Baby first day admission new MOM and dad do?

　 　

Baby first day admission, would inevitably have to cry, and mood swings clear that new parents are a headache. Before admission, best baby a good communication, telling his kindergarten is warm, the teacher will hurt like a mother baby; admission on the way, language incentives to encourage, praise the baby, such as: \"baby so great today on the first day of kindergarten! Baby grown up sth \"

Baby\'s admission should be prepared to anything on the first day?

Cups and towels: kindergarten unified purchase, you want to be clearly marked, it is best to combined with baby likes patterns. Need to purchase, note Sung slightly larger than the baby of water in the glass each time the amount of water. Towels should not be too large, it is best to buy cotton and slightly thick material.

Bedding, pillow: application of soft and warm baby bedding made of fine cotton, new cotton filler is the best. Pillows not too high, 5-6 cm on it. Pillow filler to a certain degree of moisture absorption features, such as leather, tea buckwheat, kapok and so on.

School supplies: water color pen, oil pastels, plasticine, drawing book, small scissors and so on.

Alternate article: paper towels, handkerchiefs, favorite toys, a set of underwear, write parent contact information such as business cards.

　

Parents \' words and deeds in the early admission of five taboo

　　

They say parents are children\'s first teachers, words and deeds of parents for children tend to have a decisive influence, especially just entered kindergarten children. Ten acres of gardens in Jinan City primary school kindergarten Director Bi Wei remind parents, in the early admission, avoid the following five categories of words and deeds.

A bogey with nothing to go with promise

In kindergartens often see such a scene at the door: child holding parents, eager to get out of the parents, it\'s very small, said: \"don\'t cry, I\'ll pick you up.


\"Children have parents convinced some children every few minutes to ask it again:\" teacher, why is my mom still does not? \" Once again crying. Some children refused to eat, NAP than goes to bed, says mother to meet him at home. This promise with nothing to go with children living in hopeless wait all day and cry sad.

The second bogey regret

See child cry was not, some parents often went back to their children wiping tears, hug, and Kiss, when doing so will give children a message: I don\'t want to leave father and mother, father and mother also reluctant to me. Thus, children of separation anxiety increased.

Three bogey midway visit

Child to kindergarten, parents at ease. A glance at some parents will excuse to send clothing, some outside the fence, waiting quietly under the shade. Child see parent figure fly also ran, parents tell their children: \"I am to see you, not your home. \" Children began to cry desperately. Some parents than child, take the children away, other children scene brings back memories, more sad.

Four-bogey then stop

Kindergartens often received a call from this: \"today\'s no class this afternoon in the garden? Children NAP not up, to let the children sleep, leave this afternoon not to go all r

ight? \"So cold a few days \' rest, throat crying hoarse for rest days, parents rest, children are also a few days \' rest. So stop, child\'s crying time than a serious, admission adapt to the indefinite extension of the period. And the child grew out of the General disruption, growing gap with the child in the class, will certainly affect the child\'s self-confidence.

Five-bogey back asking

Sometimes parents eager to understand the situation of children kindergarten, I\'ll ask: \"did you cry? \"\" Anyone bully you? \"\" Did naughty? \"\" Other people have small red flower, how can you not? \"This class asks, are back to ask, give rise to negative feelings of the child. \" Today is not happy? \"\" Did you make a new friend today? \"\" Have fun tell mother? \"These positive can ask joy of guiding the children concerned kindergartens to themselves, play down the sense of discomfort, so am kindergarten is a place to keep people happy.

Children are not willing to do kindergarten

Children are reluctant to kindergarten, parents should try the following methods:

1. to remove the subconscious \"children don\'t like to kindergarten\" ideas, ways of dispelling anxiety brought about by the Park. Children admission is go into social of first step, because environment of change, children more or less some does not adaptation, therefore a thought children admission, parents on will produced anxiety, subconscious to worry, these will intentionally or unintentionally to performance in own of behavior in the, on children produced effect, makes children by parents of talk, and emotional, with parents on own care, and distressed of emotion, reached does not Shang kindergarten of purpose. Therefore, parents need to be conscious control over their emotions and positive emotions of children, child like kindergarten.

