Enlightenment on children don\'t lie

Face the problem of children: where I come from. Many parents will reply, picking up trash to! Almost none of the parents for this knowledge explain to the children of pregnant parents so perfunctory past, right?

Trash is my mother. 8 ton ton relationship with my mom not so intimate; kindergarten class NIO even call 110, hope that the police can help her find her really \"trash MOM\"; Anin after 7 years of flyover begged her mother to send her back was turned, Anin cry loudly on the flyover is calling \"MOM\" sth

Almost every parent so education, but lying is wrong.

Children, but some things, MOM and dad you also lied, cheated children for so long. Was at a time when children are asking themselves where it came from, in fact, is an opportunity to explain to his scientific knowledge, but it seems that many parents are missing, and a \"trash\" as if all children gave birth to the whole of China, \"pick up\" this explanation really does it fit?

Qi Qi\'s MOM and dad often being aligned align said one thing, MOM and dad ask Align Align Align Align: \"do you remember that thing she picked back?\" MOM will align align deliberate exaggeration to say that \"it also can not remember, still I see her under the flyover, when small faces were cold had almost become Red Apple\".

This story father mother often told, and once than once delicate lifelike, small Align Align which has does not letter of reason, finally one day, she in kindergarten in cry with with aunt said, she wants to she own of father mother, do not want to then live in others home has, after kindergarten aunt patience of asked, Align Align finally said has father mother often told of that story, aunt later contact has Align Align of parents, thought Align Align really of is was adopt, they does not carefully chat was Align Align heard has, but understanding has things of truth zhihou, aunt were also laugh or cry, original this all just is father mother were specially series out makes small Align Align playing of.

All parents are the children asked a question: where I come from? and almost all the parents did not pay attention to this problem, never to be interpreted from the perspective of science to the children, even notes that this is an opportunity to the sexual education of children, 99% MOM and dad will say: you are my pick from the trash. Parents were think this is a time to explained of problem, as long as until children were grew up has, own on will understand this problem of answers, now does not should asked, asked has also does not should answer, answer also does not should according to the truth said, as long as with \"garbage box\" to he temporarily fool past, to problem buried in time in,, baby grew up zhihou all are natural will white Yu world has.

Dear parents were, we smart and sensitive of baby were early not a lies on can fool of has, they various naive ridiculous of behavior is just because on father mother of trust, if wants to continues to keep so high of credibility and rely on sense, on please you not then free cheat he, if then was asked to this problem, please you treasure opportunities, may this is you first times seriously enlightenment he of Outlook on life and sexual education, please you seriously, and patience to on real answer.

After kindergarten on the baby, MOM and dad to do what?

After kindergarten on the baby, MOM and dad to do what?

Sent after kindergarten little baby, MOM and dad didn\'t hang around, how can let the children happily go to school? Prior to the kindergarten, parents should do what? Baby in the early admission of what is not adapted to the situation? From the home to the kindergarten, but the baby first step towards social, MOM and Dad what do they do?

Should be active and close collaboration with the kindergarten teacher

First, do not give children the negative implied

Many parents send their children prior to admission, that is often inadvertently are kids saying: \"If you don\'t well behaved two days will take you to the kindergarten. \",\" That let babies play with it for two days, will go to kindergarten in a few days. \"Everyone knows, this speech will have a very bad impact on children. In child awareness will think kindergarten was penalties in their place, so you can have a backlash before admission, the children. Experts believe that the positive psychological suggestion is very important.

Second, children are familiar with the environment, reduce anxiety.

Before admission, the kindergarten teacher parents, with children attending kindergartens near for a walk, if kindergartens allowed, can also be played to venues in the Park, suggesting that children \"there are lots of fun\", \"good to do kindergarten after the baby\" and so on, so children at general admission, will reduce the sense of strangeness and not adapted to the new environment.

Third, the full trust of kindergarten education to ease the anxiety of children emotion.

Child to kindergarten will experience a period of adaptation, some children admission on the first day is also a lot of fun, but the second and third days cried and want to go. In fact, this is a natural phenomenon, children have a sense of fresh on the first day, wait for the next few days \"responses\" himself to an unfamiliar environment, it must have been crying. Parents try not to have too much speculation at this time, but to believe kindergartens, kindergarten in front of the children like it, so the children will like like kindergarten, the teacher.

Strategy tips

Learn to \"cruel\"

After some parents send their children to kindergartens, heard children crying is not assured, we hid in the corner, behind the door, the window, and some came to see in the Middle, this child\'s crying time is extended, the number will increase. Parents not because the child crying and \"three days fishing, liangtianshaiwang\", otherwise, the children will know if you cry you can not go to the kindergarten.

Freshmen admission early

Admission of children especially hope that parents pick early, experiencing reunited with parents comfort, otherwise the child will feel lonely, lost and forgotten even, making children more afraid of kindergarten.

Baby admission of two new species not adapted

1 fear of strangers and unfamiliar environments

Case study: An Yiheng and Wu Jia has just entered kindergarten, there are some \"unusual\". An Yiheng is easy to make, cried muddled, Wu Jia is too quiet, previously enjoyed playing games at home, are not interested in, is always a person sitting in the corner, thoughtful manner.

Expert: most kids meet strangers and unfamiliar environments, typically do not adapt, but the demonstrated behavior may vary greatly. Some children cry, emotional, some children seem unusually quiet. For emotional children, teachers and parents will special emphasis, in time to meet their demands.

But for unusually quiet child, parents and teachers tend to ignore, thinking that children \"very obedient\" is not attention. In fact, such a \"good\" children are often not adapted to the new environment, just because you know that \"even crying, MOM and dad will send its own kindergarten\", stop \"resistance\", but still not happy, or fear of strange environments, if neglected, mental growth is quite unfavorable. For unusually quiet child to teachers and parents to pay special attention to.

2 could not sleep, eat meals and easy is sick

Case study: Zhang Jiahao usually sleep at home, eat special sweet, but on the kindergarten is completely changed. To NAP time on crying, appetite is very bad, and a few days after fever was ill.

Expert: child sleep prevention awareness particularly strong, especially for the strange environment, no parents around kid, particularly before going to bed crying, which is usually used to say \"sleep\". In General, children do not want to NAP, kindergarten teacher will gently caress the child\'s forehead, let the child to be quiet until the sleep. As for the children to eat is not much, parents can prepare some food for the children to the kindergarten, when a baby from a good care of small environment after entering a collective environment, he has a great deal of change in the yinshiqiju habits, is not on the physiological adaptation of feeling. Baby contact of children more, complex environment, exposure to various pathogens are many, prevalence is increasing the number of times. But the baby\'s body for a variety of exposure to the pathogen also produce antibodies, so his resistance will gradually increase.