Babies use toys eight points for attention parents

Toys are the most intimate partner child childhood, for the baby, does not mean that play, babies can see toy colors, shapes, toys sound of, hard and soft touch toys and a series of activities, stimulate the development of baby\'s sight, hearing, touch, and so on. Perception of children but also to transport all kinds of stimulation of the brain signals, promoting the development of brain functions. However toys is good, when babies use toys, has eight points require attention parents:

A baby within the scope of activities, all power sockets shield; ensure that the front door, the door closed, so that the baby climb to outdoor danger.

Two parents note purchase cleaning the toys. Because the baby likes to keep everything in his mouth.

Before the three to baby toys, to ensure that the toy parts no wobbles or falls off.

Playing four not to leave the baby alone there are many small parts of toys, so that the baby swallowing parts accidents.

Five-ensure the safety of toys, furniture materials can make the baby bites (toys, furniture that you want to use non-toxic paint, fabrics and dyes).

Six inside and outside the examination room toys have sharp corners or debris, particularly those with prolonged use of old toys.

Seven use qingshuihe SOAP to clean babies use toys in a timely manner. Detergents in the shops to buy green SOAP tincture for a class of powerful liquid soap. Toy washing drying in the Sun after the clean disinfection.

Eight not heavy boxes of toys into the top cover to prevent roof fall accidents, short Cabinet and activities parents can use open boxes to receive toys.

Three features of the boy

Every parents want their children smarter, but exactly what is clever, it is not clear and uniform standard. Some people think, learn good children can be considered a clever boy. In fact, this view is too one-sided.

　　

　　

Smart kid can be divided into two categories

A child\'s clever, mainly in their learning, learn well in exams score higher. This type of smart kids, often found by parents and teachers and attention.

Another category of children clever table now as \"children first\", \"Chief of children\", \"class\", the children of smart is that they\'ve shown a very strong social adaptive capacity, including competitiveness, innovation, communication ability and adaptability, ability to work, research ability, these are the \"multiple intelligence\" children.

However, this type of smart kids, often not easily found by parents and teachers, and attention.

Child clever parents do what

In recent years, the United States psychologists point out that: If only to selection of outstanding academic performance is good or bad for children. So, it is possible to make about 70% highly creative abilities of children losing.

This is, should caused General parents, and teachers and society of height concern and attention, because from in China now of actual status view, many parents ambitious for one\'s children, and looked female into Phoenix of concept more serious, often in on children of education and training Shang , learning results caught was tight, and on children of multiple ability of training often on does not too attention, this on children future entered social is adverse of.

To this end, we should promote and emphasize the development of \"multiple intelligence\" children. Parents must know: children learn today, is for tomorrow can better adapt to

society, contributing to society. Therefore, parents should pay attention to fostering children\'s abilities since childhood, children learn \"survival\" skill.

Talking about children are clever, many parents will think intelligence tests. Many parents brought their children to different institutions do an intelligence test and consultation. Some parent-child test score very much, and to determine whether their children clever. In fact, test results can only be used as a reference to the child because the child\'s intelligence is in a period of rapid development, far from stereotypes and improving, a test score not indicate children the true level of intellectual development , much less children can achieve a level of intelligence to foresee the future.

Boy of three characteristics

Parents and children be closely associated in the process, through the observation of children\'s behavior, problem-solving ability, understanding on children\'s intelligence should be more accurate than an intelligence test. So, what kind of child wise does? Psychology-related theory is that the thinking is the core of intelligence, we went from thinking ability to see what are the characteristics of boy.

1. thinking with flexibility

Flexibility of thinking mainly in the while addressing the issues faced, in a relatively short period of time to find effective solutions. Is able to solve the problem quickly and efficiently.

If you have a four year old boy, while playing a ball out to the tree in the hole, cannot be directly out, he thought of by water injection method so that the ball came up, so as to achieve the purpose.

In this case, the child showed the flexibility of thinking, because he could come up with effective solutions in a short time.

Flexibility through a certain way of thinking consciously fostering, training is the key to enable children to develop positive thinking and love good habits of the brain.

2. thinking withdivergence

Divergent thinking is referred from different ideas to find different ways to solve the problem. Students in solving problems of \"a problem with several\" is a typical training of divergent thinking.