2. understand why children are reluctant to kindergarten, search strategy, solve the problem. Kindergarten on children generally do not like to be a reason. Some children do not associate with companion, there is no playmates feel lonely; some introvert, do not have access to the teacher\'s attention, believing that teachers don\'t like him, were children once in a while some children bully; also some new admission for failure to adapt to separation anxiety. Parents need to identify the cause of their children are not willing to kindergarten and prescribe.

3. contact the class teacher, understand the performance of children in kindergartens, particularly to understand child Flach point, returned home to preach to his family after a child\'s Flach point, help children build up self-confidence. To work with teachers, find and exploit children a strength, let him appear in the collective, when he was commended by the teachers and peers, will have confidence, have also been able to get comfortable with your partner.

4. more on kindergarten\'s life, learning activities with the children, causing children to the kindergarten, the teachers, on children\'s interests. Family members are so concerned about the life of kindergartens, children do not like the kindergarten?

5. not on kindergarten behavior of children don\'t like to be strengthened. When germination is not willing to kindergarten at the idea of children, parents should find a way to transfer your child\'s attention, especially not when the other person\'s side lift the children don\'t want to repeat kindergarten and desalination.

After kindergarten on the baby, MOM and dad to do what?

After kindergarten on the baby, MOM and dad to do what?

Sent after kindergarten little baby, MOM and dad didn\'t hang around, how can let the children happily go to school? Prior to the kindergarten, parents should do what? Baby in the early admission of what is not adapted to the situation? From the home to the kindergarten, but the baby first step towards social, MOM and Dad what do they do?

Should be active and close collaboration with the kindergarten teacher

First, do not give children the negative implied

Many parents send their children prior to admission, that is often inadvertently are kids saying: \"If you don\'t well behaved two days will take you to the kindergarten. \",\" That let babies play with it for two days, will go to kindergarten in a few days. \"Everyone knows, this speech will have a very bad impact on children. In child awareness will think kindergarten was penalties in their place, so you can have a backlash before admission, the children. Experts believe that the positive psychological suggestion is very important.

Second, children are familiar with the environment, reduce anxiety.

Before admission, the kindergarten teacher parents, with children attending kindergartens near for a walk, if kindergartens allowed, can also be played to venues in the Park, suggesting that children \"there are lots of fun\", \"good to do kindergarten after the baby\" and so on, so children at general admission, will reduce the sense of strangeness and not adapted to the new environment.

Third, the full trust of kindergarten education to ease the anxiety of children emotion.

Child to kindergarten will experience a period of adaptation, some children admission on the first day is also a lot of fun, but the second and third days cried and want to go. In fact, this is a natural phenomenon, children have a sense of fresh on the first day, wait for the next few days \"responses\" himself to an unfamiliar environment, it must have been crying. Parents try not to have too much speculation at this time, but to believe kindergartens, kindergarten in front of the children like it, so the children will like like kindergarten, the teacher.

Strategy tips

Learn to \"cruel\"

After some parents send their children to kindergartens, heard children crying is not assured, we hid in the corner, behind the door, the window, and some came to see in the Middle, this child\'s crying time is extended, the number will increase. Parents not because the child crying and \"three days fishing, liangtianshaiwang\", otherwise, the children will know if you cry you can not go to the kindergarten.

Freshmen admission early

Admission of children especially hope that parents pick early, experiencing reunited with parents comfort, otherwise the child will feel lonely, lost and forgotten even, making children more afraid of kindergarten.

Baby admission of two new species not adapted

1 fear of strangers and unfamiliar environments

Case study: An Yiheng and Wu Jia has just entered kindergarten, there are some \"unusual\". An Yiheng is easy to make, cried muddled, Wu Jia is too quiet, previously enjoyed playing games at home, are not interested in, is always a person sitting in the corner, thoughtful manner.

Expert: most kids meet strangers and unfamiliar environments, typically do not adapt, but the demonstrated behavior may vary greatly. Some children cry, emotional, some children seem unusually quiet. For emotional children, teachers and parents will special emphasis, in time to meet their demands.

But for unusually quiet child, parents and teachers tend to ignore, thinking that children \"very obedient\" is not attention. In fact, such a \"good\" children are often not adapted to the new environment, just because you know that \"even crying, MOM and dad will send its own kindergarten\", stop \"resistance\", but still not happy, or fear of strange environments, if neglected, mental growth is quite unfavorable. For unusually quiet child to teachers and parents to pay special attention to.

