Not many such children, only 10%~15%.
Typical:
Before the age of 1 Special crying, upset irritable and difficult to appease.
Little formation such as sleeping, eating, urinary and fecal discharge.
Tempers had a temper, often restless.
Very active, stubborn, more often than even naughty children.
Emotional reaction, it is difficult to adapt to the new changes in the environment.
Expert commentary:
Difficult to keep the baby, and some appear impatient and irritable in confinement, it is difficult to to the surrounding environment and is satisfied with the care of adults, which often makes you feel helpless, even their own incompetence. Grow older, due to baby particularly well, naughty, naughty, make people feel is no rules. You may therefore he lost patience, could also put pressure on him, and even blame or punish him, which makes baby more restless, irritable. Of course, you may also be because he could not give up the principle, give in to him. Raising baby this type, you will feel very tired, sometimes tired, even frustrating. Therefore, you need to have a lot of patience and tolerance attitudes.
Parenting strategies:
1. When a baby was very small, is expected to begin training his routine. To layout a quiet baby environment, let him listen to the gentle melody and less on his.
2. When the baby be disgruntled, you carefully to find the reasons: if he didn\'t get to meet at the request of, restrictions on activities, game frustration and unwilling mother to leave, and so on. Observation he often lost his temper under what conditions, what is threatened, and to take measures in advance.
3. Reaction fierce, angry baby, your anger and curse will only make the situation more tense. You can use some tips, such as when you are going to lose patience when he turned to go, take a deep breath, until his anger calmed down.
4. Encourages babies and older children to play. Difficult babies tend to energy excess, and children engaged in activities and games are generally require more strength and wisdom, this baby can consume too much energy.
5. To establish a close relationship and the baby. Because the baby was too naughty, sometimes inevitably provoked others unhappy. At this point, you let your baby know, he is not a bad boy being fed. And told him that can be naughty, but do not affect others.
Merit mining:
Everything has two sides, difficult to keep the baby also has many advantages. His energy excess, but very smart, responsive, curious, feeling good that he has a strong motivation, often performance in big prominent; stubborn, indicates that he is strong, attachment, might be more focused on business when they grow up, so hope of success greater. In that case, you pay now is worth!
Mother tells:
Mother: fujingkun;
Baby is 1 year 9 months.
I particularly hard to serve baby and a half years ago. In confinement, he makes people cling to the whirring sleeping during the day, can be put to bed immediately mouth cry. Night, I must hold walked him and Pat lightly shaking, singing the lullaby to him to sleep. If the demands were not met, he will keep his whole body strength to cry, make me every night. A little, nothing like when running on the bed roll come roll go, also ends water cups to bed, holding the ball on the bed. Now one of the most headaches are finicky, he doesn\'t eat vegetables, do not eat meat. Want a way to make him eat his taste, if not, the \"poof\" spit it out without the rather drink white porridge never to eat the second!
However, babies love to laugh, can always see him in the yard was bouncingwith health and figure, his \"slightly all chortled\" laughter. It can be said that baby happy in my family is a happy little elves, crying was a little devil! I was enjoying a small life brings me happiness and hard to raise him.
Source: 2007 issue of the parents must read
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