If, in a trial, a child aged five can say \"cloth\" of more than 30 kinds of uses and \"water\" more than 50 kinds of uses, showing very strong divergence of thought.

Divergent thinking is one of the important manifestation of the strong imagination. Because imagine a he, Lenovo is the process of common features of different things, that is the process of divergent thinking.

3. thinking positive

Thinking the enthusiasm of the strong performance of children with a strong sense of curiosity and desire to learn, for children, strong thirst for knowledge, curiosity and exploration of spiritual and intellectual development of the most closely related.

Because the same congenital conditions, children participate in the interest of the higher, the higher the level, the more you can promote the development of intelligence to attain higher levels, and high level of intelligence and will, in turn, increase participation , exploration interest. Almost every child in the process of growing up, there will be some time on everything from the outside world with a strong curiosity, parents must pay attention to the protection of children\'s curiosity and thirst for knowledge, and guide them to develop more active a wide range of interests.

More than a simple list of clever children thinking characteristics. Of course, most of the children are closer to middle levels of intelligence, particularly high and is only a small part of the particularly low.

Intelligence is in congenital neural PhysiologyAdopted on the basis of the characteristics of children developed, therefore, as long as the child\'s birth normal, by parents in the activities of the correct guidance, believe that every child can become clever boy.

Often said that the children fool, boy is so dull?

Often say that the children fool, do children really dull? Experts say parents worded properly, will affect the psychological!
　
Madam Lee had a son, the child in front of the school they are obedient, sometimes out of the House special face, education of parents in a kindly manner, but the effect is not good. No way, parents often scold him, under violence, son of convergence, is not as good as the people children. On one occasion, he because something does not meet the purpose, slept on the floor and roll, was the child\'s father had a butt. Afterwards, Lady Lee to find their children make mistakes when asking him, he has a stutter of phenomena. After school, very simple topic, he often because of careless mistakes, parents can not help but say that he \"fools\", asked for his careful, frequently reminded, he was made a number of low-level errors, dead adults are worried. Ms Li doubts, is improper because parents education methods, influence the mental health of children, make children really silly?

Children\'s mental education experts said Nanjing Normal University Professor Fu Hong, parent education method incorrectly, often say that the children fool, will definitely affect the child\'s mental health, resulting in dull appearance. As a child with stuttering is the phenomenon of psychological problems, not biological problems, his language skills insufficient, on the impact of early childhood are not appropriate. Fu said the inferiority of ADHD children, and why? In fact, ADHD itself does not cause the child inferiority, but creates his violation of social norms and rules and regulations, teachers and parents will criticize him and scolded him, causing his psychological pressure, feel themselves well, always being criticized, a long time , and inferiority.

Professor Fu recommends that parents may wish to observe the actions of children, language, and less to interfere in his behavior was duly given the boot.

Parents \' words and deeds in the early admission of five taboo

　　

They say parents are children\'s first teachers, words and deeds of parents for children tend to have a decisive influence, especially just entered kindergarten children. Ten acres of gardens in Jinan City primary school kindergarten Director Bi Wei remind parents, in the early admission, avoid the following five categories of words and deeds.

A bogey with nothing to go with promise

In kindergartens often see such a scene at the door: child holding parents, eager to get out of the parents, it\'s very small, said: \"don\'t cry, I\'ll pick you up.


\"Children have parents convinced some children every few minutes to ask it again:\" teacher, why is my mom still does not? \" Once again crying. Some children refused to eat, NAP than goes to bed, says mother to meet him at home. This promise with nothing to go with children living in hopeless wait all day and cry sad.

The second bogey regret

See child cry was not, some parents often went back to their children wiping tears, hug, and Kiss, when doing so will give children a message: I don\'t want to leave father and mother, father and mother also reluctant to me. Thus, children of separation anxiety increased.

Three bogey midway visit

Child to kindergarten, parents at ease. A glance at some parents will excuse to send clothing, some outside the fence, waiting quietly under the shade. Child see parent figure fly also ran, parents tell their children: \"I am to see you, not your home. \" Children began to cry desperately. Some parents than child, take the children away, other children scene brings back memories, more sad.

Four-bogey then stop

Kindergartens often received a call from this: \"today\'s no class this afternoon in the garden? Children NAP not up, to let the children sleep, leave this afternoon not to go all r

ight? \"So cold a few days \' rest, throat crying hoarse for rest days, parents rest, children are also a few days \' rest. So stop, child\'s crying time than a serious, admission adapt to the indefinite extension of the period. And the child grew out of the General disruption, growing gap with the child in the class, will certainly affect the child\'s self-confidence.