2 could not sleep, eat meals and easy is sick

Case study: Zhang Jiahao usually sleep at home, eat special sweet, but on the kindergarten is completely changed. To NAP time on crying, appetite is very bad, and a few days after fever was ill.

Expert: child sleep prevention awareness particularly strong, especially for the strange environment, no parents around kid, particularly before going to bed crying, which is usually used to say \"sleep\". In General, children do not want to NAP, kindergarten teacher will gently caress the child\'s forehead, let the child to be quiet until the sleep. As for the children to eat is not much, parents can prepare some food for the children to the kindergarten, when a baby from a good care of small environment after entering a collective environment, he has a great deal of change in the yinshiqiju habits, is not on the physiological adaptation of feeling. Baby contact of children more, complex environment, exposure to various pathogens are many, prevalence is increasing the number of times. But the baby\'s body for a variety of exposure to the pathogen also produce antibodies, so his resistance will gradually increase.

　

Circle of helping baby out of jealousy

Because the home also has a brother, nine vigorous always think MOM and dad don\'t like her. Whether it is out of play, the birthday party is when with mother, he always complained that MOM and dad eccentric. When mother to explain himself spent a lot of time with him or what he had done something wrong and brother had no time, vigorous Jue mouth says brother some of the toys themselves no or emphasis had made mistakes while they are very good.

Many children have mental such vigorous, not found thing when they see others have their own, including clothes, ability, popularity and toys, even some unexpected things can induce their jealousy psychology. Some parents think that this will disappear naturally as children grow older, but experts pointed out that excessive jealousy may affect the normal psychological development of children, that they themselves feel inferior in comparison with others, impede the establishment of children self-confidence and self-esteem, so parents should teach them before children reach school age how to overcome this. Let us below to learn how to help kids minimize jealousy psychology, and when the child when occupied by small brains were jealous of how to overcome their emotions.

Note the child implied and expressed sympathy

Child has difficulty controlling his emotions, but for parents, observe the child\'s behavior, grasp the emotions of children is not difficult. When the children of an outbreak of jealousy psychology when their behavior changes often occur, such as engaging in sabotage, cry or speak ill of envy object, and so on. Sometimes, jealousy psychology will also be reflected in the child\'s mental and physical aspects, such as stomach pains, upset, irritability, depression or not motivated. At this time, parents need to express sympathy and understanding for the kids, and help children speak out their ideas. For example, dad with a 5 year old daughter playing swing, standing at the side of the 3-year old son hurt to cry, mother can say, \"look, Dad keep sister to play, we have been left out on the side, it is really unfair, isn\'t it? \"If a child consent, parents can tell him this feeling is called the\" envy \"--\" I know you think that jealousy, isn\'t it? But that\'s OK. \"Parents can appease the understanding of children\'s emotion, because this time, children are more often not desire satisfied, but parents patiently listened to, as well as an affirmation of their feelings.

Let the child know that adults would envy

It is clear that jealousy is a negative emotion, but we have to let the children know, even their envy dear MOM and dad will feel. We can tell our children, when baby and father affectionate when mother is jealous father, but MOM will not be angry or sad. Or cite their own stories as a child, told the baby also had the same feelings. For example, when brother and vigorous complained he could not attend when Tae kwon do classes, my mother told him he was a child there had the same experience, but this can be overcome. \"You know? When I was in primary school, MOM and dad never allowed me to play in the street, but the neighbors sister can rubber band skipping all the way to dark outside! You say how unfair! \"This story was found by vigorous mother jealousy. Mother then told, any child can not be exactly the same treatment and others, so you must learn to accept.

Not to place undue emphasis on negative things

Child by observing practices by adults to create their own way, so when you discover that when children feel jealous, while in sympathy, and less stressed child\'s position, not to accuse was object of envy, or feelings of jealousy will further stimulate not only the children, also causes children to develop blamed the bad habits of others at every turn. If your child find their neighbor was invited to the student\'s birthday party, but he has not been invited. This time we must not blame the birthday boy \"unfriendly\" and should tell children, mother understands your grievances, but don\'t be sad, everyone has different friends, their birthday is not can not please all the people I know here? In this way, children will understand not because they are not popular but was not invited, nor does the pain as a result the classmate a birthday.

