Factors influencing the six couples feeling deadly

Every family has the difficult to read, marriage is not a small learning how married life happy for a long time, is the desire of each family member, so what are the factors that can threaten our marriage? Some experts on marriage after years of investigation and study, found the cause of emotional crises of husband and wife were generally have the following:

1 mutual antipathy

This performance is, you don\'t look at me, I don\'t see you, both co-ordination, mutual noninterference, on a number of issues must cooperate, tend to take a look, attitude of apathy, antipathy. This is the main reason is because one or both of the spouses has a bad temper, still lives as Bachelors to married life, in all aspects of their own interests, ignoring the others, a non-cooperative attitude to husband or wife , whether talking, or doing things, as long as they are willing to, they refused to listen to any objections, if slightly against the other party, lost his temper. Long, gradually appeared offended: the behavior of one side to the other party feel is thin, and even disgust. 

2 mutual dishonesty

Generally, husband and wife before marriage have a gentlemen\'s agreement, such as \"who do housework more some\", \"family incomes and how to handle\", \"personal communication activities of non-conservative\", and so on. However, if the party does not comply with or undermine the promise of husband and wife, before marriage vows, would be wiped out. In daily life, some couples lie about their income and expenditure of each other; some couples in non-word on domestic work, mutual deceit and some couples heterosexual friends privately be in close association with SB. Examples of this too numerous. The dishonesty of a party, often caused by chain to the other party\'s dishonesty and resentment, even to the same dishonest actions to get back at each other, eventually into mutual suspicion in the pits and is unable to, and then regret it too late. 

3 bad person

ality

Husband and wife live together, still need to maintain their own unique personality, a person lacking personality, makes him (her) person of the same Department is monotonous and boring. A lack of personality of the husband will get the wife\'s favor, and a lack of personality makes her husband, the wife of that banal. Bad personality temper is a couple of important causes of the conflicts.

4 sex discord

Harmonious sexual life in our country has always been neglected, when it comes to sexual problems, people will accuse you of ulterior motives soon or have got some dirty trick up one \' s sleeve. In fact, harmonious sexual life occupies a very important role in maintaining relations between husband and wife. The feelings of many couples don\'t, is this actually contributed, but \"feelings not\" than \"sex life not\" be more well-mannered, makes people easy to accept, which is crowned as something presentable. In some cases of divorce, emotional discord into the sex lives of discord substitution, thus becoming the legitimate basis for divorce. Therefore, the feelings between husband and wife to maintain, while not completely rely on the combination of, however, if one or both sides in the long-term life of never having been met, in any case is to affect the feelings of husband and wife. 

5 family income of impropriety

Economic income of the family, often affecting the affection between husband and wife, fuse of conflict be husband and wife. To achieve revenues of family financial circumstances, fair use. In fact, this is not a question of more money, less money, is mainly attitudes to money, as well as on the question of how to arrange. Both sides spending inconsistent attitude, you have to buy a fridge, I want to buy a suit; you have to buy smoking, I want to buy food to eat; lavishly or husband, wife in a small cheap; husband spending money grudgingly, thrift, wife to pursue high consumption lifestyle and couples once tangled up o

n the question of money, feelings of husband and wife is bound to be affected, the further development of relations between husband and wife would have been much less. 

6 relative problems

Relatives of the husband\'s relatives are wife, wife\'s relatives was her husband\'s relatives, in-laws and her mother\'s is a whole family, so that you can significantly reduce the couple because conflicts on issues such as maintenance, reception. Relative problems handled improperly, will not only affect the feelings of the family, at the same time also affects the affection between husband and wife.

There are a couple which handled properly and is turned upside down. Husband of home in rural, has once, husband of father mother town visit son, and daughter-in-law, wife too mother-in-law and father-in-law rustic, does not hygiene, does not told civilization, always does not to mother-in-law and father-in-law good face see, and deliberately found some trifle and husband quarrel , see husband to has father mother several block money, will in room in made a, forced was they only to has two days will full melancholy to home has. Husband of course this would not stop until, so the two parties on \"live ammunition\" to dry up, finally had to break up.

This example illustrates, relatives and improper treatment, often will hurt the pride of a party, and this often led to feelings of both sides apart. Therefore, both husband and wife should be \"your mother as my mom\", respecting each other, kind to each other, this will make the relations between the two sides more harmonious.