Five-bogey back asking

Sometimes parents eager to understand the situation of children kindergarten, I\'ll ask: \"did you cry? \"\" Anyone bully you? \"\" Did naughty? \"\" Other people have small red flower, how can you not? \"This class asks, are back to ask, give rise to negative feelings of the child. \" Today is not happy? \"\" Did you make a new friend today? \"\" Have fun tell mother? \"These positive can ask joy of guiding the children concerned kindergartens to themselves, play down the sense of discomfort, so am kindergarten is a place to keep people happy.

Clever parents educate children to do three things

　　

Parents treat their children without outside three cases: first, tube, pipe, doing a lot of things, the effect is bad; second, everything, doing nothing, unchecked, more bad effect; three tubes, but not all pipes, has not done much, but the point, success in the growth of the child. Clever parents of boy children always choose \"does\", more specifically, do only three things.

First thing: healthy parent-child relationship

Good parent-child relationship can bring the family to a multiplier effect. When do parents and children relations, and on the child\'s education is likely to succeed; when bad relationship with the children, on children\'s education easy to fail. Establish good parent-child relationship, its location is the key.

Improper 1, \"judges\", \"lawyer\".

Some parents see their children out of the question, can\'t wait worked as a \"judge\", this is very dangerous.

Learn to do the \"lawyer\" refers to parents treat their children as lawyers take their parties, understanding their inner needs, and has always been to maintain their legitimate rights for the purpose only. Children the inner world of colorful, parents need to actively influence and educate children, does not understand their inner world is impossible. Understanding child care is the first tips of their self-esteem and preserve its rights, as its trusted and respected friend.

2, improper \"referee\", \"Lala\".

In the arenas of life, children himself to efforts. Parents are no substitute for children, also should not do it ourselves to when the \"referee\", and children should be given a good competitive power of the State, that is, \"Lala\" power. It can help your child build self-confidence, and this is the core task of the family.

Parents make their children \"Lala\", it is necessary to be good at discov

ering and praise your child\'s strengths and efforts, and also to guide children properly failure in children suffer a setback when his comrades.

3, improper \"Tamer\", \"mirror\".

Education is the education-third, seven parts. \"Wait\" is very useful. Mosquito bites such as us, regardless of it, will soon be all right, if total to scratch, but a long time to good. The reason is that the human body have a certain amount of self healing features impose external forces tend to backfire.

Education is also the reason, will not do \"Tamer\", stopped to wait, giving children the opportunity to be heard, and the child to communicate effectively, solve the problem without education.

Children only know themselves can beat themselves, but they usually only know themselves according to feedback from others, parent feedback effects that \"mirror\" effect is important. Parents learn to be \"the mirror\", can help children improve their awareness, to let the child do not be afraid of her parents \' \"authority\", and parent communication.

The second thing: children good habits

Used to decide the fate of the parents if you fail to pay attention to cultivate good habits in children is undoubtedly in bury the child a better future.

1 cultivation began, all from the habit.

Facts prove that habit is a strong force, can dominate one\'s life. All begin with cultivating habit of children.

2, the habit is not a day.

Formation of good habits are in no way a day, its main principles are: low starting point and strict demands, small steps, fast paced, multiple activities, seeking change, fast feedback, correction. Habit lies in the first three days, decided in a month. Parents need to fully respect the rights of children, let the children play in habit master role.

3 cast character, through the training habits.

Education is like up at sea, must be the correct route, otherwise bigger danger of sunken rocks the boat. Human qual

ity determines the direction of development. Family education is the core task of training children to be a real person.

The third thing: attract children love learning and guide children learning to learn

Love is the best teacher. Attracting children love learning and guide the child learning to learn is an important duty of the parents.

1, children who are tired of is a reason.

Let, let smart; pipe blind pipe, type of bean; nagging scold, wanton curse; instead of the package to create \"machine\" sth If parents take so many sensible approach will only make children less and less fond of learning.

Kids love learning not just surface phenomenon, there must be reason behind: there is no good study habits? Haven\'t found children do best? There is no scientific brain? Is impeded by the parents children \"play school\" nature? Children unaware of the study is his own business sth Find the reason behind, can help the child out of boring in the shadows.