Help children to find a viable solution

Feeling jealous of the kids always want you to be and others the same treatment, if parents are able to induce children to control their emotions, not only to ease the jealousy of psychological, also helps build children\'s confidence and self-esteem. If a child feel that the team has a length of time teammates play than we could ask him, if you strengthen practice, will be changed? At this time, children will find that although themselves have no control over the coach\'s choice, it can control their own choosing--through contacts to enhance their skills, naturally many opportunities to play. Or, when the children to others devoted attention to the children of parents felt jealous when we should take action to remove children of misunderstanding. BF because mother missed the age of 5 very dissatisfied with the performance of their school performance, \"other people\'s mothers are coming! \"So, MOM let meimei gave themselves a concert party at home. In this way, the United States understood a mother is in fact very concerned about his own, will no longer be disappointed or jealousy the other classmates.

Try not to take the children and others contrast

You may notice that the, when talking about other children of a centerless \"TINGTING getting cute\", or just a smile and a shrug of action, even carrying a raised eyebrows may be child interpreted as \"comparison\". Especially when your child at the time of an aspect of doing a good job, they make it easier for those who have the ability to do children feel jealous. On one occasion, beautiful mother and an aunt said, girl next door curls cute, but unfortunately his own daughter\'s hair is straight. Unexpectedly, the next day

, The United States will require the mother took us to hot curly hair salon to head! Meimei mother suddenly realized that my evaluation raises the jealous daughter, since then, she has no evaluation daughter hair, at the same time very careful not to take daughters and other children made no meaningful comparison.

Help your child discover your strengths

Lack of confidence always likes to emphasize his own weaknesses, and that inferior feeling more likely to stimulate their jealousy psychology. Therefore, parents must help children develop self-confidence and let him know they also have advantages, and are proud of their capital. If a child has talent in drawing, parents should encourage more. Whenever a child has their own solutions to a problem or make a little progress, if only an arithmetic problem, should also let him know MOM and Dad had noted, and are proud of him. Experts pointed out that when the children to be proud of when they would be easier to accept other people get more attention than me in some way. This confidence can not only help children overcome his jealousy, and more conducive to shaping them self, this is the ability to really envy of others.

Kindergarten \"man and aunt\" needs to be recognized

Yesterday, from around the country more than more than 70 \"aunt men\" gathering in Zhengzhou, participate in child care teacher development forum in China in here and second kindergarten male teachers seminar. It is understood that in recent years, the boys obvious increase in the number of learning in early childhood education professional, but at present, our employment of men and child education workers in less than 40 persons, of Zhengzhou city in China accounted for more than half , scarcity of male graduates every year, but few truly engaged in early childhood education industry.

A work in early childhood education, by sex, in China and makes men received more attention –

Working status

Few province less than 40 persons

Second kindergarten of Henan provincial Department of Commerce as the meeting of the sponsors, the Park of 6 men kindergarten teachers all participated in this meeting. It is reported that male staff working on early childhood education in our province currently less than 40 persons, Department of Commerce\'s second kindergarten is now has the largest number of male teachers in a kindergarten. Due to the male teacher, and was peer envy this kindergarten. And even then, they where the number of male teachers is only less than one-tenth per cent of school teachers.

\"Men kindergarten teachers too hard to find each year to graduating college students of the time, the province, the national kindergarten are poaching, but real learning in early childhood education professional male students and more reluctant to work in the kindergarten. \" Director Liu Zhijuan said his male teacher in the garden, was very proud.

\"Kindergarten is a woman\'s world, female teachers with students out of lack of masculine gas. In addition, a unit is female, will also have many disadvantages. For example, female psychological characteristics of the most prominent is the expressive than men, more sensitive to any stimulus response, go

od talk behind people, which decided in the environment of a female in the kindergarten, the majority, prone to ganged up, tell of phenomena, many women often wrangling over the little things. \"Liu Zhijuan said, male teachers join, added a new scent, and also played for students \' education and the role of female teachers complement.

