harsh scolding frustration ability resistance education are not children. Maybe at that time may be some effect, but it was simply a surface phenomenon, adult children, such as gross educational consequences will stand out.

To less than 1 year old children to say \"no\"

When they do something unsafe when things to themselves and others, mother to firmly say to them \"no\". At the same time take away the unsafe goods from baby side, or prevent the child from continuing to carry out dangerous activities, such as scissors, contact electricity, hot water, etc.

When baby lost his temper due to FW, struck their own or someone else\'s body with their hands, mother to hand the baby\'s hand, controlling the baby\'s body, the baby said \"no\".

When the babies destroy useful things, such as when you slam the phone, and remote control, but also on baby said \"no\".

In addition, less than 1 year old baby said \"no\", which includes eating dirt, grab toys from others.

Breast milk, \"one man three help\"

Breast milk is good, but there are also some disadvantages:

First, insufficient vitamin d content. Breastfed babies, ~2 months 15 days after birth, you must add vitamin D200 international units a day and, second, that lack of vitamin k content. After the birth of the baby to accept is the first injection of vitamin k, to prevent the problem of insufficient vitamin k during breastfeeding. Third, the lack of iron. Mother during pregnancy and delivery to the baby just enough iron baby 4-6 months, so in adding complementary foods baby must use iron-rich food supplement. In this way, baby-powder should be the preferred of infant complementary food, rather than the traditional egg yolk.

No or little Walker

Walker walked and truly experience the feeling of walking is not the same. Moreover, children cannot play in the Walker\'s own initiative. Therefore, it is best not to give their children with Walker. Otherwise, after the children from the Walker, is still afraid to go. Children to really learn how to walk, must make his own independent stand, let him experience the feeling of foot, in order to exercise his general feelings.

Learn how to walk outside in addition to the required leg muscle development and maturation, children must also have good balance. And in the Walker children will be missing a lot of opportunities for exercising the leg muscles and balance.

Be bashful there faster and earlier

According to the study of many psychologists, typically to Be bashful crisis earlier than 50 in the last century. This may be because, in those days, infants are all mother care, only the time to weaning infants and until mother separation. However, today, when he was very young, baby begins \"to see the world\", which made shy ahead of time greatly. Were found, usually about 6 months now seeing strangers have a baby \"Be bashful\" response.

However, if your child is up to 6-8 months, always smiles to strangers, don\'t worry. Not seeing strangers close to all the children will shout or cry. Contact number of the children, normally \"be shy with strangers,\" fear is not very strong, Be bashful period is very short, will soon get used to new things and people.

Postpartum depression in which people serious?

This phenomenon usually occurs in a perfectionist and original life easier depressive person. Perfectionist no matter what we do, always want to be able to perfect, such high standards easier to give them extremely nervous and a little dogmatism, on the ability of other people do not trust, do everything on sth Thus, anxiety, stress, anger, tired of tangled together, give them a whole people is falling down.

On worries of life persons in addition to the easy to \"bother\" outside often lack confidence to myself. And face the upbringing and care of baby this a never contact a difficult task, if it is not enough help and support, trouble not timely resolve, confidence cannot be established as soon as possible, then, concerns easier to evolve into depression.

More for Dad tells of books

Text is not much, but full of cold humor books;

Stories weird color book and is full of hoaxes. Say when the special need for exaggerated expressive;

Some funny books. No crazy jintouer, taste is not speak out;

Specifically speaking father and baby love

Book. That implication of this philosophy of life and parent-child affection, not how can read real father;

Need to understand logic after reading books. Dad can use male super strong logical thinking ability in helping children to understand;

\"Ridicule\" mother\'s book. Mother may become bile IMP in the book, clumsy, scatter brained person, so enjoyable to ridicule my mother, Dad, of course, be missed.

Source: 2007 issue of the parents must read