Often say that the children fool, do children really dull? Experts say parents worded properly, will affect the psychological!
Madam Lee had a son, the child in front of the school they are obedient, sometimes out of the House special face, education of parents in a kindly manner, but the effect is not good. No way, parents often scold him, under violence, son of convergence, is not as good as the people children. On one occasion, he because something does not meet the purpose, slept on the floor and roll, was the child\'s father had a butt. Afterwards, Lady Lee to find their children make mistakes when asking him, he has a stutter of phenomena. After school, very simple topic, he often because of careless mistakes, parents can not help but say that he \"fools\", asked for his careful, frequently reminded, he was made a number of low-level errors, dead adults are worried. Ms Li doubts, is improper because parents education methods, influence the mental health of children, make children really silly?
Children\'s mental education experts said Nanjing Normal University Professor Fu Hong, parent education method incorrectly, often say that the children fool, will definitely affect the child\'s mental health, resulting in dull appearance. As a child with stuttering is the phenomenon of psychological problems, not biological problems, his language skills insufficient, on the impact of early childhood are not appropriate. Fu said the inferiority of ADHD children, and why? In fact, ADHD itself does not cause the child inferiority, but creates his violation of social norms and rules and regulations, teachers and parents will criticize him and scolded him, causing his psychological pressure, feel themselves well, always being criticized, a long time , and inferiority.
Professor Fu recommends that parents may wish to observe the actions of children, language, and less to interfere in his behavior was duly given the boot.
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