Eyes high, boys of kindergarten teachers for another industry

Infant normal school in Zhengzhou (hereinafter referred to as Zhengzhou teachers) a total of 11 male graduates this year, when meeting held April school graduates, kindergartens and around the country performing arts company and these guys signed. But these guys are clearly not anxious for their own \"set for life\", in the fair, the boys very proud: \"not employer in picking our, we picked the employer! ”

Zhengzhou Zheng Kechang describes the student branch of kindergarten teachers, since 2000, Zhengzhou teachers began to recruit men kindergarten teachers, at that time, only one from Xinxiang boys sit for the professional. In recent years, come to sit for the boys more and more, a year is by far the largest number of graduates this year, but it still cannot meet the needs of society, male student employment trends are very good. Because during the school of music, dance, fine art expertise in areas such as culture, together with the boys admitted to the kindergarten teachers are looking more Chun lang, they were also many performing arts company in Shanghai, Beijing hopes to sign objects.

It is understood that the great need of men kindergarten teachers in kindergartens, but many vocational schools in Zhengzhou city, normal professional after graduating from boys engaged in early childhood education and child care are not many in this industry, while on the road to performing arts or the further education of students is more prevalent. \"It is mainly social\" man and aunt \"bias caused by eye. ”

Gender dilemma

Pressure, relatives and frien

ds does not endorse

Learning kindergarten teacher professional men turned to, then the boys and what difficulties had been encountered in this business? Yesterday\'s meeting, since the male teachers say their industry

Sex to their embarrassment.

Zhengzhou public kindergartens from the beginning of 2000, concerning the introduction of a male teacher. But the good times do not last long, the teacher is also resigned from the kindergarten work, a row has been modified. \"I can\'t stand the pressure from all sides,\" he said, many of his men kindergarten teachers have the same pressure and he is not easily recognized by parents, it is difficult to be recognized by society.

\"In fact, the work done by the male in the kindergarten teachers \' work is also very common, but because of sex, it will always be people feel inferior. \" In 2004, Liu Mingyang graduated from Zhengzhou Teachers College, along with two other boys become the first male teacher in the Department of Commerce\'s second kindergarten.

Originally decided to be a male teacher, is for employment consideration. University study in primary education, but was not found receiving school after graduation. \"Kindergarten teacher, we went. \" Liu Mingyang said, after becoming a kindergarten teacher, said they did not dare and three family,\" families in the countryside, families could not be accepted, finally produced a college student, became a kindergarten of \"man and aunt\". ”

In addition to dare and his family said, Liu Mingyang were in the first year, also by their own university students do not understand. \"When we were in school is the Student Union cadres, also very good, several in working as a kindergarten students know for our\" man and aunt \", some think we are quite\" losing \"; some surprised, has found the job too inferior at first, when students gather at a time, and some of us feel very humiliated from the heart. ”
Love and marriage, find objects repeatedly frustrated

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Pressure and not only that. Parents for male teachers also cannot be accepted.

In 2005, already has one years working experience of Liu Mingyang began duty on duty officer. But unexpectedly, he still did not meet with parents of children in the class, heard the news of parents has found a Director requirements and replaced with female teachers on the grounds that: male teachers have no female teachers caring, if at

Brutal temper, is likely to hit the child.

Liu Mingyang and parents meet the meeting, introduced to the parents of different male and female teacher. \"I may not have female teacher carefully, but I will certainly more dynamic than female teachers with class. ”

At the same time, on the love issue, male teachers were not smooth.

Wu Lei and Liu Mingyang while the second male kindergarten teachers of the Department of Commerce, both men are of Zhengzhou teachers college students, young man was 25 years old this year, but are not in love on the issue of smooth. \"That we work in the kindergarten of\" man and aunt \", many girls, including their parents would feel that the work is not good, it is to find the appropriate object of a very important reason. \" Liu Mingyang said, teachers \' wages are not high, and because he is male, it is difficult to be completely accepted by society, social status is not high, coupled with a lot of people that are difficult to get rid of old ideas , we now own and male colleagues, in love and marriage are not smooth on the issue.

Working advantage

Dynamic foot will help children to grow up

Liu Mingyang has more than 30 kids in her class, they did not call his teacher, but call him \"COF-fee\", which was his nickname, he hoped that the children with him have no constraints, more free and easy. Addition and female teacher is responsible for the care of the children to dinner, outside the class, male teachers also need active time in the children tried coaxing them to pla

y.

