Art of listening

Two and a half of Cong, like most tell mother whispers. Anything interesting things like Gou Gouxiao meaning, mother squatted down, face down alone with her mother\'s ear says. Mother is always willing to Cong sharing his secrets. If mother ignored, Cong ran down to one side, for mother left out of a gas.
Like a big baby Cong, has begun to have its own methods of communication. Language gradually perfecting the baby in a hurry to see and feel things that their parents listen to. And some parents think that the baby is also small, there is no communication and exchanges, tend to ignore the importance of listening to the voice of the babies. In fact, in this age of the baby, his soul had little space has been very sensitive. If you don\'t want to hurt the baby because of their omission, so give your baby a little more time, with ears to listen to the voice of the babies. However, not just to keep my ears to listen to on the line of Oh, that there are a lot of attention.

Listen to art 1: see baby eyes
Do not know you have found that when baby spoke, his eyes are always full of passion and joy, just light up the stars. His eyes always alight upon you, watching your face, to to see if you like also is perfunctory. When parents and baby talk, body slightly forward, this is the posture expressed interest in. Eyes watching the talking baby, naturally with the eyes to express your interest and enjoyment, with eye contact recognition for his actions, telling him: baby, I\'m very serious listen.
Some mothers prefer dual, side listening to baby-by-doing other things, such as the hands holding arms, or read the book or watching TV or doing housework. These behaviors are communication between you and the baby \"barrier\". For kids, such exchanges were not sure of and recognition.
Therefore, young MOM and dad were, you should use the eyes of smiles, nods and appreciation to encourage baby, baby will catch your eye, after your recognition and respect, he is more active and confident.

Listen to art 2: squat down more friendly
Babies are small, standing up but also to father and mother\'s knee. You want to know these bean dices darlings, don\'t like high above the parent, because on the knee really hard to speak. See face, see eyes, no communication, no empathy, this didn\'t mean. Therefore, parents in baby talk, be sure to crouch down, and the baby is held equal level. With the baby back to back, face to face, eye eyes speak. This reflects the parents respect for babies, parents of baby things unspoken cordial and serious attitude.
Squatting down and listened to is a love that baby to accept, it is a way we care for the baby are inside. Create out of a democratic and harmonious parent-child relationship to the baby\'s growth is very favorable, Oh.

Listen to art 3: talking to adults
Conversation is a developing baby oral language skills of the best ways, therefore parents can\'t wait for baby to say to you, and to guide the baby to encourage baby use of language to express their requirements. Hon by proactively, boot baby talk, baby said unknowingly during a rich vocabulary, improve language skills.
Of course, because of the limited language skills, parents sometimes feel baby speak unintelligible. At this time to test your patience, try not to interrupt the baby talk, this is a very brutal way. Speech is most disappointing to hear the other side said: \"I know. \"Do this to children, lack of respect.
We should be concerned about the baby, should not just be concerned about his cold and warm meals, but also about his interest in things. Care topics of interest to kids, you will also have a interest in talking with children. This critical step is to see whether you a cordial and patient listener.

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