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Mar 15, 2011

Parents zhizhao: fostering independent and love baby


United States Champion – Bell baby story parental school entrance



2007 Bell champions baby story in the city for the United States warmly welcomed by parents, upsurge of activity a wave height of a wave. Full swing to attend various events and the baby, parents also contests in their parental ways, this is every family has the parental, sweets and bitters, and mixed, parents are in a different way of loving care with these little guys , and hope they grow healthy and happy.



Journalists see, baby age attending are small, maximum is less than 3 years old, kid\'s hands and feet movement is not very coordinated, often falls due to gravity instability during the game. And parents to the baby after the fall of reactions are not the same. Some father mother will encourages children, let they own station up, baby speak carelessly mouth, Committee grievances flexor, and awry to station up, soon and was game attract, playing was Rapture; also some parents pain child anxious, moment rushed past, hold up baby, also beat ground show \"punishment\", coax baby happy, baby think has adults to for has main, out has gas, also lift up small feet infants kick Shang several Xia , myself playing to has, is has doubled \"baby\" does not and \"Earth\" care of Tatu feeling.


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Reporters feel that these scenarios are interesting, friendly instructor asked Bell for the presence of aesthetic education in particular. Bay friendly due to aesthetic education Lecturer said: in recent years, there are many enterprises and organizations of parental knowledge in scientific communication, beiyinmei is no exception, for those without much parental experience of young parents, in complement to a large extent on their parenting knowledge deficiencies. See picture and see, that falls from the active site parents for the baby on the way, you can see that many parents, particularly young parents have great attention to cultivation of the independence of the child. From near said, strong baby independence, after entering the kindergarten will be outstanding in the group, confidence will enhance; the long term, strong independence of children will quickly adapt to the environment outside the home, can better survive in this competitive society, has a life will be a greater chance of success.



United States psychologists had 1500 long-term follow-up of children, who 30 years after the discovery of 20% what has been achieved. 20% of the people and the achievement of which the maximum contrast, find the most significant difference is not in terms of intelligence, but rather on personality difference. Outstanding achievement is a strong willpower, independence

And personalities such as brave people. Independent character of the visible child to grow and become useful how importantit is.


Encourages the child himself climbing up is falls parents nurture their independent character of a typical one, this is very common in Europe and, they attach great importance to children fostering independence, advocating independent consciousness of young children, rather than relying on parents and other people. As children grow up in the process, experienced little training and exercise their independent character would have far-reaching effects. 0-3 is the key to shaping the character and cultivate habits of children, \"see the age of three, seven years old\" is a widespread folk proverbs in China, is that a person in the infant stages of formation of self-personality can predict their adult personality and as affecting their future academic and career. Parents were not excessive protection children, seize 0-3 aged this key period, adroitly guide action according to to training children of independent character: a aged around of baby can training they own with bowl or Cup drink; a aged half of baby can let they exercises own with spoon dinner, exercises Pack toys; two or three aged of children can exercises own wear de clothes, and obey the; three or four aged of children should to comparison freely to buckle buckle, and Department with, and dinner, and wash, and brushing your teeth,; five or six aged of children should society own bath, to finishing, and custody own of articles. Independent character of training not by one or two pieces things on can completed of, by life in the a small things of brings together, let they from small in psychological Shang formation \"own of thing own do\" of psychological identity , parents more to perseverance, is good at observation children in the asp

ects of independence performance, lost no time of to they more large of free space, and adroitly guide action according to of created opportunities, let they own to attempts to.


In addition, infant psychology experts also reminds young parents, parents in training their children independence at the same time to the right. Some parents too much stressed the independence of the child, thereby ignoring the strong sense of attachment to parents before the age of 3 child, child lost get opportunities to establish trust and security from their parents. For example: child fall, if they really had a bad fall, you can take the child up, or lend a hand, let the child hand stand up; to create while trying to opportunities for children, if a child is difficult to complete, to a certain extent help. Otherwise, will cause a child\'s sense of frustration, but detrimental to the establishment of confidence, and will let children think MOM and dad don\'t love – in the face of difficulties, he ignored me. Over time, the child\'s character will become cold and lack of love, this separate so they look lonely and helpless, in other words, become an unhealthy and independent personality.


Bell for us champion baby story collection of tens of thousands of families, become a parental experience of learning and communication platform, beiyinmei also invited experts with rich experience A sitting room, the Assembly room of the monks, on the way of family education guidance , for baby growth characteristics and personality characteristi

cs to help parents find more for your baby grow up parental way.


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