In the \"play\" when teachers will appear different for men and women out. It is reported that female teachers and children to play with some such as childhood games such as smaller games, while the teachers take their children to play with some of the activities of large projects, such as competitive racing. \"Male teacher with a class of children would be more\" crazy \", which is what we want to see, children full of life is a good thing. \" Liu Mingyang said.

In the province, man and child care division of labour based on the kindergarten teachers is different.

Lei Zhu is Jinming industial sports teachers of the kindergarten in Kaifeng city. In 2002, he as the first male nursery teachers into the kindergarten in Kaifeng city, now total of 3 men in his kindergarten teacher. But remain a large number of men engaged in early childhood education as a whole in Kaifeng, Lei Zhu said that he knows is currently about 6 male child care teacher in Kaifeng. Lei Zhu and his male colleagues are taught professional courses, \"I teach physical education, in addition to classes, also responsible for some of the logistical work, participate in the work of the year, but also because is not working hard, willing to male teacher in kindergarten , I went, later found himself really quite like this line\".

And Liu Mingyang kindergarten, male teachers are all in the front line duty. Director of aim male teacher really play to the role of the teacher, \"they are teachers, cannot work because of gender differences.\" Liu Zhijuan said that fact also proves that not only women can do in a career in early childhood education, males can do even better. \"Children, parents are now like the male teacher, dragging many parents want to male teachers taught children transfer to the class, they feel that the child was brought up with a male teacher will be more conducive to the overall development of children on the personality. ”

Masculine, can balance the kindergarten t

eachers team

Relevant data show that in foreign countries, male child care teacher is widespread. Japan about 7% of male teachers in kindergartens, Director almost entirely male; United States about 10% of male teachers in kindergartens, while the proportion of male teachers in China is low, there are many kindergartens are almost all women. In contrast, men and children in recent years teachers in the South also rise in the number, some kindergartens in half the number of male teachers account for all teachers.

It is understood that many include public, private kindergartens in Zhengzhou are now recruiting male teachers, but because of the State-run kindergartens in terms of quality filter more stringent, relatively speaking, the male teachers but rather than State-run kindergartens in the number of private kindergartens. But many private kindergarten just attract parents of recruiting male teachers as \"stand\" male teachers working in the garden of insignificant, quality is uneven.

Yesterday, master of science in preschool education from Shenzhen Lee Chun kit describes himself made a year \"man and aunt\", now has been engaged in a national publicity and business exchanges of men kindergarten teachers work. He said that males join the kindergarten is so concerned about, is the male character, men daring to take risks, active and range of knowledge such as rugged heroic side and woman teacher\'s gentle and delicate side of complementarity, within the work environment of the softness , early childhood education will be normalized.

While in kindergarten this special group, male teacher need to adjust your frame of mind, the most taboo is also being \"assimilation\".
Community calls for

Gap, welcome the more enterprising individuals

It is reported that many although male teachers are introduced in kindergarten, but the number is very small. Coupled with the relatively kindergarten is a more traditional industries, less communicati

on with the other industries, this leads to male teachers narrow scope of human communication, often feel \"alone\".

Liu Mingyang and his male colleagues are beginning a career: they established a Fellowship of men kindergarten teachers in Henan province, want the province of men kindergarten teachers joined, forming a group together to do early childhood education as a long-term undertaking.

Liu Mingyang said, 2004 when he joined the ranks of the kindergarten teachers and two students are not understood by people, while now they SA gradually fell in love with this line, 2005 another student also joined themselves to them, kindergarten this year has attracted two men fresh normal graduates. From the beginning of loneliness, to today\'s 6 man team, he and male colleagues who want to do early childhood education as a career. Less while the preschool education in China, will be in early childhood education

One of the drawbacks. Now, joining organizations of men kindergarten teachers a total of more than 10 people, this figure was somewhat disappointed by their: \"in China, there are more than 20 people in Zhengzhou city, at the door, why can\'t we exchange, how contacts are? Can make up a collective, in addition to business communications, I also hope that we can become a powerful force in the community, involved in more pro bono work, let men kindergarten teachers also receive social recognition and respect. ”