2, child\'s thirst for knowledge and learning potential can be fired.

Children lack of intellectual curiosity, usually is not a request of the parents is not strict enough, but parents impeded the child\'s interest.

Interest sense of curiosity, dreams, achievements, questioned, gratitude, and strenuous, are clear and inspire intellectual curiosity of the children channel. For children, development of so-called competitive advantage is the potential to be effective. Mood, resuscitation, implied, reverie, motivation, six principles of the plan is to motivate children learning potential.

Timetable for potential development although not absolute, but there are steps, such as the establishment of targets, controlling emotions, honed the will, the focus point is very important.

3, let your children learn outstanding is a method.

\"Love\" is a \"learn\" the premise \"to learn\" is \"love\" guarantee, \"learn\" to \"learn\".

Children to achieve excellent academic per

formance, you must have some good way to have a decisive role, such as a complete learning objectives as planned, carefully writing, take your textbook, finishing the wrong problem, readily notes, the selfless help students, efficient examinations, write compositions freely.

Now many parents in the education of children has entered a new misunderstandings on the issue, that is, blind blind faith even addicted to the so-called successful experience in son, but these experiences listening to easily done. Because they do not have \"mobility\", if you just blindly imitate, not only failed to fulfill upon their children, but easy to \"imitate foolishly\", the opposite.

Most useful thing is the need to get down to thinking and refine. Education children and imagination without parents as complex, and doing a parent-child relationships, custom training and learning events in all three, parents become prominent parents, children become outstanding children, it is not a distant dream.

How can parents help babies out of the Woods

Parents are the first teachers of children in family, on the road of life, the children encounter many setbacks, as a parent, how can we help children out of the psychological difficulties? We try to tell the child the following 5 life point.

1. tell kids Ecstasy is the success of a short cut

Ecstasy is a short cut to success, only in this environment, the bondage of will go beyond their own, releasing an enormous amount of energy. In fact, in our lives, learning, it is necessary to adjust such ecstasy. He can enhance people\'s confidence and courage to overcome difficulties, passive to active. In our struggle, if you want to be successful, the first thing to do is to get rid of their own sense of being bound, and Ecstasy is undoubtedly the best way.

2. help the child out of thinking habits

In real life, difficulty is often like \"Rock\", lurking in our minds and hearts. When we meet it, cowardly will enlarge it, dripping from a zoom in to a river, from a river to enlarge to a sea, in the end, cowardly difficulties 1.1 point to enlarge, we fear also 1.1 points, quail, can\'t get out of the shadows of the mind.

We want to successfully Xuan Xuan, marvelous, we stop, stop, dare not go, spray Fong pistil dazzling flower is too difficult to get rich, when, in reality, the ugly duckling has become the White Swan day. That\'s not a myth, the key is to get out of the shadows of the mind, out of inertia, undaunted courage took off!

Do you want to the first name of this term? Then get rid of \"stones\", brave fight! \"Go my own way, let the people go\", as long as you relaxed your choice, stick on it.

3. Select a carrot, an egg or coffee beans?

Stress although can not change, but you can choose your own attitude to adversity. The face of adversity, what would you choose? You appear to be tough, but winced after suffering and adversity, has turned soft, lost the power of carrots do? You are inside the original plastic egg do? Do you first temperament of the people, but after the setback is not strong? Or do you like coffee? Beans change gives him pain of boiling water, and gives off aromatic.

We should learn to face the world and philosophy. Not as easily as a carrot to environmental yield; like eggs and coffee are the same, strong in the face of adversity or use his powers to change adversity.

4. the shadow is paper Dragon

Fate has been hiding in our minds. Many people go out to the various stages of life, or shadow of the big or small, not because they are how far individual conditions are worse than others, but because they have no patience slowly finding a direction, a step forward, until the new Dong Tian.

5. go their own way and let the others say go

The same thing, in the eyes of different people have different views. So we have to believe in themselves and adhere to go its own way, because others may not be correct.

In life, everything we do, could face some criticism also usher in some people\'s appreciation. Because everyone because of the different views, views are not the same to the same thing, in the view of some people is ugly things, in other people\'s eyes, was wonderful. Whether criticism is appreciated, we don\'t have to care too much, as long as do their best to do everything on the line.