Most of the children are active now, and hyperactivity in children is not the same, some parents believe that active children of promise in the future, there may be some truth. But if you mix restless and ADHD as a TAM, on children\'s growth and development will have a certain amount of harm. Because children with ADHD, it is difficult to establish and improve their own personality, and people will encounter difficulties, learning can\'t concentrate their attention when, due to the lack of sustainability, it is difficult to do one thing well. Without discipline, lack of respect for others, cannot be controlled, hitting trouble sth And so on, all these factors not only not conducive to a normal healthy development of children, and had distorted his personality, intelligence, learn skills and social skills of serious injury, the child\'s future is imagined. So the child if this tendency should be aroused the concern of parents, parents and teachers how to teamwork, guiding the child correction and education to irregularities, like kids to grow up healthy.
For the correction of such children, not very serious, generally do not require medication, instead, should be looking for expert advisory and sensory integration training on children\'s psychological. For children with ADHD, parents in the Guide should note that:
Parents on children\'s behavior to have a tolerant attitude, some parents see children of some norms and hear them say it is a Word, you cannot tolerate children, depending on the child for alternative character, prone to temper for the kids, even scolding the children.
Have patience when you help him change, children have such a problem, he does not like, but he could not control themselves do their own annoying thing, this time, parents should understand your child\'s mood, helps him change his disadvantage when pointed out that his question over and over again and corrected his bias.
More about him, have such trouble with children, he could not take care of myself, dinner is not good to eat, sleep sleeping well, attention cannot be focused, do or do not complete, and interpersonal difficulties, children do not want to play with him. On the surface, he was also kept in a moment, in fact, he felt very lonely, parental care, make him feel warmth and love of the family, parents at least is a good friend of his.
More encourages, dang children made little progress of when will encourages and reward he, cannot took and he age of children compared, and to see he yiqian of State and now of State for comparison, has progress will constantly to incentive he, let he gradually has better of performance, even occasionally has backwards of when also not anxious noise, you of constantly encourages must can for to good results.
Cannot in psychological Shang to he pressure, children is innocent of, but he can feeling to environment or others to he of psychological pressure, psychological Shang originally has problem of children is difficult to bear other of pressure, this not only cannot promote he on errors speech behavior of awareness and correction, instead easy makes he to extreme, sliding into unable to of quagmire, formation vicious circle, results is destroyed has this children. So as far as possible not to let children have parents or family pressure, even if it is external or ambient pressure, parents try to mitigate or alleviate the pressure for their children.
No corporal punishment to their children, this is the behavior of those rowdy parents. Prior to the parents, MOM and dad should study of child psychology and child education, only know child psychology, in order to know how to discipline children. Many parents don\'t understand the children, either overly doting or sticks together, is the seedling must be distortion when everything is all right. The past is \"child not taught, of the father\"; now in turn, the \"child not taught, the mother of\". Due to improvement of status of mothers in the family, and it naturally became the mother of a child, and mother\'s temper bursts, more children than fathers, the result is a growing problem of children.
Children appear weird behavior, of course, be punished, but not corporal punishment. He is the best way a person in danger room quiet for some time, waiting for him to make enough to let him out, for theoretical education. He knows are wrong is to be punished, not no rules in the family. At the same time he had a good performance, praised praised him in a timely manner, so as to let him into the path of healthy growth.
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